I'm Alyson, and my favorite smell is karma. I'm ridiculous, and you should never take me anywhere in public. I'm dying to feel infinite. To feel alive. I like to help people, and music/quotes are the basis of my emotions. Talk to me. :)
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My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over 8 months. I love him to death but I seriously think hes going crazy. He gets extremely jealous and possessive if I hangout with another guy and makes me block them and delete them out of my life, yet hes had a certain girl sleep over his house multiple times and never told me they slept in the same room. He says he cant take her out of his life because shes "too good of a friend." But he hasn't hungout with her for over a month anyways. He also will be extremely loving for awhile, then just get mad at a stupid little thing I'll do and start saying he's done and he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. Everytime he says that I know he doesn't mean it but I really cant take it anymore. He says it so I end up crying so he can say I don;t care if your crying. He makes me as upset as I can be and then kinda gives in just to see how far he can push me. What can I do to make him stop? It messes around with my head big time. (link)
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Hey girl. First and foremost, I gotta tell you - GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. I was with my ex for 4 years, and a little after the 6 month mark, he started to get extremely jealous. He'd call me names, tell me I was cheating, and never let me hang out with ANYONE unless he was around. You should never, EVER give up your friends for a guy, because, after all, they're gonna be there for you when he isn't. I know you may think you love him or whatnot, but obviously the feeling isn't mutual. Someone who loves you doesn't cut everyone out of your life. They don't have chicks stay at his place without telling you (wonder WHY he didn't tell you, eh?), and they don't screw with your head by telling you they don't wanna be with you, yet staying. Also, don't say "he doesn't mean it." Unless he's drunk or high, he knows what he's saying, and he means it. You shouldn't defend him when he's hurting you like this. I defended my ex for the longest time, and then he started to hit me. All in all, sweetie, you can't make him stop. Its only going to get worse. I hate to tell you this but its the honest, harsh reality. You need to get away from him, for YOUR sake.
If you have ANY other questions, feel free to ask me.
Hope this helps,
Alyson
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Ok. I am going to use real names because I don't feel the need to hide this.
I have a friend Taylor. We have been good friends for a while. I also have a best friend Dave.
Dave and Taylor were together, but not going out. They really liked eachother, understandable right?
Taylor "broke up" with Dave, then hated him for the last 4 months. For no reason at all, just wouldn't talk to him and made fun on him constantly. Dave hurt for a while, but finally got over it.
Dave and I have been extremely close ever since we met. Dave and I now are kind of, as you can say, together.
Ever since Dave and I have been together, Taylor has been trying to talk to Dave again, and asks me ridiculous questions about me and him and what we do. She said that him her and can only be enemies, or lovers. So what does that mean? If she is trying to talk to him, that might mean she wants to be lovers with him.
She insists she is over him and does not want him, but why is she constantly asking me about it? And flipping out on me about him. I think she still has feelings for him, which is understandable. But she has hated him for 4 months, and Dave would try to talk to her, but she was just such a BITCH to him that he got over her.
It's not my fault me and him like eachother, we cannot control feelings. I understand where she is coming from because it is her ex, but still, they are over, and she knows it.
I don't know what to do. I do not what to loose either of them. Taylor is just being very immature about this and said she might as well go hook up with my ex boyfriend Justin, so I would know how it felt.
Dave and I have been through A LOT together. Like, a mad amount of stupid shit we have done and gotten in trouble for. Taylor seems like it is right to bring those mistakes up to make me sound like a bad person.
I tried talking to her so many times.
Now I am thinking I should just end it wtih Dave so this whole thing would stop, no matter how much I don't want to.
Someone please help me, I really don't know what to do. (link)
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Hey darling. Seems like Taylor is on a bit of a jealousy streak. Now that you and Dave are happy, she wants what she can't have. I would advise you to go on and be happy with Dave. If he treats you right, and you're happy together, then who is SHE to try and ruin that? Its not her place OR her right. She's just trying to bring you down and make you doubt yourself, also to question your relationship. I know its hard when friends turn out like this, but it happens to most of us. I had the same thing happen to me. You could first try getting the point across to her - tell her you're fed up with what she's trying to pull, and if she doesn't stop, you're gonna have to stop talking to her. Let her know that, as a friend, she should respect your decisions and choices, as long as no one's getting hurt. If she can't listen to reasoning, then you're far better off without her. You don't need negative people in your life, and if she wants to be negative, let her be that way - all by herself.
Hope this helps,
Alyson
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16/f My friend and I both like eachother. We've both expressed our feelings for eachother, but we've never kissed or anything else along those lines. I really want to start something with him, but the problem is that he's going to college and I won't be able to see him at school all the time anymore (he'll be about 2 hours away). How do I persuade him that we could work things out even if he goes to college? Anyone have any good reasons at why long term relationships can work? He doesn't believe that they can. (link)
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Hi. I'm in a relationship with a guy who I've been friends with for over 2 years. He goes to school in Toledo, Ohio, which is 4 hours away from me. We have been together for over a year now, and everything is working out FINE! All you need is a little trust and communication, and you guys will work out. Trust me :)
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