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ok...i went out wit this one guy..for not that long but i still have feelings for him...should i c if he has feelings for me too..or just forgwt about him and move on....what should i do


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If you still have feelings for him, and you are unsure about he feels for you, you should definitely find out if he likes you or not!! You never know, maybe he has feelings for you too and is just too afraid to mention it, But you definitely gotta find out, You never know unless you try!! Good Luck


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If your bf or gf got you a limo for a surprise for like 3 months of going out and it was a boxy kind of limo.. would you care? (link)
Nooo thats awesome!! Anyway its the thought that counts even though you probably heard that alot already.. I'm sure that he will appreciate it!! Have fun!!


My boyfriend, we'll call him *Bob*, and i always fight...like seriously, we can't get through a day with out fighting about something. but i love him with all my heart...and couldn't break up with him even if i tried...but what should i do? i can't handle all the argueing? (link)
Try talking to him and explain to him that you really love him but you can't stand fighting with him all the time because u really love him and u want to stay with him ... Maybe try watching what you say if you know certain little things that make him mad, try to avoid conversations that might start fights.. but basically i would just tell him what u told everyone here!! Good Luck with everything



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Hi, my names liza im 14... i have this guy lets call him *Dave* and we were goin out for like 16 months, and then yesterday he calls me sayin "yeah liez i have a gurl her name is kelly and laughs and says i know its gonna piss you off, oh well bye" and i cryed for hours, im still crying right now. i know it was stupid and i dont know what love is... but i really did i was seriously in love with this boy and i cut my like my whole arm up, and did a bunch of stupid things. i really dont know what to do anymore with my life i dont wanna live, i wish i was dead. does anyone have any ideas for me to get him backk or something cause i REALLY wanna get him back... and i dont know how to. s0o pleaseeeeee pretty please someone anyone please help!!!!! :( ill rate you, just please help me... xo liza (link)
Aww Liza, im sorry to hear about this! Break-ups are the really hard, i know how you feel. Well if he was that much of a jerk and after 16 months of dating he just calls and says he found someone else and says oh well? I dont think hes worth all the pain you are putting yourself through. And dont say you wish you were dead, I know at the time it feels like there is nothing else worth living for because he meant sooo much to you... But wanting to not be alive over a guy isn't worth it, there is plenty of other things that are worth living for, and i know right now you really want him back, but from what it sounds like.. hes a complete jerk ending it like that.. that was really rude and didnt consider your feelings at all and didnt care, i know this sounds hard right now when i say try to get over him, believe me i know you feel like its not possible right now, trust me i really do... but you possibly just might be better off without him.. its going to take a lil bit to get over him. But in time it will.. I know thats probably not what you wanted to hear.. but also try talkin to him about waht changed his mind and everything, who knows maybe he will end up wanting you back.. just try to talk things out wtih him and ask him why and everything if trying to get a better guy doesnt sound good to you.. Hope i helped hun...



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I really really like this guy but i dont think he likes me....my friend told him once on IM but he like didnt have a reaction or n e thing... i have kno clue what to do!!!
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Hmm.. thats a tough one. Try to talk to him about it to see how he feels. Just generally bring up the question about who he's into now a days.. If it seems like he likes you then just tell him how you feel... Or you can just tell him how you feel to start off with and then he will either say he likes you or he doesnt.. Hopefully he will say he does though! I dont know thats the best advice i can give i guess!! Good luck dear!



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What do you do when the guy you love most, doesn't and probably won't love you bak, and he is "in love" with your best friend...and you don't wanna let him go and u can't tell him how you feel cuz he doesn't talk to you ne more either...? And you would give ne thing to have back. (link)
I know exactly how you feel, i went through this not to long ago. But the best thing to do is to just get over him and let him go.. because trust me, the more you try to get him back, the further he will back off... Just wait for things to cool down a bit and wait for him to get over your best friend.. And for the not talkin to you part, just try to strike up a conversation with him or something or ask him why he wont talkto you anymore if you guys are still friends... but my best advice is to just try to get over him some how.. i know it sounds hard... but thats the best advice i can give because i had to learn to do that too not to long ago.. i guess you just cant change who the guy you like loves... :-/


im 14/f and i REally like this boy he is soo cute, and we alway stare at each other, i know he likes me to,and im older then him by 2years.is that bad?im just 2 shy to tell him how i feel.HELP MEH!!! (link)
Age doesn't matter when it comes to love mostly. But you being 14 would make him 12 which might mean he might still be a little immature about things, i dont know him though so he might not be. But give him a shot. Talk to him on im or write him a note telling him how you feel, because you said you know he likes you, so he will just end up telling you that he likes you too! Don't worry about it, it will be ok. Dont be shy!!

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i really like this guy...hes a year older then me..i kno he doesnt like me(at least i think he doesnt).. we flirt sometimes i guess... but how do i kno if he likes me or not? i dont wanna tell him i like him if he doesnt like me back!

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Just casually strike up a conversation and simply ask him who he has his eyes on these days, he will either tell you its someone else, tell you its you, or just kinda avoid the subject which might just mean he does like you! Try hinting to him that you like him without coming straight forward out and telling him. Or get a friend to hint it, whatever ur comfortable with!! Good Luck doll!!


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everytime I get a boyfriend and my dad hars about it he gose off , what should I do???!!!! he torments me!!!!!! (link)
Ha, dont you just love fathers? Yes they are just being overprotective of their little girls.. cuz i guess they know what guys can be like :-p But He's just being a dad. tell him it bothers you and maybe he will lay off a bit...


