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Heyy...Okay I don't know what to say to this boy, let's call him Cody. Well I thought I really liked Cody and he asked me out so I said yes, because of course I thought I really liked him and it would work. Well for the first few days it was cool and then we went shopping and he bought me something really expensive for Christmas but I didn't know what it was. After a while in school he seemed to be very clingy, obsessive and over protective of me. Also, people in school told me he pressured his girlfriends into a lot of stuff when they weren't ready! I got kind of scared because I didn't know what I was ready to do with him. Well for Christmas I opened his gift and he got me a diamond ring OMG! I flipped out...I mean yeah it was gorgeous and he spent $170 on it but seriously we were going out for a week or not even that and it was too much. It started to scare me a tinsy bit. I was thinking about dumping him, I mean I liked him but just not enough to be able to accept the ring without feeling strange. I was going to do it the day after Christmas. Well on Christmas he called me and was drunk and I just got really mad. Me and my friend planned something out so that it wouldn't be mean when I dumped him. I told him I got grounded because of my grades and also my grandmother died and I said it wasn't the best time to have a bf. Well I did that on Christmas and I feel really.... bad! I don't know what to do I think I hurt him...it's just I don't want to date him anymore....Anyone know how to deal with this? (link)
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Listen..All girls go through the process of dumping a boy. It feels bad when you have to do it but u will get over it. You may hurt a little bit but you will get through it. Right now the best thing you coudl do is to just be with your friends! Hope I helped!
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well, there is this guy that i have known since i was like 4 and he really likes me! but i only like him as a friend and the thing is, is that i REALLY like his cousin! what should i do? (link)
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What you should do is you explain to him that you only want to be his friend and tell him there is another guy on your mind. When he asks who tell him who it is. If he really truely likes you then he might offer to set you guys up. If he gets jealous then he dosent truely like you..Hope I helped!!
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okay my boyfriend didnt get me ne thing for christmas and i feel kinda guilty for getting him something...and now i got a ring in the mail from someone and i dont kno who it was from...what should i tell my boyfriend when he asks...that is if he asks? (link)
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I think that you shouldnt worry about it. If he asks you what it is then you should tell him that you got in in the mail and you really like it! If he has a problem with that say to him "well at least someone got me a gift". Maybe you are to good for him!!
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hey guys it is funkyfresh.. i give advice but now i need some bad! well okay.. there is this guy matt k and a guy matt n (best friends scary i kno) they both like me (even scarier!) and i dont go to the same school as either of them! i have mixed feelings and have no ideas on what to do! any advice!
((x o ♥ Michelle)) (link)
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I think that you should is not go out with either of them because if you cant decide who you like better then you must not know who you truley like the most. Hope I helped!
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Im 14/f. Theres this guy I have been talking to online for about 6 months, I know him from school and first started talking to him when he liked my friend to set them up. Well we've been talking for a while, and he doesnt like my friend (never did) and he recently said he wanted to talk more at school and asked me why i never said hi to him in the halls. And yeah... I've fallen for him. Hes really smart, and although he is a lot shorter then me hes got a great personality. But theres one catch, he smokes weed. Not just once in a while. A LOT of weed. 1. Do you think hes interested in me (please be honest) and 2. Is it ok to go out with a potsmoker (does it taste bad kissing.. etc.?)
Thanks! (link)
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He definitly is falling for you too. I DEFINITLY wouldnt go out with him thoguh because fo his problem. If you really care for him then I would tell a school counsler or someone that could get him help. I hope i helped!
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help! (link)
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Well I think you should do what you feel. If you like him so much that you are even considering it then you should. If you are doing this to fit in then you should not because you wouldnt be ready. I hope I help you!
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Ok. Well There's 3 Boys that i really like, the one i like the most, has a girlfriend, so i guess he doesn't count. But i still really like him, i also like 2 other guys, and the one asked me out, and i like him, but not as much as the one with the girlfriend, but he has a girlfriend, so i dont know if i'll ever get him, and the other dude, i just found out likes me. What should i do ? Sorry if this post is kindah confusing. ! *`' . (link)
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I think that you should go with your heart. The one you like the most has a girlfriend so he isnt interested in another girl. Go with your heart do what it tells you. If you realise you like the other one alot then go out with him. I hope I helped you!
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i like my bf so much im 14 nd we've done everything except sex and anal i love him so much but lately i havent been hanging out with my friends as much and he gets mad wen i do i noe he dont trust me but idc but i wanna hang out with friends!! i miss them and like wen i do he gets mad and we hardly talk and my dad sed if i dnt start hanging out with my friends then hes guna end me nd my bf nd like i told my bf that nd we started crying nd stuff nd he sed he didnt wanna loose me but he cant get over the fact that were guna have to break up if i dont start hanging out with my friends ...either way he gets mad at me ..what should i do
x3 confused (link)
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No offense or anything but if he is trying to seperate you and your friends then maybe you guys shouldnt be together. I mean if he knows they make you happy then he shouldnt be so uptight about it. I hope I help!
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