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So my girlfriend went to a party with an ex. There are two of them there actually. It is a twenty first birthday and they are drinking. Is this okay? Should I not be worried. I would not consider drinking with my exes. I would feel like I was betraying my love. I just want to know if I am being paranoid. I mean people can get crazy when they are drunk. I trust her with all my heart. But I know what happens when people get drunk. Esspecially when exes are involved. Also she is staying the night. (link)
Well of course their gonna do something, silly. Personal I think they'll do something more then what friends do, if they are partying. Also their gonna stay a night with eachother..? Like wth is with that?. I don't even understand why this even allowed to happen. I advise you to stop this from happening or your gonna get hurt, or why don't you go she's your girlfriend she's should spend time with you, not her ex. And 's if this goes down a lot then she's prolly a slut...sorry.


Well, i am 20 years old..there is a guy from church he is 24 years old. I really like him he's sweet, very friendly, always playing with the little children and always seem to get along with everybody. Every time i am talking to somebody he always comes and starts a conversation with me or the person or the both of us, and he always gives me a hug when i arrive at church and when i am leaving. He invited me to an event some of the people from church are going to and i said yes, but then i heard he was bringing friends so i don't know if he is going to even talk to me while we are there. I think he gives me mixed signals because sometimes he talk to me for a long time and other times not at all, he just says hi and bye. I've only been going to the church for about 6 weeks now though. I know that he is single because a few weeks ago we all went out for ice cream and some of the people said he could find a girl there and he wasn't really looking at the girls because they looked young. But he seemed intrigued by the idea (I know this is going to sound pathetic but) He threw a piece of paper at a girl that goes to the church also, then he threw it at me..i mean i don't think that meant anything right? He was saying how he really wants a girlfriend, and after that he said he's going to the movies with a guy from the church that same night, and he asked me if i wanted to go but he said it in a joke kind of way i guess he wasn't serious about me going with them. And the first time i think he actually noticed me at church he sat next to me and introduced himself and he talked to me a lot that night, but what if he had already planned on sitting there before i came? because his friend was sitting in the seat next to him but there was an empty seat by his friend also. I know this probably sounds childish but i do like him A LOT. I don't want to tell him because i don't want him to get weird around me if he doesn't like me back.
So my question is, from what i wrote up there do u think he's just being friendly because I'm new to the church or do u think he might actually like me??
He is from NY and he looks Hispanic, i am mixed with black and white..he's about 6'1" and i am 5'6" in height. I am brown, long hair and skinny, he is brown and he looks like he works out a little but kinda on the skinny side though. I provided our physical descriptions (a little) because i feel that will make it easier for you to determine if, judging from the way he looks, if he would be interested in someone like me. Please give your honest advice so i don't go make a fool of myself and tell his boy that I'm in love with him. Thank you :) (link)
It's hard to know cuz it's at church n everyone is nice at church. Im sure he likes you, but idk if he want to get with you or whatever. Honestly, I would just go with the flow and if he comes to you then there ya go. If your searching for love you won't find it till your not looking, it'll come out of no where and you'll know.


i have now discovered that even though girls say they want genuinely nice guys they chase after assholes, who do nothing but treat them badly. but why do girls still do it. (link)
Well..I think that the "nice guys"are all clingy, way to nice all the time, and kinda creepy. And the assholes are just better on a bunch of different levels, like great in bed and their assholeness just turns us girls on. I'm mean the asshole guy can be nice too. I'd just rather b with a dick who is nice at the same time and doesn't have those "nice guys" quaitly. Hope I helped. Oh and just because you buy a girl something does not mean you guys are like really great friends n you think you can follow her around because u can't.


I was with this guy for 1 year and 8 months, no details.. all you really have to know is that we were best friends/lovers/brothers/sisters/ basically everything to the other person.he ruined it completely, he was confused , wanted his freedom, and basically threw me out of his life, i wouldnt leave him alone until one day i jus did, i didnt contact him for a month, and he came back saying he regrets it, and hes sorry and i told him i dont trust him, and i dont know who he is anymore, and all that.. but i said maybe i can try and trust you, and hes been working hard to gain my trust and now we always talk, he totally broke my heart, i felt like there was no reason to live after the break up, it was horrible, and idont know if me giving him another chance is right, my mind tells me everyone deserves a second change, and my heart tells me hes just gonna break it again, i dont know what to do, should i give it a try? or should i stop talking to him and tell him things will never be the same? alot of things happend between us, he lost my trust ALOT, im not just telling him this, i litteraly DO NOT trust him what so ever, maybe ill trust him again? should i give it a shot or would that be stupid going back to someone who hurt me? i dont know what to do, my heads all over the place, im a mess.. i cant be with him or without him, im so inlove with him not much people will understand it.. thats my FIRST question.. my second question is, i need tips to get over my jealousy issue completely, yes it sounds retarded hes never really been close to friends that are girls uptil we broke up, which was a huge mistake because its normal to be friends with the opposite gender, and if i want this to work i have to have to have to get over it and i dont know how, whenever i hear him calling his friend cool or "were so close" i get all jealous and pissed off and i KNOW its wrong, i just dont know how to get over this. Sorry if this was long. (link)
Listen to me, stay away from him. He will rip your heart out an you will b empty. Move on before you waste anymore time getting attached. I'm sure he's a scumbag


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