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nAmE: KelleY
aGe: 13
sEx: female**
stAtuS: single..and hating it..=o(

advice

well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?

just follow your heart..who do you love more? your new love or your old? I think that you should stay with this person for awhile because you need a break from your old b.f if he cheated on you..and you dont want to make your old b.f think that he can cheat on you and get away with it! hope that helped Ox

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there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him

I had the same problem yet I didn't know that he liked me too but this is the same thing that happened to my friend without him liking her first..well if you flirt with him a lot he would get alil hint and then he will start hanging out with you and before you know it you guys will be going out! hope i helped Ox

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ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut???

yeah deffinitly..well if he already likes you then yeah..and about that thing about boys grabbing your butt..well if you like him dont tell him that haha. hope I helped Ox

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Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.

by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below.

all boys are like that..I mean all..I dont think theres one boy that isnt..yeah he likes you but around friends hes just weird..dont worry about..if you like him to talk to him! Ox

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hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself?

well you could write a note telling him that and asking if he would ever go out with you..? Ox

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my ex bfs brother really likes me and wants me to go out with him (lets call him mike) and so does my friends ex bf and hes rlly nice. but i really miss mikes brother and i couldnt stand 2 c him knowing that i miss his brother (lets call his brother bob) and so i miss bob and like mike but hes three and a half yrs older than i am too... and this other guy whos in my english class really likes me 2 (josh) and i dont want to upset any guys or get myself hurt again bc bob really hurt me, its been about 3 months since i went out with anyone bc i miss bob but im way too good 4 him but still cant resist liking him... what should i do??

I think you should go out with josh because for one mike is a lot older than you and like if your with mike and you see bob then you'll just think about how you wouold rather be with bob..but if you like mike better then follow your heart! hope I helped Ox

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ok welll i like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and i'm well... kinda preppy. The only reason i've really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When i talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized i liked him. I really dont kno if he likes me cuz he's so different from guys i normally like.. and soo different from me. Anyways we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and ya.. he always smilies and waves when he sees me and he is sooooo nice. I mean from what i can tell i barely kno him tho... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now i have no classes with him... i'm really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyways.. i really wanna talk to him and just get to know him better. but there are some problems... i'm pretty outgoing but i can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude...... most of his friends totally hate me.... and most of my friends dont realli kno him (and i wont tell them who he is)..... and i have no classes with him. He still waves to me tho. i need advice on how to like talk to frankie and like realli have a converstaion with him or just play around. i'm pretty creative, but with all the problems i dunno wut 2 do.... and i'm just not very bold when it comes to guys... plz help me find a way to talk to frankie!!!! (PS.. in case it helps, I'm 13)

alrightyy..well I would write him a note saying that it sucks you guys dont have any classes together anymore..and when you put your name on it put lil hearts next to your name for alil hint..and then I would tell your most trustworthy friend about him and say to Frankie that you and him and your "trustworthy friend" and one of his friends should hang out sometime (-you can put that in the note-) and see what he says if he says yes then make a day to do something and then after you do something like just hang out or something but if you wanna flirt then ask him how to teach you how to skateboard..if he does fall off lol I know it sounds stupid but he'll feel bad and help you up ! then the next day say to him I really had fun with you and I think I really like you (-either face to face or note again-) hope I helped! I have some other ideas too so if you dont like that one send one back and I'll give somemore advice! xo0 KelleY 0ox

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ok heres my problem.. i like these 2 guys. One is my best friends ex. boyfriend and they broke up a few days ago. Hes a sophmore. And hre goes to Ligonier. (Cord Taylor) The other one is a senior at Mt. Pleasant. (Spank Kastner) I dont know which one i like more. Mostly every weekend im with Cord and we might go tro Fright Nights this weekend. But if he takes another girl then i wanted to take Spank. Spank knows i like him though. His uncle told him biut i dont have the guts to tell Cord. My one friend was supposed to talk to him butidk if she did or not.
I want to go out with one of them that i can havbe fun with. Cause every time i go with friends, they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend with them and im always left out.
What can i do? i need help and alot of advice.

Signed:
Troublesome Redneck

well do either of them have g.fs? if one of them does focus on the other one if neither of them do forcus on the one you like more or have more fun with or you think is more into you and if they both do just be the biggest flirt you can be with both of them until one of them breaks up! hope I helped!

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i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us.

just like you said you just wanna be friends..that your sorry but all you see him as is just a friend nothing more..and that you dont wanna hurt his feelings you just think it would be weird because you guys are to close of friends..and if he continues to ask just say look I'm not trying to be mean but i dont like you like that and i dont think i would ever go out with you and if he seems upset in like an hour apologize and say that all you see him as is a friend! hope I helped*xo0 KelleY 0ox

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Is it wrong to like alot of people even though you know you only love one person. Saying my brothers girlfriends brother. He is my age but in a grade younger. Late bday and all. Now everyone knows. Including him. See theres this kid who knows him, lives by him, and has the same name. He knows me and he told him. Well like i wrote a note to who i reallie love and like he said he will go out with me but he doesnt reallie know me except knowin im his sisters boyfriends sister. Confusin? anyways My parents say i shouldnt be thinkin about boys at this age when im desperate i mean like everyone else is. But im not followin them. Why try to like sum1? Anyways please help me. Should I go out with him not be shy get to know him and take a risk without the parents knowin. Or be a sloucher no risks ever bein stupid no boy and parents that tease you about it even if u cant have a boyfriend. (my brothers teases me about his girlfriends brother bein my boyfriend, and m parents. but i CANT have a boyfriend) HELP

I would go from it..take the risk..and if your parents find out oh well..they cant make you break up with eachother..just get to know him..like whenever your brothers with his girlfriend you can be with your boyfriend..see it all works out..and after you get to know and you guys still like eachother stay together but if you dont like him break up! simple as that hehe =) hope I helped!

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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?

I was in the same situation..ok well when you guys hug make a deal with your friend or something so when you hug make her say is that all..I wanna see more! and then he'll kiss you! thats what my best friend/cousin did and now we kiss all the time without a care in the world! hope I helped! good luck =) eXoH KelleY

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14/f I wasn't sure what category to put this under. My brother's friends (17 years old) are quite horny but more so towards me. Last weekend I was getting a piggyback ride from one of my friends and 2 of his friends spanked me! Is this normal? I don't think they're gonna try anything on me because my brother would freak out. It doesn't bother me that much, almost at all. Should I be worried about this?

no there just messing with you to make your bro mad lol..my bros friends do the same thing..its alright..lol hope that helps lol

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alright so one of my friends was talking to the boy i like. she said "ooh you know who you'd look so cute with?" and he says, "no, who?" ... she says my name... and then he changes the subject. she didnt say what his facial expression was- only that he changed subjects. can anyone translate to their best ability of what he might have been thinking.. ex: "oh i like her... better not say yes and change the subject," or "ew her.. better not say anything or she might be hurt"... if you need me to better specify things- ill ask again later

well I think that maybe he likes you but he doesn't want your friend to tell you..try having her ask him if he would ever go out with different people and then just happen to menchine your name and see what he says..if he says yeah then it means he didn't want your friend to tell you but if he says no that means that it meant he didn't like you..hope I helped and good luck! xo0 KelleY 0ox

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