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My name is Kisha. I have blonde hair. I have DARK brown eyes. They are so dark, they look black! I am 5'5 (ya I'm a shorty). I have 3 favorite colors. Blue, pink, and green! THEY KICK AZZ!!!!
I am a sports girl. I love to play basketball. Volleyball is tight too! I love acting. I have awards from it. It's something everyone can do. Singing is fun. I am in a singing group with some of my best friends. We sang at a wedding once. Dancing is something I could do all day! Shopping is another thing! It's what girls do! I skateboard sometimes. I snowboard too. Even though I fall on my butt a lot. I dont snowboard often though. I love hanging out with all my friends. Who doesn't? I love playing the bass guitar. It's fun! And one thing I do a lot is laugh! I got one of my nicknames from laughing. GIGGLES! I am the kind of girl who will laugh until it hurts!
E-mail: rubberducky4200@yahoo.com
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Location: Medford, Oregon
Occupation: 9th Grader @ South Medford High School
Age: 14
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see i dont know what to do i like this guy alot but he wants me to tell him why i like him what should i do? (link)
Tell him! It is always good to tell a guy how you feel! Cuz you never know! He might like you back! Tell me how it goes! :P!


ok im 16 and i was best friends with this girl and it always seemed like she liked every guy i liked.. i really liked this kid and of course she liked him too and he liked me but he didnt think i liked him so he asked her out instead.. she started to ignore all her friends for him and now she has no one but him practically... they have been dating for almost 8 months and he isnt "allowed" to hang out with any other girls because she will get mad but lately he has been hanging out with me again behind her back and he says he likes me and he always talks about "us" (me and him) and when he breaks up with his girlfriend how he wants to be with me.. i like him but i dont know what i should do because i think that it looks really bad on my part... if he breaks up with her should i go out with him or no? whoever he picks- me or her someone will get hurt in the end.. so i just dont know what to do.. please help sorry its so long and confusing

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It is pretty hard to choose. I have been through this.......god, I lost count. LoL. If I were you, I would wiat and see what happens. Talk to her about it. See what her opinion is. It may not seem like it will help, but if you sit her down and talk to her, it might. It is way better than just doing it....I hope I helped. Tell me how it goes! :)


I can't stop crying... 2 more hours until my baby leaves for the Navy... I just want to get strong again and STOP crying. I have cried so much that its starting to hurt the rest of my body. I have heard the figurative phrase saying 'her heart hurts.' But I never knew that this would literally hurt my heart... If anyone has any advice or anything... I just don't know how to pull myself together... (link)
As long as you keep in touch. Maybe by email, or phone, even cellhpone. Aways keep in touch. You could write letters to each other. Your baby needs to explore the world. Go to different places. Just keep in touch and you will excellento! LoVe Ya LoTs TaTeR tOtS! I hope I helped.


i liked this one kid for a really long time.. i only ended up telling a few people becuz i dont like every1 knowin.. then after awhile i found out he liked me for awhile too.. then he asked me out at 1:00 A.M on my birthday.. i said yea of course.. and then i didnt get a phone call from him or nothing.. then at 11:O0 P.M that night.. he told me he doesnt think we should go out anymore.. he never told me a reason though.. i asked him why he even asked me out in the first place and he said i dunno.. he said he was sorry n everythin.. i think i might still like him but i cant say i loved him cuz we were neva together long.. wat shuld i do.. try n get ova him or still like him? (link)
I may be wrong, but knowing a lot of guys myself (I mostly have HOT guy friends), he just wanted you for sex, or a one night/day stand. He probably just asked you out because it was your birthday. I am not trying to be mean, but that sounds like what he was doing. Or maybe you 2 are too good of friends to go out. I hope I helped.


Ok, I really like this guy Dillon and I also like his friend Drew but Drew told me he likes me too but has a girlfriend. Dillon on the other hand is single and I dont know if he likes me too but Dillon and I broke up earlier in the year I still love him and I want to tell him but I like Drew too. Wut do I do? (link)
Compare what you have in common with each of them. Compare how much fun you have with one another.


hi everyone, this is kinda embarrassing but i jerk off up to 10 times a day. i can't stop, and i've had sex with girls but they get totally worn out cuz i wanna go so many times. i need advice on how to stop doing it. i can masturbate to anything also, it's like i'm aroused by the smallest stuff. helphelphelp!! (link)
I have 4 words for ya. You need a psychiatrist.


ok. ive liked this guy for a couple yrs now and i thought he liked me too. but ever since he started talking to my friends online, all i ever hear is how he likes them and how hott he thinks they are-- but he's never even met them! sometimes me and this guy (he's also my neighbor) walked around the neighborhood at night and it seemed like he liked me as more than a friend. but other times im jsut treated like the "annoying next door neighbor". ive tried to tell him how i feel by writing a note, but he read it threw it away. i know he knows i like him but he doesnt even acknowledge it in any way. i dont know what to do about this. it seems as if he ignores me when im around him; i dont know what to do!

