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well before my and bf started going out he was about to go out with this other girl. but we ended up being together anyways. one time i got on my bf's myspace and i was 1st on his top but then the other girl was 2nd. i shrugged it off. now i just added that girl as my friend on myspace and her name is 'summer_love' and everything on her page is about love love love and guess who 1st on her tops? yes, my bf. i dunno if i'm just paranoid or something's up. any advice? (link)
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Well i dont think your bf is cheating on you. Her stuff on her myspace, with all the love stuff, is probably to let him know she is inlove or trying to make him jelous. or evne worse, to make you jelous! Thats most likely why she put him first. Because she knows you will see it and start frekaing out alittle, and then ask your bf questions, then he will get annoyed [so she thinks], and then she thinks he will come running into her arms. lol just keep a close eye on him and her. if you see them trying to secretly talk, or check his myspace comments or check his inbox. see what they are talking about. Im trying not to sound like im saying to stalk him, because im not, but just.. keep watch because she sounds like the type that would snatch your man in a heartbeat.
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Okay hi i am a 13/f and i still haven't had my 1st kiss. But i have a boy friend that i have known since i was 3 years old and he is like the sweetest guy ever and i love him to feath but he wants to kiss tomarro and so do i but im scared like i really want to kiss him but like i dont know how to kiss Lol but its true i dont but i want to and so does he as i said befor but can you help ???? PLEASE do help me
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Dont know what ta do (link)
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Well i've never had my first kiss either. so i dont really know what you should do. but i can give you alittle bit of adivce... if you are going to kiss him i wouldnt plan it. its much funner when its a surprise. It makes it alittle more real. Other then just saying "Hey lets kiss tomorow". Doesnt the surprise way seem funner? lol
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okay, im 13 and i this guy switched over to ourr school and i guess i kind of like him. i hang out with the guys a lot b/c they are just fun to be around especailly his guy friends. but i still act like a girl. idk for sure if he likes me but he has me the highest girl on his top(3) and at parties we hang out alot gives me random hugs, and quick arm around my shoulder/waist. but i want to get him to for sure like me and ask me out, atleast make out. what do i do to get totally out of the friend zone!? (link)
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i would tell him. he seems like he likes you back but is too nervous to make a move. if he was truly your friend and you tell him that you like him, and he doesnt feel the same way, he would forget about it and continue being friends, ntot erase you from the plannet
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I called my friend Sara and i ask her out on the phone. i told her that i had a dream about her that we went out. she said it was romanic. i ask her if she will go out with me and she said she'll think about it. a week later i ask her if she thougt of it yet and she reply she'll think about it. its been a month and no word about it. i vist her and my other friend too last week and i put my arms around them. we all 3 are great friends and we all 3 hit each other for fun. and when Sara and Angel hit me right after, I put my arms around there shoulders i said, "i love when girls hit me" and Sara got grossed out and push away my arm. why did she get grossed out? i ketp on leaning on her and she trun to ask me why i'm doing that i said just because. so does she see me as a brother? (link)
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hi, i am a girl, and i think if a guy did that to me i would be flattered if i liked him. she probably isnt interested in being anything more than friends. dont worry, if you find another girlfriend she will probably be jealous.
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Okay, I'm sixteen and there's this guy that's somewhere around 21 or 22 that lives across from my grandmother. Everytime I'm over there and he's outside he stares at me and when I see him out somewhere he does the same thing. My mom told me that she thinks he likes me but the thing is he never actually smiles when he looks at me but he doesn't look away when I look back. So my question is this: does he like me or not because he's never actually talked to me at all or even waved. I don't actually know anything about him except where he works and that he loves eighties grunge rock (known from his t shirts). What should I do exactly to get him to talk to me or even acknowledge me beside the usual staring contest? (link)
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he probably see's something in you he likes. maybe he thinks your attractive, or he just likes flirting. go ahead and talk to him. you'll never know if you dont try.
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Im 15/ Female from Ada
Ok... my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. And well, me and him havent had sex but we mess around. Like oral and fingering and making out. Well he says oral isn't sex, so it doesn't go against the bible. By the way, he is very religious. I think that oral is sex... but I don't want to tell him my opinion. Because I don't want us to stop, I like it! So what should I do, we are totally in love and I wish we could have sex. What should i tell him to have him understand that I enjoy that kind of connection with him and don't wanna stop? In my past, I feel that I have always been rejected. And i don't want to feel that way with him. (link)
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Okay, well you may like my advice and may not... When you really love someone you would appreciate there opinion. But at 15 you seem alittle too young to be having sex.
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