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Alright guys I really want to know what to do when in a relationship. I'm talking about a teen relationship. I'm exactly 13 years old and I want to know what should a 13 year old be doing when in a relationship? Ex: WEEK 1: MAKE OUT
MONTH 1: FEEL UP
like that
I really want someone my own age to anaswer this this and not someone older saying I'm too young for this stuff. Like I think after 9 months is good to start having sex but wat do u think? And I mean actual sex not like bg's or hj's and please include those in their! thanks! (link)
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HAHAHAHAAHHAHAH thats a joke
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Dear Columnist,
I have a girlfriend, we've been together for a few weeks now, but she has already made it evident that she has secrets about her life that she is not comfortable with telling me. I was not too worried about them until her friends mother, (who she lives with) let me in on a big secret, but made me swear not to tell my girlfriend that I know. She told me last night because me and my girlfriend were fighting over sexual issues. The problem was, that I was kissing her, and touching her, and we were about to have sex, but all she wanted to do was kiss, and she was very reluctant to have sex, or touch me, but all she gave was a lot of far fetched excuses. This irritated me because this has been going on for the past week or so with her. After our fight, we still haven't truly made up, but I had time to talk 1 on 1 with her friends mother. I explained my situation, knowing that she is a very open person, and would have no problem offering her advice based on how we have talked about practically anything and everything since I have met the woman. But I did not expect what she was about to reveal to me by a long shot. We were sitting there in the living room just me and her, and she tells me that my girlfriend has some medical issues that she has been reluctant to tell me, and that might be the missing piece in this puzzle here. She then goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has heart issues, and explains them to me... I did not know how to feel about this, but it didn't seem life threatening, so I was still relaxed. Then she goes on to tell me that my girlfriend has Hepatitis C. This is a very serious condition; and I could be at a great risk of getting it from her. Since last night I have not been able to collect myself, and I've just been a wreck because now I feel like a jerk for pressuring her into sexual relations, when she was resisting, not because of me, but because she wanted to protect me, because she doesn't know if she can get me infected with the same dangerous disease. As far as I know, her knowledge on the disease is limited. Now I can't relax, because I want to tell her how sorry I am, and how I can't even explain how I feel about it, but on the same note I don't wanna blow her friend's mom's cover by saying how she revealed my girlfriends best kept secret. For this would hurt the relationship between myself and her friends mother, and she might not tell me any information ever again. I also feel upset towards my girlfriend for not telling me but I don't know what to do?!?
There's a whole bunch of emotion going on with me, I know I still love my girlfriend, but how do I handle this situation? Please help, the quicker the better..
Sincerely,
PeoplePerson27 (link)
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Whoa, that's hard to deal with. I'm sorry. But I think that you should just apologize to her for pressuring her into sexual relations, and that you could tell she didn't want to.
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i'm 15 years i live in california and i got my 18 year old girlfriend pregnant could she go to jail?
how should i tell my parents? (link)
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yes, she could go to jail.
& just be honest with them
parents are usually understanding
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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i've beat alot of guys in things before haha. like plenty of sports, yeah they get really mad about it but im like i don't care haha (: my ex-boyfriend had a problem with me like being tough. im not like TOUGH but if a guy wants to say stuff to me like there better than me, yeah imma do something. ya know? i think your boyfriend might just be in shock because he thinks hes suppose to like protect you and if you can always like fight for yourself about things then..idk maybe he thinks he cant help you. idk haha im sorry. im not really good with advide :P but i tried. ♥ haha
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ok so my bf cheated on me but he didnt like the girl he only wanted to hook up with her cause he thinks shes hott.
i need songs saying like i hope she was worth it.
please give me some. thanks (link)
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i was just about to answer this question with should've said no by taylor swift, then i saw the last person said that lol but here i am saying it :)i honestly think it is the perfect song in this situation.
:)
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okay.. so.
im a chubby girl, and im kinda short.
guys look at me like an adorable little baby.
but, i have really big boobs for my age.
guys always talk about them, and like.. try to look down my shirt, and talk about touching them.
i tell them to stop, but it doesnt help.
what do i do? (link)
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well i don't know your age.. so i can't say anything about that. but most teenage(im guessing you're one) boys are all perverted. that's just how they are. you can't stop it. i mean if it gets annoying, like at school or seomthing, you could like tell on them for sexual harassment, but i don't knoww. you really can't do anything about it. you could try to wear less reavealing shirts..idk though. sorrryyyy ♥.i know, it's not fun when guys do that lol
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How old were you when you got your first kiss? (link)
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i was 12 . i wish i didnt
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Hi all I would like to know how it feels like to be kissed? Anyone can feel free to share your stories with me cos I love listening to these stuff.
Btw, would it be wierd if i just tried it on any one of the opposite sex? (link)
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hey♥
i`ve kissed 3 guys and im almost 14 years old . but my friends have either never been kissed or only 1 time . anways ♥ my first kiss was with a guy named nick . i thought i loved him . but i really didn`t . i regret kissing him because he had popcorn breath and it was really nasty and we were in a movie theatre . i was 12 at the time . i went home that night and me and my friend called him and he broke up with me that night . i was devistated i thought i was in love with him . then my next kiss was just for fun kinda kiss . i was on my "boyfriends"[ not really going out just liking eachother ] swingset . yeah and we were up in the little club house and i told my friend to dare me to kiss him well she did and i reallyliked it and yeah then my last [ most recent kiss ] was with a kid that was the most amazing guy i have ever met in my life . he was so sweet && made me feel better all tyhe time . and he broke up with me and admited that he loved his esx girlfriend. one of my best friends . and yeah then i went out with this kid that i liked it got my exbf really jelous lol and then i dumped my bf and went back with x we stayed together for 2 weeks and he broke up with me . surprisingly i wasnt sad at all . we are still amazing great friends . but hes moving to florida . and i wont be ABLE to see him because i live in new york . and yeah . noo its not wierd on the oppisite sex lol . thats normakl
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