My boyfriend and I love eachother to death. We were best friends for four years before we decided to go out. We have been going out for five months. I feel like he doesn't find me attractive- desirable. I asked him, and he says he does. But he never calls me names like sweetheart anymore, and he lacks initiative. I don't know what to do.
my brothers friend and i always had and attraction and we were all friends for years and years (2 yrs old to present 33 yrs old) we both felt an attraction in our mid 20's but we each were never between relationships, then one day we were. We confessed our feelings and had high hopes for a very close and lasting relationship, but after a few months I really got to know him and I thought I knew everything, not so. and slowly i was not attracted to him anymore. I think we both imagined that because we were friends first it would work out great. It was hard but I told him and we broke things off. We hardly speak anymore, but we both moved on and got married.
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First of all..the guy that i am TOTALLY in love with lives in freakin CALIFORNIA while i live in new england. We live more than 3000 miles away! i got to know him because he is my dad's best friend's son.we can't go out to visit them for
2 and 1/2 years beacuse we cant afford it.i'm really bumming out because i think that he likes me too, but i'll never get the chance to tell him face to face! i'm dying here..advice please?
It's great when you hit it off like that, huh? But we have to face facts here. You may never see him again f2f, so go for it and just tell him the impression he left on you. You've got nothing to lose. Believe me its better than building this guy up in your imagination as Mr. Right and then no one else can compare. I had a very similar relationship..I'll share if you want the details.
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My boyfriend's away in Europe right now & he will be for another week. I'm missing him like crazy & I can only talk to him online because longdistance is expensive. What can I do to get through this time? Any ideas how to get my mind off missing him?
This is a great time to try something new. (Include your friends if your not comfortable doing things alone.) My love doesn't share the same taste in movies and tv as I do, so i would catch up on those. I also like to exercise while he's gone, it makes me feel good as well as look good. Set up a daily routine. You don't have to keep it up once he returns. You could make him a care package of his favorite things (food, magazines,dvd's,music) instead of mailing it give to him as a present. It lets him know you really were thinking of him all this time. Make a collage of pictures of him or the two of you frame it and put it by your bed. Its a great thing to wake up to and if he likes it give it to him.
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ok. heres the thing: guys have always been my best friends. id actually rather have guy friends then girls because guys dont gossip and dont start drama. well ever since i got a boyfriend hes been getting on me for flirting with other guys. BUT I DONT FLIRT WITH THEM ITS JUST THAT THERE MY BFF's AND I JOKE AROUND WITH HIM. how can i get my boyfriend to understand that im not flirting they're just my friends. i've tried telling him that and i've tried to stop hanigng out with the guys as much but nothing seems to work. HELP PLEASE. ill rate you high!!
If you have always been this way with your guy friends then it is probably your basic personality and your friends and boyfriend's will accept you as is or say something to you. Your man needs to define (his definition) of flirting, for you and be honest in telling him what you think flirting is. Some of us girls have flirty personalities and sometimes we come off that way when we are nervous or when trying to make others feel comfortable. You cannot be expected to change who you are to make him feel better, because in the end nothing you do will be right. Our greatest friends and loves know who we are from the beginning and would not ask us to change (unless we are doing something that is harmful-example-smoking,drinking,...) If you work this out just remember if you slip up and go from flirting with one of your friends to more, he will never trust you and you other friends may not either. PS-Some men (and women) are huge gossips and some love to creat drama, especially when they know what pushes a persons buttons (like your boyfriends hangup with flirting) so watch out!
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