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How cAn I ge my boyfriend totalk to me???
all he dose is egnore me and Its like everytime I go to talk about him around his friends he gets red in the face andsays he dosn't know me.
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your own BOYFRIEND doesnt talk to you?!? And tells his friends he doesnt know you?!?! Wow.. dump his sorry ass, if he doesnt talk to you and is embarressed of you hes deinietly not worth it, get rid of him.. you can definitely do better!!


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Im 14 and ive never kissed a boy?! is that bad!? will people not date me because of that!? i mean boys have attempted to but i didnt let them because they were jerks and they just wanted sex! so help me! i need to know if thats a bad thing! and you'll probably say just to wait....he'll come to me but i cant wait any longer!! :*(

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It's not bad. Don't kiss just because everyone else is starting to.. Kiss when you are ready.. dont rush into anything you dont want to do. guys will understand, some guys might even think its cool that they might get to be your first..


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everytime I get a bf my friends think he's too ugly and that I need better, but it hurts him whenever i tell him what my friends think about him and makes me feel bad. I know how he feels because they dont know what hes like. I told them to stop but they keep at it. and my bf dosnt feel like doing any thing when im around bc of what my friends say. how do I get them to stop???? for me and him (link)
Tell your friends that it is basically none of their business! Looks shouldnt matter in relationships, as sad as it is, sometimes they take over, but they really shouldnt. If they say anything about him.. it might be better to just not tell him cuz it will hurt his feelings. But to get them to stop just sit down and talk to them and explain that it is hurting you and they really need to stop because there are alot of things in him that you really like and he makes you happy and suggest maybe if they would get to know him better, that they might see things in him too! Hope i helped


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my best friend is a guy and we've gone out twice but i've been talking to him alot and i'm starting to like him again but after we broke up last time i told my self we would just be friends but i don't know now. what should i do should i tell him try to forget about it or what (link)
Its okay to go for someone over and over. Besides the best boyfriends start off as best friends! Give it another shot because you apparently really have something for him!! Go for it, if it doesnt work out .. it doesnt.. just give it a shot. you will regret it if you dont


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All you can do is be yourself, if she doesnt like you for you theres nothing you can do about it. You have to tell her and just be sweet to her, girls love the littlest sweetest things . I'm sure that if she knows she is thinkin about giving you a chance.. You just hafta wait and everything will work out. Try hanging out with her and flirting a bit. Just be sweet, girls love it.


ok i have been dating my boyfriend for 2 years on and off....i am 16 years old..we really love eachother...are parents know and everything...today i went to a physic and she said we have no future wat so ever together...and it was so weird cause he told me not to go cause i will start basing my life on her...and hes right cause now its making me think am i wasting my time...but me n him always plan r future together even though we r young...do u belive in physics wat should i do? how can i overcome this (link)
Aww yeah i guess if i was in your shoes i would be kinda weirded out by the physic. But it seems as if you really really like him. I dont think you should be too weirded out by it, you're not wasting your time. If you stay with him things could either work out or not, you never know. But just giving up on him because of what a physic said, you will regret because you never know what will happen if you stay with him. I definitely think you should just forget about what the physic said because they probably arent even right. Definitely stay with him and see what the future holds!!!!!


i really like this guy. but he lives in another state. i dont get to see him very often, but i can talk to him online or on the phone. should i ask him out? (link)
If you really really like him, I'm sure you could find ways to make it work. It will be harder then close distance relationships, but if you both are willing to put as much work into it as possible, its worth a shot.


this guy i know wants to get back with me after he hurt me once got back with me hurt me again and then while i was getting over him he made out with a 12yr old girl when he is 18 and now he thinks everything is ok? (link)
Definitely don't go back to him. This has happened to me before.. my boyfriend cheated on me and i dumped him and then a few weeks i hung uot with him again to then know he HAD a gf that i didnt know about. Guys like that never change. They will always be players and they definitely arent worth it.. You deserve somone wayyy better sweetie.


heyy! i really need to know how to make out with someone bc i am goin to hook up with a kid at my camp and i really dont know how please dont say idk or ul get it i really need help!!!! thanx (F 15) (link)
Making Out definitely comes naturally, I can still remember when i was afraid to.. Being like ahh what if i mess it up. But i promise it just comes naturally. The guy will just lean in and lead into it.. Just follow theres nothing to worry about. I promise you that!


I really like this guy, lets say his name is anthony. Well me and anthony hang out alot. And we flirt a lot too. But he dont like me he likes my friend and my friend dont like him. And it hurts so much cuz i kno he likes her. And hes told me he thinks im hot and that i have a great body and that im koo to hang out with stuff like that. But he just tells my frieend that he likes her and that it. Idk wut it means or what todo. So basicly wut i wanna kno is how to get him to like me, and anyother things you guyz might think help????? (link)
Yeah, all girls hit this point at some time or another. I went through this not too long ago. It sounds as though he likes you though, if he doesn't thought and he is doing so much flirting, That's really not too cool of him to just lead you on ecspeicially if he knows you like him. Try just explaining your feelings to him and just let him know how you feel, because he could just as well like you and is too afraid you dont like him!! Just give it a shot, If it doesn't work out, theres plenty of other boys that im sure would love to go out with you!!


I really really like someone but i dont think that they would go out with me so .. what am i supposed to do ? i really wanna tell him but he likes other people..? (link)
I definitely think you should tell him dear. You never know. He could just as well like you to. You never know... Remember, More hearts are broken by words left unspoken.. Good Luck with him!!




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