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Does this guy like me or is he just being nice?!!
Well, i am 20 years old..there is a guy from church he is 24 years old. I really like him he's sweet, very friendly, always playing with the little children and always seem to get along with everybody. Every time i am talking to somebody he always comes and starts a conversation with me or the person or the both of us, and he always gives me a hug when i arrive at church and when i am leaving. He invited me to an event some of the people from church are going to and i said yes, but then i heard he was bringing friends so i don't know if he is going to even talk to me while we are there. I think he gives me mixed signals because sometimes he talk to me for a long time and other times not at all, he just says hi and bye. I've only been going to the church for about 6 weeks now though. I know that he is single because a few weeks ago we all went out for ice cream and some of the people said he could find a girl there and he wasn't really looking at the girls because they looked young. But he seemed intrigued by the idea (I know this is going to sound pathetic but) He threw a piece of paper at a girl that goes to the church also, then he threw it at me..i mean i don't think that meant anything right? He was saying how he really wants a girlfriend, and after that he said he's going to the movies with a guy from the church that same night, and he asked me if i wanted to go but he said it in a joke kind of way i guess he wasn't serious about me going with them. And the first time i think he actually noticed me at church he sat next to me and introduced himself and he talked to me a lot that night, but what if he had already planned on sitting there before i came? because his friend was sitting in the seat next to him but there was an empty seat by his friend also. I know this probably sounds childish but i do like him A LOT. I don't want to tell him because i don't want him to get weird around me if he doesn't like me back.
So my question is, from what i wrote up there do u think he's just being friendly because I'm new to the church or do u think he might actually like me??
He is from NY and he looks Hispanic, i am mixed with black and white..he's about 6'1" and i am 5'6" in height. I am brown, long hair and skinny, he is brown and he looks like he works out a little but kinda on the skinny side though. I provided our physical descriptions (a little) because i feel that will make it easier for you to determine if, judging from the way he looks, if he would be interested in someone like me. Please give your honest advice so i don't go make a fool of myself and tell his boy that I'm in love with him. Thank you :)
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It's hard to know cuz it's at church n everyone is nice at church. Im sure he likes you, but idk if he want to get with you or whatever. Honestly, I would just go with the flow and if he comes to you then there ya go. If your searching for love you won't find it till your not looking, it'll come out of no where and you'll know.
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