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Sit him down and talk it out with him. Tell him how you really feel. And ask questions if it is neccesary. I hope i helped! Rate me plz!


can guys be bisexual (link)
Of course! Everyone can be. But I dont wanna lol. Guys can be gay, bi, or even lez. Because they likes girls. LoL. In other words straight.


WHAT is up with all these questions "like omg omg" thats not cool (link)
I know it gets annoying but we have to deal with it :)


k i hav a bf he is awesome wev been out places be4 my moms never met him nos about him tho and he wants me to go over his house i want to go if i ask my mom what if she wants to talk to his mom first or something? ugh i hate that. who nos hois parents might not even b there.. (link)
It is always better to ask first. What if something bad happened to you? Your mom would be worried sick.


Hii. i was reading what uve been writeing to everyone and u seem like u have helped soo many people so i had a question i have been really confused. i have been dateing this guy for about a year now. he is my 1st bf. we have been in and out of fights and we break up with each other and usually hook back up the next day but this time we broke up and it has been about a week. he tells me he loves me and he misses me everyday and other time of the days hes all pissed and he doesnt say shit. what should i do? my friend say he relly loves me and wants to work things out and he wants to ask me out again what should i do should i just get over him or keep loving him? hehas taken a big part of my life. i know confuseing but i dunno what to do anymore. (link)
Maybe he just got sick of what has been going on. Maybe he is just taking a break.


female,20 2 children eldest 2 youngest 7 weeks,differant dads when i drink alchol i get violent not al the time just when im stressed my partner over the past 4 weeks my partener has broken my finger n given me a black eye on both occasions he has said sorry and it will never happen again. he has taken my eldest son on as his own. i dont want to be a single mum with 2 children by differant fathers but i dont want to be a nervous wreck either i feel low in myself he alwys puts me down telling me im ugly and fat i just dont know which way to turn the violence only happens when we are both drunk please give me advice.


this is what my girlfriend wrote.
just to clear a few things up. she used to hit me a lot. after about 5 different incidents a told her that if she didnt seek help i was leaving her. she went to see a shrink once! when she said i broke her finger what actually happened was she hit me so i held her hand so she hit me with the other so i grabbed that hand to so then she butted me in the nose so i butted her back and pushed her off the bed and thats how she broke her finger.
with the black eye we had an argument so i went and got in the spare bed she followed me in a started shouting and went for me and proper scratched my face (which has scared) so i pushed on the bed so she came for me again so i punched her. now i thoroughly regret what i did and the only reason it happened is coz we had both had vodka. i have quit drinking full stop. she on the other hand hasnt. i do really regret what happened but no one out there is perfect. i love her to pieces and i WONT do it again no matter wat u woman say. u woman have said leave him and get a restraining order. would u say that if u were twenty didnt work but looked after the kids while ur boyfriend went out and earned u both £25,000 a year and gave u everything u wanted. gave up his social life and got rid of all his friends to stay in every nite and look after you and the kids. i dont think u would. i know money aint every thing but it does help provide her with a good life style (link)
STOP BEING AN ALCOHOLIC!! Beer does that to ya!


ok i love my b/f of 5 months with ALL OF MY HEART!!! i cant stand the thought of him not with me. lately i have had this dream. it goes like this: one night when i get off the fone with him we say we love each other, good night, sweet dreams, etc. and during the fone call he was acting different. then in the morning i got to school and i go up to say hi and just start talking to him and i try to hold his hand and he pulls away from me. the only thing he said to me was "hi" and then i ask "whats wrong baby?" and he just like ignores me and walks off. then the rest of the day i try to make contact with him but he wont do anything but ignore me and walk off!
what does this mean? does this mean i am afraid of him not being my b/f the next day or what?
PLEASE HELP ME! I AM DESPERATE! its been going on for like a week! (link)
You are just paranoid that you will lose him. This happens to anyone in puppy love or in love. It will pass over. You have just got to learn how to trust him.


I have never had a true boyfriend before, and well im kinda lonely, so a couple days ago i asked my dog out and he said yes, so now me n my dog are going out, he asked me if i wanted to give him head but i told him i wasnt ready wen i really was i cant believe i lied to him...ok well imma go give him head...do you think tis wrong to go out with your dog? (link)
You have problems deary.........


i have said "I love you!" to my b/f for about 4 months and about 3 days ago until now i have been saying "Ii like you!! but then i correct myself what does that mean? am i falling out of love with him? HELP ME!!!!!
~sydra~ (link)
Love just cant stop hun. Maybe the love you had, is turning back into a crush. But no matter what you will always love him. Like you said, you have been saying "I love you" to him for 4 months.




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