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I was just curious to know if it was wierd that Im in 8th grade and have never had a first kiss? Part of it is that I am too nervous but I just wanted to know...ThAnX I RaTe HiGh!! Maddie 15/f

This is a random guess...but do you live in ky? b/c I know a madison that is 15/f in 8th grade that has an advice column...lol ok. Sorry if you're not that person. You probably think I'm crazy right now, but oh well.
And to answer your question, no it's perfectly normal to not have had your first kiss yet. After all, don't you want it to be with the RIGHT guy, not just any guy? I think that it would be WAY better if it was with the right guy (like it was with me, I made sure I really WANTED it to be this guy before it happened).
A lot of my friends haven't either, and I'm in 8th grade too. You're time will come, don't worry. Until then, just look forward to it! =)
Hope I helped
♥ Elmo

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well there is this guy that i like and im not sure if he likes me. we talk at school and he likes to joke around with me adn make fun of me, but he always smiles and is happy around me. i just want to knwo if he likes me, what do you people think?

14/f

Well, if I were you (which I'm not, but just listen for a second), I would either try asking one of his friends if he likes you, or you could just ask him yourself. I was in the same position a couple of days ago with one of my guy friends, and I just wrote him a note telling him that I liked him and asking him out. And, surprisingly enough, he said yes! So now we are going out and all. You just have to realize that life's to short to wait around for someone, and that sometimes you just have to be brace (as hard as this can be!) and tell a guy how you feel about him and find out if he feels the same way. I really think you can do it, you just have to be brave! Good luck and please tell me what you do and what he says!
♥ Elmo

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Ok I kind like this guy but he's my friend I can't tell if he really likes me or not so should I akk him out or not?

Wow. That sounds like me. Like if I were going to ask a question about a kid that I like, that would be my question.
Well, if I were you I would just ask him out. I am in the same situation, and I am asking this kid out tomorrow. Even though I don't even have the guts to. I've deckk
ided that life is too short to wait around to find out if someone likes you or not, so my adviec to you is: just go for it. If he says no, ask him if you can still be friends. And if he says yes: you will be SO happy that you asked him.
Just take a risk, and go for it. Best of luck.

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I like this guy at my school. I'm not sure if he likes me or not. He's a senior and I'm a freshman. We are friends, and his best friend is my brother. I want to become more than friends, but I'm not sure if he does. My parents and my siblings don't think I should date or anything of that sort. This guy is not like any other guy I know. He's special, I just don't know how to tell him that. I'm also not sure if he likes me. Whenever he's doing something, he always persuades me to go. And if I'm not going to do something, he then says, "well then I'm not going." I don't want to say anything because that would be awkward at school and church. I'm not sure what to do, should I go for it and ask him or not!?!?! Sorry its so long!

You could start flirting with this guy, and see if he flirts with you too. If you were too afraid to ask him how he felt about you, you could maybe casually ask your brother if his friend likes anybody. If you're not afraid to ask the guy how he feel about you, then go for it! You could also write him a note asking him. It definetely sounds like he likes he, though!

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OK so my boyfriend got me a lot for Valentine's day and all I got him was a teddy bear. I cant think of anything else to get him. If anyone has any ideas at all please help me!! Thanx so so so much , I rate high.

Why don't you compile any pictures that you two have together and put them in a scrap book. you could also decorate the scrap book. When you give it to him, you could say "I made this for you, and hopefully we will be able to keep on filling it up." That would be really sweet.

Another idea is that you could write him a poem, although I don't know how good of a poet you are.

Basically, just try and do something original. If he is a good bf, he will appreciate your present no matter how small or grand it is.

Hope I helped

~Elmo~

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