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So, I'm 15/f and I've been talking to this boy that I like recently. We've hungout a few times and everyone says he likes me and I like him too but the only problem is, is that he isn't a big communicating person. Like he doesn't text that much, exspecially doesn't talk on the phone, and I don't see him long enough to talk to him in school since we aren't in any of the same classes. Any advice on how to approach him and tell him that we need to text or talk more if we want to have a relationship? because I went through this last year with my ex boyfriend who (texted me more then this current guy does) but in person and when we hungout it was sometimes akward and quiet, which is the opposite for my current guy. I tend to fall for guys who are shy about showing how they feel about a girl, but I'm just attracted to them more then guys who try to hard and are obsessed with a girl. So any advice?
roxy is right. Talk to him. Make the first move. when you start initiating contact or convo he will feel more comfortable. He is in his shell and you can make him come out. Most people begin to open up when they become comfortable. figure out what makes him tick. If you want to talk to him on the phone you can call him and try to talk about things he is interested in. Maybe music or his hobbies. He will engage in the convo and that might make him more comfortable with talking on the phone with you. hope this helps.
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Hey guys. F. 17.
Well, let me first start that I have been speaking to this guy for about 2 weeks now. And I have 1 class with him. Lets call him nate. Well I've been kinda crushing on nate since freshman year and he didn't know it. Nate also had a girlfriend but they broke up 2 days after he messaged me on myspace. Saying hi that he thinks im cute and if I have a sn. (Sry if this is long =)) so we started to talk and his away messages r all like really depressing bcz his girlfriend broke up with him. So we kinda got used 2 eachother and we flirt a lot online. And he says that he wants me 2 help him 4get about her. He says its soon 2 go out but maybe next month. Sometimes he still writes on his away messages "why did u leave me" and stuff like that. So sometimes I feel like he jus has me around 2 flirt. And he's really quiet in class. Never talks. He smiles at me A LOT though. Says im pretty and wants 2 invite me to the movies.. I don't know what to say 2 him. I like him too. And I also recently broke up with my BF. So we r both hurt, he keeps telling me that he wants me 2help him forget about her. So I don't know what to do.. Any advice.? Does he really like me or am I just a toy for him?? Help. Thanks soo much. -sincerly, confused??
hey. i read your question and i could relate to it. it seems as if this boy is really hurt and he is just looking for an easy target to help him get over his ex. i believe he he told you that. he is still obviously in love with his ex gf and it might take a while to get over her. if he is asking "why did she leave him?" it means he wants her back and when she walks back into his life you will be history. i,m sure you dont want to get hurt again do you? there are plenty of guys out there who are single and emotionally available :) ill advice you just to stay away from him until you notice he might be over his ex but dont count on it because you might not know.Just give him time try not to get attached. hope this helped :) feel free towrite me if you need more help.
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