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Hey loves, i'm Jessica. I'm a girl that just likes to have fun with all of my friends. I don't care what anyone thinks of me. I play golf and I hang with my friends. I love fashion designers and I am a prep. The stores I mostly shop at are Abercrombie & Fitch, Hollister Co., American Eagle, Sephora, and a few others. I love the summer and going to the beach. Pina Coladas are my obsession. I love all kinds of music, but only if it is good. I love starbucks and flip flops. My favorite thing to do while I'm at the shore is to go walking on the beach at night. I ♥ staying in shape. You could probably find me hanging with all my friends and just having fun. I am very skinny, probably 98 pounds and people even come up and ask me if i'm anorexic..umm NO. lol Anything you want to ask? -- just do it =]
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I have a coworker that I am very interested in getting to know. I have heard from several people that he is interested in me too but the thing is we are both shy. We make eye contact and smile at eachother but that is as far as it goes. There has been several times where I have come close to telling him how I feel and asking him out but I am too shy when it comes to situations like this. We dont know eachother personally but we have been working together for about 2 years now and I recently began feeling this attraction toward him. I know I should just say something but I would get nervous. What should I do?
Go up to him and start talking to him. I know it would really feel uncomfortable to do this, but trust me, it will work. He soon will know that you're not afraid to go up to him and try and get to know him a little better. Hopefully one of you will ask eachother out. Hope it works!! (fingers crossed)
♥Jessica
i've met guys when i'm just hanging out at the beach or mall or whatever before... but it's only because they approach me. the guys that approach me are usually older and way too experienced for me and too pushy and "fast". i'm pretty shy so when i see a guy i like i don't know how to approach him. how do just start conversations with random people. but not just coming up and being like "you're hot... what's your number?" cuz thats kinda stupid. no offense to anyone who does that. thanx.
Just talk to the guy and if you get into the conversation, just talk about your favorite things, but don't give out to much personal info. You never know if the guy is gross lol
Hope this helps love.
♥Jessica
okay well i like this girl for a while and she liked me and we started going out like 2 weeks ago...wednesday we made out like 4 times in a hour and i never did that before in my life but she has....now after i did it i dont really feel the same way for her..like i dont know if i still like her..i just feel different about her and we have been best friends before we went out so i dont if i should break up with her but i really dont knnow if i like her anymore and tomorrow she is supossed to come to a family thing and i kinda feel unconfortible around her now and we already decided that if we break up we will still be friends but i dont know...please help please!
Tell her how you feel -- maybe she'll understand. That's mostly how I feel, I mean if that happened to me, i'd probably tell the guy.
♥Jessica
im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever! ( ive also never been there)
You should check out the menu first, then decide.
♥Jessica
I know all guys are different, but do you think it's a turn off if they meet a girl who is almost 18 and isnt experienced (like hasnt even had her first kiss)?
I don't think it's a bad idea, but it depends on the guy. If they really don't mind that, then try it out. But if they do find that unamusing, I really wouldn't take it into consideration.
♥Jessica
i have this friend, who is a boy, and we have been really close friends since kindergarten. i think i'm starting to like him, but i don't know if i should tell him. i mean, i don't want to ruin our relationship or anything.
if you can answer this, thank you so much. it looks like you give good advice :-)
Heather
Thanks so much Heather!! It sounds really adorable that you two have been that close for so long. Anyway, I think that you should try and tell him that you like him more than just a close friend. It's better taking a risk, but if you don't want to, then just let things be the way they are. If it's that good of a relationship between him and you, I think he would really understand. Hey, but you never know, he might like you the same way. He just probably never had the courage to let you know. Take Ryan Cabrera and Ashlee Simpson for example, they both were best friends for so long and they look so cute together. I totally think you two would be awesome together. Hope that helped love!
♥Jessica