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if my boyfriend live long away apart(not that much he lives in alexandria v.a,i live in d.c) and he wont me to come see him and i wont him to see me because i couldnt see him anyway cuz my parents wont let me go that far so wat do i do and i really love him truly

im 13 and he is 16

Explain to your boyfriend that you can't see him, yet. He should understand.
Since he is 16, if he can drive, maybe he might be able to come see you, or something if it's that important to you.

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i just made-out with my bfs friend it was amazing but i think he just used plez help enyone !!!!!:{

You think your Boy friend's friend used YOU?
Um, you made out with his friend!
Well, anyways, if you think you like your boy friend's friend better than sit your boyfriend down and tell him this. It is usually better to be bluntly honest, than to not tell them at all and have theist "guilt" feeling all the time.

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well..i rele like this guy..who happens 2 b my x..nd i kno he likes me bak..alot! but i think were both still alittle shy 2 go bak out..any suggestions?

Well, if you are positive that he likes you back, you could just ask him if he would "go out" with you. If he doesn't,that's fine. There are plenty of other fish in the sea(I love saying that...) and I'm sure that there will be somebody who is 100 times better than this guy, who will love you the same.
Good luck.

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16/f.
i went 2 a party a few nites ago, and anyway ther was this lad ther who was sittin really close 2 me and flirtin wit me loads. anyway hes really geeky and weird, but apparently hes really in2 me! i dont kno wot 2 do, i mean i dont hate him, but i dont fancy him either, n if i did eva do anything wit him every1 wud laugh and my popularity wud go down the drain, but at the same time i dont want 2 b mean! wot shud i do?

If he is a nice boy, then there is no reasons why you 2 can't be friends. You don't have to like him as anything more than you don't want to.

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ok i had this boyfriend for 6 months and i thought everything was going good. But after we did some stuff and my mom found out about it he broke up with me cuz he was scared. but he was my first love and i had never felt this way about a guy before. But now i think he likes another girl and i still love him. he told me we would probley go out agian but i am scared that he will hert me agian. what should i do with all of these emotions. everyone tells me i am to good for him but i always want him back. I really love him and hope he likes me agian. but what should i do???

please help! thnks

The keyword here is "had". You HAD this boyfriend, and now you need to move on. This guy sounds like a jerk, anyway. There are plenty of other men out there who will treat you right and love you unconditionally.
If he keeps letting you down, then obviously he isn't the right guy for you.

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Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??

Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.

im a 14/f

Well, you said that she was your best friend. If she is in fact, your best friend than she is most likely telling the truth. The only true way to find out if her brother likes you, is by asking him yourself.

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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance

It will be hard to forget about him, I'm sure. There isn't much you can do, because he has just as much right to go to Camp as you do. The best thing would be just to try to keep yourself occupied and avoid him, if you place your mind on other things you will be less reluctant to think about him. He's a jerk, yes. But, that does not entitle him to ruin your camp experience.

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okay i'm only 13 but i have a lot of problems. this guy asked me out like an hour ago. i kind of know him..but not that well...but he seems really nice and caring and he really likes me a lot. the problem is that i feel weird. i kind of like him, but theres some other people i kind of like too. he seems to care about a lot and really like me. should i give him a chance? i feel really guilty..but should i keep going out with him for awhile and give him a chance?

Okay, if you like this guy and he obviously likes and wants to "go out" with you then I'd give it a try.

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well i have this problem..Well I like this person and is in 10th and i am 7th,So what do i doo because I REALLY LIKE HIM>!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!HELP!=)

My advice to you, is this:
Find a guy who is closer to your age. Relationships between people with large age differences don't always work out all too well.

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well alotta guys tell me they like me and think im cute but none of them ever ask me out on a date or somthing its really annoying and i dont know why any of them can just ask me...what am i doing wrong?!?!

You could try flirting with them, or something, if you'd like.
Just to let them know that you're available, and interested.
You're probably not doing anything wrong. Give it time... :)

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ok so my boyfriends bithday is coming up and he told me that one thing he wants for his birthday is a lapdance from me...ok no big deal right? well i havent done it before...so can any one help me give me some tips?

If you don't want to give him a lap dance, you don't have to.
You shouldn't be pressured into something that you don't wish to do.

However, if you would like to give him a lap dance, I would suggest visiting that link the person before me had posted.

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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me.

This guy is obviously not very trustworthy...
Did you ask your sister and this guy about the situation, and try to get their perspectives?
You may want to try to talk with this guy about what happened. If you still like him and love him enough to give him another chance, go for it. Otherwise, forget him. I don't know you, but from what I can tell you seem like a very nice person and you could probably find another guy who is 100 times better than him, who will treat you the same.

I hope I helped at least a little bit.

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Ok well I just turned 12 and now thats its summer I dont see my boyfriend much anymore. I'm kinda shy though is my problem. I'm afraid to call him cuz I dont think his parents know that were going out. And I would feel weird callin him. I get real nevous and talk to fast. And I really really like him and he likes me and I just want to see him more often. The last time I seen him was like June 16 and at my one game a few days ago. ( Just because he had all star practice).

PLEASE HELP! p.s please dont give me just answers like to go to his house or somethin like that.

Yours truley,
Shy but in love

I'm kind of "phone shy", too. If it is much easier for you, you may want to try talking to him on AIM(or any other instant messaging program). If you still want to try talking to him over the telephone, you can ask your bf when he will be home and when he would like you to call him so that you'll know that he will pick up the phone. If anybody other than your bf picks up the phone, just stay calm, and tell them your name and whom you would like to talk to.
I hope I helped a little bit.

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