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hey peeple! i need some help BADLY! my boyfriend just broke up with me last tuesday and we have been going out for 4 months and he hurt me really really bad... he sayd he doesnt wana go out with me agen and he hurts me feelings alot... i stil kinda like him, i dont miss him, i miss the person i thot he was. he hurt me so bad, and now im actually KINDA starting to get over him, i like this guy and he likes me and we are going to go out and i think this is a really good choice because this boy is WAY WAY WAYYYY nicer then my old boyfriend was...except now i have a bad reputation for going out with this guy because he has slept with a few thousand girls and every1 thinks im a slut so b4 i had friends and then i just had my boyfriend and now it feels like i have no1... but maybe if i go out wityh this guy then things will get better, i dont really need aton of advice but im just having problems in my life ...
thanks Xox0XoX0!~ (link)
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HAy hun,
i say go out with the guy! if hes nice then he should make u feel alot better and u wil prob get frends bak soon too! not to mention if ppl dont like u for u then fuck em! ur reputation doesnt matter that is wat ppl think of u! the only thing that matters is wat u think of urself and i no how this sounds like corny times 1000 but hay its tru so jus go with the flow. if it gets worse talk to sum1 about it! but i think things wil go ur way. hope i helped rite to me sumtime!
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u never answered me on my first ? i asked how to kiss cuz i really like this guy nd i want it to be great not something hes already had i never actually have kissed how was it ur first time did u really like the guy plzz answer me im meeting him pretty soon (link)
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Hey,
umm idk really how i messed up on ur first ? but i will try agin yes, i really did like the guy and it really was a good kiss but how to do sumthin he hasnt alredy done? umm idk... kiss him places bisides the lips... neck shoulder,,, ear... anywher! also try a lil tounge action! hope i helped this time!
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dear fran~I'm 14yrs. old and a female~the problem is I'm going to High School and I've never really been popular,but I think it's b/c I'm afraid to act like myself.How can I not be afraid.(like it's just in school too,at camp-and u know me-everybody liked me,I just don't know how to do it at school) (link)
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Hey hun,
heres my advice... u gotta jus focus on one thing... u hav to just think that u dont giva shit wat anyone else cares about u! jus think to ur self i like me and hoo i am if other ppl dont like it.... then they should get over it! ur u and if every1 liked u at camp and im sure we all did then every1 will probly love u at school! jus b nice to every1 u meet and ur set! mainly u jus gotta b out ther and jus not care about wat ppl think and jus totally dont b scared to b urself cus wel thas u!!! i hope that helped a lil!
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i have to best freinds in the whole world. well my best friends dont like eachother and im being pressured to choose one of them and only one!! what do i do?>????????????????? i have already tried talking to um.? what else should i do? (link)
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OOooOO toughie hear eh? okay wel jus try to keep em away from eachother but spend equal time or ther could b a cat fight and the only ppl hoo like that r guys... lol anyways also tel em if ther really ur frends they wont let sumthin stupid like that get between yall u cant pick between them and they need to no that. if they cant cope with that then i really dont no wat to do! i hope i helped a lil!
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hey fran,I just went on this vavation,and there were a bunch of guys and girls there,and we all hung out.The problem is I gues I have big boobs or something,cause one of the guys called my big boob Mcgoo,and was always like can a see your tits,and lemme have a boob cookie.Personally no guys have ever liked me before(this is >not so confused (link)
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Dear Not So Confused,
thers absolutely no problem with u! ur not really shy or anything! that guy was jus a flat out perv... personally i think ur a saint for not slapping him! if a guy ever does that to u agin tell him to fuck off! that guy was jus a creep and its not ur problem at all! jus forget him!
hope i helped!
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fran, i love u so much, but i figured that i dont have a chance with u... what can i do to get u to like me?
-lost lover (link)
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idk... im really sry! :'( ummm idk wat to do im sry
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dear fran,
i fantasize abotu having sex with women! but i like guys, i dont think about gurls unless im masterbating... am i a lesbo.. or bysexual or... do i just gte turned on by women doing it and giveing blow jobs n si=uking each others pussys, i alway s imagein guys and gurls, lots of them, having sex with me at once, is that ok? and a coupl eof times, ive imagined having sex with horses and dogs n giving them blow jobs... is that ok? please help?
animal gurl lover (link)
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ummm cant really help ya here
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i am very close guy frind to you im in the 8th grade
i go to dickerson and im gay no one knows but i go out with girls so no one knows
should i tell every one or keep going out with girls i dont like
dont say its up to you!!!!! (link)
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hey dude,
umm tough situation here... and u read my mind i want to say its up to u! but since u told me not to ummm im jus gunna say watever the hell comes to my mind... i think that if u r redy for every1 to no then u should tell ppl! if ur not then dont! but make sure u no that ther certain risks with telling ppl.. i think gay ppl r cool and should b treated like every1 els but sum ppl dont and u mite not b treated to great by them. jus b careful bout that and i hope i helped!
