Hi everyone (:! I'm Angela, or Angie; whichever you choose to use! I'm basically just here to help people the best I can with whatever they choose to ask me, and maybe even get a little help in return! I may only be sixteen, but I have a LOT of knowledge and experience about the world, that I'm planning on using to help others, and to improve for myself! I'm pretty much up for anything, I support pretty much everything, as long as your not hurting yourself or anyone else...so give me a shot; I'm all ears!!!!
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Is there any way that you can not want to be a lesbian but you still are? I try not to be. I try to be with guys but I just don't feel right when I kiss a guy, but when I kiss a girl it feels so right. I don't want to be a lesbian just because it's so hard to these days and I don't want to have to tell my parents. Also I'm Christian so it's against my religion. Is there anyway to make myself straight? (link)
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i dont know if this will answer your question...
but im going to give it my best shot.
honestly, i see that you are extremely unconfortable with really letting yourself out, yet you seem pretty set on the idea that you are, in fact, gay. im sorry, and no offense to ANYONE, but i know that people say that being homosexual is totally out there, and also a sin, but i, under NOOOO circumstances, believe that. God loves everyone, and yes, he DOES support love. i dont care what others have to say about that. im extremely close to God and have a LOT of gay friends. does that make me "a sinner" absolutley not. as long as your not huring anyone, or yourself, hun, im sorry, but i really dont feel the nesessity of telling you how to be STRAIGHT. you are who you are, and you should embrace that with everything you have. and as far as "its so hard to be a lesbian these days" ...?? NOT TRUE AT ALL!!!!! these days, its accepted more than EVER before!!! it was once actually, considerd a mental illness, but is NOT anymore. any where you go on the tv, there's specails about gays... like.. for instance.. on The Simple Life, they had to plan a lesbian marriage. or on A Baby Story, they had a specail: "Two Moms". my gosh, all OVER, there are stuff.. in magazines, (seventeen, cosmogirl!) there are stuff about gays, that support them, and much much more. i know a lot of Christains who are gay. it does NOT mean that you are against Jesus....
professional help???
there are tons of organizations set for people just like you. search on google, with the key words: "lesbian/gay support groups&websites".. garentee you won't find yourself empty-handed.
hope i helped. (;
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I was just wondering if anyone can reccommend me some good Erotic novels that my boyfriend and I can read to each other. Thanks! (link)
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...wellllll.. im not sure if a guy would like this kind of stuff.. they're all dramas, but these are my ALTIME, absolute FAVORITE books...
A Time For Dancing
The Lovely Bones
The Try Confessions of Charlotte Doyle
It Happened to Nancy
...and
Night
Try them, they really are worth reading!!!!!!
hope i helped. (;
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im 13 and i havent kissed anyone yet.now that im going out with my b/f im a bit worried encase i do it wrong.if my b/f knew i was worrying about kissing him he would just say theres nothing to worry about.i really dont want to do it wrong.if you can give me any advice please give it. xxaoifexxx (link)
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awh.. first kisses are so cute!!!! theres really no specific way TO kiss, but, my advice is to just relax...and most of all make sure you're really ready-first kisses are big!! but the important thing to remember is WHO it was with; not how well you did it!!!
hope i helped. (;
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ok, i am confused a little, i know im not lesbian, but i find girls making out very hot! and arousing, i have made out with a girl, ive actually had full on lesbian sex witha girl but i HATED eating her, but loved being eaten... i find myself wanting to make out with girls but i want and love sex with guys.... am i bisexual? (link)
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well, you seem to be PHYSICALLY attracted to both genders so...sounds like it!!! its great that you can be comfortable enough with yourself to say all of that. look at this part of you as sort of a fun thing: your open to anyone, basically!!! some people might look at you different, may even judge you pesimestically, but to me, it sounds like you really could care less; which is an amazing attitude. keep up the good work!!!!
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im just rele... not in a good mood. im pretty upset and i need some1 to talk to. i just feel like shit and like i shouldnt be. my whole problem is i wear my heart on my sleeve and ive already tried to cut it off but that didnt work. i just fall for people way to easy and then they never like me for anything than just a friend. tonight i went to a play to watch the girl i liek perform cuz lastngiht she invited me and i decided i would come again. well lastnight i couldnt ifnd her and tonight i told her after the play to come find me and i would be sitting where i was before. well i waited for 5 minuites then found one of my other frineds and talked to her until she helped me find the other girl. she was talking to and upperclassmen (btw, im a freshman and the girl i liek is a freshman) and it really hurt me inside to see her with him cuse it is obvious tht she probubly likes him and he probubly likes her only for her body. im tryin to hold back tears while writing this cuz my mom is downstairs and if i cry she knows something is wrong. this spring break has completely sucked for me. ive already thought of giving up on everything. i just feel so unloved and its got me depressed and its slowly killing me. (link)
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well, i think that the first thing that you need to realize is wether or not your depressed emotions are comming just from this situation with the girl, or wether your just depressed in general. if its just about the girl, i would sit her down, tell her how you feel, and see what she has to say in return. (i know that might sound a little scary, but hey, your already feeling really down, so things can basically only get better.) however, if yoru depressed feelings are more rounded on your whole outlook on life at this point and time, then i suggest you tell a very trusted adult. depression is something that i went through for five months, and am still recovering from, and please, please, if you get anything from this answer that im typing to you, understand this: depression will only get WORSE if it is not treated properly and with the proper amount of time. after talking to a trusted adult, you should maybe even see a therapist, one just to talk to, one to perscribe medication, or BOTH. finally, what you can do to really start feeling better is to excersie, which lets off a chemical in the brain that helps you feel better. (clinicly true) eat healthy, (sunflower seeds contain a natural antidepresant that can make you feel calm adn good) and try to focus your attention on getting better; whether that means more time to yourself, your family, and/or your friends that you trust. finally, if you EVER feel like hurting yourself, please, call, or log-on to right away.......
depression.com
NAMI-1800-950-6264
NDMDA-1800-826-3632
ask any questions you need, they are professionals that will answer you and help you in any way they can.
MY PRAYERS TO YOU.
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