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I am fifteen and i love giving advice.

I have to say that is my gift.

I am a dancer, a singer, definitly a writer, and sometimes and actress.

My life contains boys, singing dancing, writing my cousins, my friends my family and my dogs.

I'm not perfect no one is.

I am extremely good with relationship
questions, questions about abuse, and family problems but i'm willing to answer anything. Got to try everything once, right?
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I came from and the hardest thing
I ever had to do was move away
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advice

Is it weird to have a 3 year age difference between me and my boyfriend? Like 15 and 18?

Darling,
depends on the maturaty of both of you. Some 15 year old are quite old for their age and soe 18 year old are really young at heart. But question why does someone so old want someone so young. I'm sure your an amazing girl and beautiful but alot of older guy his age go for younger girls for action. Be careful with you decisions.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.

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ok
im 13/f and im gonna be going into 8th grade.
with not ever having a boyfriend, no first kiss no nothing!
and it sucks.
my love life better get better before i get to highschool
any ways i could maybe get a boyfriend or have boys get to like me more?!

Darling,
Boyfriends do mean something, soemthing important but only if you really care for them. It would be meaningless to have to one you didn't care for and you would hate it then your gonna think all relationship sucks and that just wouldn't be faor to the guys or yourself. When it is meant to happen it will. I know thats not what you wan to hear but its what you need to hear. And your first kiss is definitly not whatits cracked up to be. Guys like pure girls they always play stupid games to try and "tag the prude/virgin" Guys are slime so if your stepping into the guys world be prepared for heartbreak. On my page there was an answer with some things to get a guys attention if you would like. Just get ready to cry because guys suck and yet are so amazing. Good luck. Tell me what you decide.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.

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Just recently my girlfriend has left me to go back with her old boyfriend. I know that he abuses her phsyically and emotionally,and I treated her like gold. What should I do? and will she ever come back to me?

Darling,
Be the best friend you can be. Call her once in a while and dont be to flirty or she is not gonna be comfortable but just lether vent on you. Talk about her. Let her know that when she is having a hard time she can run to you. Make her feel comfortable around you and make her laugh. Trear her like pricless gold once again. She may not come back to you but your gonna have to take that risk. Listen!!! Listen!!!! Listen to her!!! So then she is gonna she what she is missing. Let her know its her altimate decision but that its not fair for her to be treated that way, she deserves to be treated like a princess(dont say you deserve better_just don't) Don't say it to often she is gonna see only that you want them to break up. If he is abusing her emotionally she needs to feel good once in a while. So once in a while tell her, i know you dont get this from him so i just wanna let you know your amazing and beautiful and he should be counting his bellsing every day to have you.
Hope everything works out, keep me posted.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.

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i like this guy that doesnt even know i exsist, what do i do?

Darling,
The other answer are right on the dot, but if he doesn't know you exist is there a reason? Get close to a friend of his find out about him (dont ask ?'s like a stalker tho) then have the friend introduce you two. Get to know him as a person. Be confident but not cocky but dont do the im so ugly or i don't look good today they hate that. Walk with pride. Get to know him as a person because it sounds to me like yyou like his look becuase if he doesn't know you exist you odviously dont talk to him ad dont know thingks about him. Ask about his family. Have fun with him. Be outgoing and play a flirty game of soccer with him. Tell me how things work out.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.

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im 16/f and there is a guy that is 2 years younger than me. i know age difference sucks but who cares. well you see we always use to flirt nonstop when we saw each other but we never kissed or anything! i dont think he sees me as that way?! i just dont know but now he has a girlfriend and i still see him alot but he always starts flirting with me. i love it and do it back and he always grabs me and holds me from behind and is like you cant get out! or just like pushes me..anything he can do to flirt with me. one time i wore white shorts and they were see-through and i guesss he told his friend that he didnt mind or whatever lol and that he was looking at my ass and also when i wore a skirt i guess my butt was accidently showing and he was looking at it and was like why cant more girls be like her (me)? trust me im not a slut though i have never had a boyfriend and only madeout with one guy so far! but now im thinking does he like me? or does he just like flirting with me. because what about his girlfriend i know he likes her! we always have such great talks though! and he is so adorable and sweet its unbelievaeble. he looks so much older also. but the whole girlfriend thing throws me off..everytime i see him he just gets me though. i'll probably see him tomorrow or sometime soon this week so do you think i should like just keep doin what im doin..if he flirts then flirt back? im not gonna try and steal him away or anything but i just love flirting with him and im kinda crushin on him =p and im not gonna stop talking or seeing him either..just not gonna happen

well thanks for taking your time!

Darling,
Your mind seems made up but if i could help you,
He is just in it for a booty call.
If he was serious the girlfriend wouldn't be there but she is so he isn't willing to stop what he has going for you. Also he odviously doesn't respect you if hes making remarks about you ass hanging out he just wants a part of it. I know your not going to stop talking to him but your gonna get yourself either hurt or in trouble with this situation if you dont stad up to yourself to him. Tell him you dont appriciate him all over you and remarks when he has a girl but you like him you just like him better single. Let him know he can't have both of you. Believe me they love the chase anyway but hintyour intrested. Ok Love good luck.
Sincerly,
Vennessa.

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