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Q: ok. i dont get anymore. im in love with this guy, and he said he was in love with me. so i thought everything was going to turn out happily ever after. but i was wrong. we havent been getting along lately. and yet i dont know i keep remembering how we use to be soo in love. soo everytime i think of the old times, no matter how mad i am at him, i think of it and i begin to get over it and think he is still in love with me. so its ok..for like..10 minutes then we just get in a argument and everythign turns horrible. no matter how many times he says he loves me, i cant believe it anymore, but yet i tell him i love him back cause i really do. i just dont know what to do about the arguements without having to like..break up anything between us. i still want us to work out. i just need some advice to keep it working out. help please =(

ok i think that if you care about him and love him that much... u need to tell him how you feel and how you hate these arguments... you need to approach him and see how he feels and thinks about it... without arguing.. sometimes its hard.. but he has to no that you love him but this arguing is making you upset... and you need to no how he feels about it! well i hope everything works out!!

Q: Okay tonight i was suposed to go see a movie with my boyfriend and some of his friends. By the way Im 15 and hes 16. The movie was rated R and I told him to get his parents to go ahead and get them in advance. But he didnt take my advice we get there and we buy tickets to another movie. Well then the movie i wanted to see ... they were checking ticket. Now Im pissed because I really wanted to see this movie and Me & my bf were the only 2 who didnt get in. He should have listened to me right??

Should I really be this pissed?

yes you are right he should have listened to you! and you have a right to be mad, but not this mad. So what you didnt see the movie there are always other times to see it. and at least you got to spend time with your boyfriend.

Q: ok to start im 13/f
the other day in school.. i wrote my boyfriend a note... i had my bestfried give it to him.. she told me that my x said that me and my boyfriend are over.. so i wrote my boyfriend another note saying that we are over (since i don't want to be the one being dumped!) well my boyfriend said that he wasn't going to break up with me and now im totally upset! i really regret that i broke up with him! i love him so much!
but the day i broke up with him he goes and asks out this slut! (how desperate!)
I CAN'T BELEIVE I BELEIVED MY XX!
idk what should i do? should i tell my boyfriend how i feel and how i think i we should go back out?
or should i just wait to see what happens when he breaks up with that slut?

PLEASE HELP! thanks!

Well first off never believe your X get the true facts first! but maybe he is going out with this "slut" because he is trying to make you jealous. So i would try to talk to him about it especially if you really like him!

Q: Holding a grudge isnt the best to do. But what happens when something really just ticks you off and you can't help it. How do I get rid of a grudge without having to say sorry first? I mean what if it wasnt my fault?

ok not knowing much of what happened im going to give you my best advice. If you feel that you dont need to apologize than dont. Talk to the person about it, and yes i no sometimes tlaking to the person about it is really hard. Its hard for me, but if your not sure about it you really need to talk to the person it involves.

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