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Today in Life Skills, my school counselor told us girls "all 13-year-old boys care about is looks." (it's not a co-ed class) She also went on to say that 13-year-old boys only like girls with big boobs and a big ass. She said that they are very shallow, but the best thing for us to do is wait for them to grow up.

Is this really true? Do boys only notice boobs and butts on a girl and nothing else? It doesn't make me feel too good knowing that, because I certainly don't have a big butt and big boobs, and I'd like to have a boyfriend.

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Yup. It's true.

So, wait until you're older, because you won't have a meaningful relationship at 13 anyway. A complete waste of time and dissatisfaction.


Ok i'm 13/f n i'm in 8th grade. i haven't met a new guy in a while, but today on the bus there's this cute guy my age and he's rlly cool and i really want to impress him, even if i find out i don't like him i still need sum new guy frends (i go to an all girls school)so tomorrow i want to lik impress him n stuff.....so i need some advice on lik how i shud act n how i shud do my hair n make-up (im 5 feet 0inches, brown hair, brown eyes) I rate high.

-Paris- (link)
Pretend you're bisexual.


What does "finally g1" mean?? (link)
Tell him to stop being retarded and speak like a normal human being. He's probably a cave man. GRAHGHARRR G1!


I am a shy teen girl in high school and I recently meet a guy and I felt an instant connection, but I'm not sure if he did. It seems like he likes me but I'm not sure. He has asked me about my interests and I've caught him looking my way in the corner of my eye more than a couple of times, it seems like he kind of does that to everyone else though. I just don't want to be shut down. Should I make a move and also how so? (link)
If you don't know what his favourite colour is yet, then no. In other words, slow down. Learn more about this guy. If you still want him after finding out what his fav. colour is, then yes you should make a move. Don't be afraid of being shut down. If you fail, then he wasn't right for you anyway. You don't really have anything to lose, only something to gain. Right?


well my ex boyfriend is always sitting next to this girl Kaitlin at lunch... and it really makes me mad! im so jealous that hes like basically in "love" with her when i cant get him to go back out with me! i guess im trying to say... how do i get him to like me again..? DONT say, talk to him or that kinda crap! im trying to win him over! ((will rate 5's)) (link)
You can't. In other words, get over it.


I need some help on picking something out for my boyfriend for christmas... We havent been going out long but i really like him. I want to show him so I want to buy him something that he'll really like. If guys have ideas for me for my boyfriend... please let me know! THANKS :) (link)
Well what kind of stuff does he like? Music? Your best bet is probably a CD. Or if he's into video games then a gift card to like EB games or Best Buy. If those 2 things don't work, try a fish tank.


okay well i like this guy and i have liked him since last year.. well He came up to me ,because i made hima picture last year and he came up to me today and he was like " I still have that picture you gave me and then he showed me and then we just talked about stuff... do you think he likes me and if i asked him out if he would say yes???? please answer this question nicley and i will give you a 5 Because i need the help!!! with this

love Brittany (link)
Ok, I want you to listen very carefully to my advice: pick-up lines. Got it? Pick-up lines. That is your best shot right there. Whip out some good, cheesy lines and use them on him. I think you would be best off with the "nice shoes, wanna fuck?" one. Give it a try. If he laughs and jokingly responds with "yes!" then he's probably trying to hint at something. At this point, you should ask him out. You'll definitely get another "yes."


A new friend of mine (been my friend for about 3 months) who I've had a crush on for a bit IMed me the other day. He told me wanted me to fill something out. He sent me one of those "would you do this with me? how do you feel about me? etc" surveys that I'm sure we've all seen. I laughed and tried to dodge filling it out. Then he finally said "Listen, I'll fill it out at the same time and we can send it on the count of three." So we did. Both of results were pretty much the same... we like each other as way more than a friend.

Things got ackward. He told me he was seriously blushing to break the silence... we both tried to change the subject and talk for a while, but I guess we both felt weird. Out of nowhere, he shifts the conversation to "I wanted to stay single for a while, so I'm mad because I have a new girlfriend." and I'm like "WHAT?!" and he told me about his new girlfriend, but didn't explain why after he asked someone out THAT DAY he would tell me he likes me THAT NIGHT. I can't figure this out. I'd understand if we were friends for a while, but we haven't been friends that long and we're not that close. I'm sad and don't know what to do. Why would he do this? Can anyone make any sense of him? (link)
I can make sense of him. He's a deceitful ugly man. Forget about him. Now. Think if you were his girlfriend and he was saying the same shit behind your back to another friend of his. Not pretty, is it?


There is this guy I like and i dont know if he likes me. he says he likes talking to me most in school but yet since people are making fun of our friendship he dont want to talk to me in person. I really like him and I dont want to lose him. What do I do?? (link)
Slap him and then kiss him. Sometimes, certain kinds of guys want the girl to be aggressive. You know. They want YOU to wear the pants. If that doesn't work, then forget about him because he sucks and you're better than him. But before you do that, call him stupid. It's very satisfying. In fact, maybe if you ignore him and play hard to get he'll chase after you!




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