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Q: Ok so I needed some help like a month ago when I decided to have sex with my boyfriend, now ex, a month ago. I was having a hard time dealing with it, but I'm okay with that.. Now I'm faced with depression because I'm in love with him but we recently broke up. I'm not wanting to do anything, Ive missed 3 out of 7 days of school, all I do is mope around my house, I cry just out of nowhere.. Now my mom and I are going to talk to my guidance counselor about getting me early graduation (yeah I'm smart, Thank the Lord!) and she thinks that I'm getting harassed at school. (its happened before) But really, I'm just that depressed that I dont want to go... I'm starting to think if I should tell her that my ex-bf and I had sex or not.. Maybe she would have a better understanding as to what I'm going through.. I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... PLEASE HELP ME!!! I'm desperate for answers... and quick!

Ok normally telling your parents you had sex its always best but maybe in this case it could be but what i dont understand is why he broke up with you and has hard has it is im wondering if he only wanted you for sex (typical guy) which im hoping isnt the case but its a probability now if you told your mom and your guidence counsler everything it could help them know how to help and if you gettin a early graduation that could help you move on and try and see other people to get your mind off the one you miss thats the best i can do0o hope it works out..

Q: I really, really need help here-serious help only, please. i've never really said this to anyone before, let alone a bunch of strangers over the internet, but here it goes. I think i'm gay and to make it worse, i'm madly OBSESSED with this kid in my class. Now, I go to an all boys high school, but i've had these feelings since before i went there. I first met him when we were both taking the entrance exam to get into the high school. now we're really close friends and i am just crazy about him. i mean, to the point where i have pictures of him on my computer. But i don't know if he feels the same way though. I highly doubt he does. what i want to know is should i come out and tell him(and the wolrd) that i have feelings for him, or should i just keep it all inside? i am seriously asking for your help on this one because i really need it.

OK you should totally not keep this inside it will drive you crazii and although im a gurl and im straight i have a gay friend and i think you should just sit your friend down and tell him your gay dont tell him you like him just yet because you dont know how he will handle it and you dont wanna put to0o much and his shoulders right now see how he acts when you tell him your gay and then when you think hes ready let him know you like him thia question made me think so0o i hope i helped you later..

Q: there is this guy who i've liked for like 2 years and we're like friends and all. and like a week ago i went over to his house and e were just talkig and then in the end i gave him a hug good bye and he kissed me2 time he is so sweet to me he supports me in everything i do. and he's deffinetly not a player well ever sense then we haven't talked alot but i mean we do like he called me the other day but i wasnt home...do u think it means he doesn't wanna be with me? do u think im looking too much into it ? what do you think i should do?

please help me out

Heyy gurlii i think you could be lo0oking a lil to0o much into it but from wat you have told me i think he does like you im not sure how much but he seems to really care about you and i think you should give it a chance because thats wat life is about ya know im srry its short but i hope i helped ya later babe..

Q: hey tay~tay ok heres my question ..ok so like my boyfriend and me are like havin alot of problems like ohmygawd i wuz like ohmygod lets fuck and hes like no im like wut? y not omg it wuz s0o horrible laughoutlloud j/p neway um.. ok .. (blonde goin thru the thinkin process) ...s0o anyway ya so if you were goin w/ the love of your life and you knew he was but there wuz sum1 you really liked realy really like which do you choose i mean you kno the love will always be there no matter wut ypu kno but ya blah blah blah blah ok im done laughoutloud later

ok well ive had the love of my life break up with me for some one he really liked and i felt horrible so0o i know wat it feels like ok and he broke up with me for some one he really really liked and well they broke up ok but hes over us both but since i know your situation i think you should stay with your love just because the guy you really really like isnt always going to be here hes almost gone ok this is just an obstacul for you to think about your relationship its a test life is putting you through and i think if you break up your failing the test

Q: ok i need some help ive met the perfect guy, he's great and he's crazy about me too we jst found out that we are far cousins! its horrible and i hate it and so does he but my problem is i dont see him as my cousin he is just this great adorable guy ive known for a few months : ( he still calls me babi and things like that and i dont know should i tell him to stop or what? i really dont feel like he is my cousin we are both still crazy about each other i dont know what to do!

OK well one are you guys cousins or are you 2nd cousins because if you are 2nd couins you guys can date and do want you want but if you are cousins im not sure wat all you could do0o becuz i think its illegal SRRY ummm you could date secretly and if you guys dont see each other as cousins it prolly wont be so0o hard well im not sure if i helped but thats the best i can do0o babe.!

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Heyy ppls wats crach~a~lackin umm my name is Taylor my friends call me Taytay I go to Hancock Middle School and I have lots of friends I luv them all I do0 have a boyfriend his nameis Aaron and i really do0 luv him lotz!! i promise to0 help out as much of you as i can and dont get mad at my advice becuz im just a true person thanx!!