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My boyfriend and I have been dating a little over 8 months. I love him to death but I seriously think hes going crazy. He gets extremely jealous and possessive if I hangout with another guy and makes me block them and delete them out of my life, yet hes had a certain girl sleep over his house multiple times and never told me they slept in the same room. He says he cant take her out of his life because shes "too good of a friend." But he hasn't hungout with her for over a month anyways. He also will be extremely loving for awhile, then just get mad at a stupid little thing I'll do and start saying he's done and he doesn't wanna be with me anymore. Everytime he says that I know he doesn't mean it but I really cant take it anymore. He says it so I end up crying so he can say I don;t care if your crying. He makes me as upset as I can be and then kinda gives in just to see how far he can push me. What can I do to make him stop? It messes around with my head big time.
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Hey girl. First and foremost, I gotta tell you - GET OUT OF THAT RELATIONSHIP. I was with my ex for 4 years, and a little after the 6 month mark, he started to get extremely jealous. He'd call me names, tell me I was cheating, and never let me hang out with ANYONE unless he was around. You should never, EVER give up your friends for a guy, because, after all, they're gonna be there for you when he isn't. I know you may think you love him or whatnot, but obviously the feeling isn't mutual. Someone who loves you doesn't cut everyone out of your life. They don't have chicks stay at his place without telling you (wonder WHY he didn't tell you, eh?), and they don't screw with your head by telling you they don't wanna be with you, yet staying. Also, don't say "he doesn't mean it." Unless he's drunk or high, he knows what he's saying, and he means it. You shouldn't defend him when he's hurting you like this. I defended my ex for the longest time, and then he started to hit me. All in all, sweetie, you can't make him stop. Its only going to get worse. I hate to tell you this but its the honest, harsh reality. You need to get away from him, for YOUR sake.
If you have ANY other questions, feel free to ask me.
Hope this helps,
Alyson
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