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my X from a year ago said "i was not the right guy to kiss" should i hate her?
i think i shoud!
what u going to do about this one francenze (link)
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Hey
ur X from a year ago dint said u were the right guy to kiss jus not that u wer the right guy forever she had no problem kissing u and no regrets she was just simply saying that u wernt the right guyu for her. btw... dont u alredy hate me? only hell nos y tho! thanx for the question zach!
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helloo...well this is the problem..i first had a bf named greg but then i cheated on him w/ my best guy friend jake..oops..once greg found out,he got really mad but then i found out he was cheating on me w/ his ex gf's bff- sara- and so i guess we were pretty much even, so now i still have feelings for greg, but i really like jake too...and same w/ greg...and now greg found out that sara's pregnant and shes trying to decide whether to have an abortion or just have it..so greg is really going thru a rough time and i dont kno how to help him...and jake still loves me and i love him back , but same w/ greg...please help me w/ what to do w/ greg and how to handle loving 2 guys b/c basically i love them the same! :(
love,
stuck on 2.. (link)
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Dear Stuck on 2,
this is wat i think u should do... go out with jake... if u and greg both cheated on eachother it means yalls relationship isnt to strong and if u wer willing to risk it for jake then he must b a pretty good guy about greg and his other girl sarah, support him but if he really got sum other girl pregnant then 1)he needs to b with her and 2)he doesnt deserve u! hope i cleared things up a lil bit!
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how do u give good sex (link)
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i wouldnt no! im a virgin!
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dear fran,
i want to kiss this guy very much but it will be my first time. On your first kiss was it good perfect and was it the right guy? And what i make the move i dont want him to reject me what should i do (link)
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hey hun,
my first kiss was pretty good but it wasnt with the right guy but im not regretting that i kissed him cus i really liked him at the time! so if u really like this guy go ahed! my advice about kissing him... him he looks at u and its the right time jus! idk! kiss him!! i REALLY doubt that hes gunna reject u and if hes a good guy then he wont! good luck i hope i helped!
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dear fran...
i have a problem, thats obviously why im writing... well my problem is... my bets friends, fro 1st grade to 8th is leaving.. she moving away... well theres a going away party for her, and i dont no wat to get her, yet alone to be able to say goodbye to her! i moved to my town at the end of 1st grade, everyone was mean n rude, but she came up n was soooo sweet n nice, n made everyone like me... shes been my best friend every since! i dont want her to leave,even if she is only moving 15 min away! shes going to another skool, n another county!wat do i get her, and how do i say im gonna miss u but ull always b my bestfriend!?! i dont wanna say good byebut i have to! please help!
sincerely,
afraid to lose a friend! (link)
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Dear afraid to lose a frend,
wat i think u should get... actualy its more like make! make a collage of every picture or movie ticket or anything that reminds u of times and things uv done together! make it really pretty and personal! she will love it!
wat i think u should do... bleve it or not almost all of my frends dont go to my school! i jus get along with ppl outa my school better for sum reason... anywho the main key is just to keep in touch talk on the fone, IM, and see eachother wenever possible sum of my frends live 20 minutes away and i stil manage to see them a ton! good luck! hope i helped!
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im a 14 yr old girl who needs the feeling to be horny. sometimes i get a few pillows or stuffed animals and hump them pretending they're this guy i like. how can i get horny with out using pillows or stuffed animals? (link)
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finger urself....
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There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away? (link)
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REBEL DUDE GO OUT WITH HIM!!!!!!!!
lol sry im a lil hyper today but seriously they should bak off u can make ur own decisions! its not like ur asking to hav sex with the guy which by the way i wouldnt do cus its considered stachatory rape!! lol good luck with the guy!!write me sumtime!
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Dear Fran,
hey,I wrote earlier about being the girl who has never been asked out.I read your advice,but I have no guy friends,and I don't really see how I can get any.I'm really a tomboy at heart,but that drives them away.What should I do to get a guy? (link)
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Hey not as confused,
ud b suprised how much guys really do like tomboys! jus they dont like ppl so much hoo dress like them so dress normally like abercrombie and shit unles ur more of the pac sun type and then jus b ur self! believe im a tom boy at heart to! if u asked any of my frends wen i grow up which would i choose... beer or like a cosmopolatin or champagne(dont even no how to spel those!)i would choose beer!lol in my opinion its 10000 times better! anyways guys will like u for hoo u r and if they dont then ther jerks! B UR SELF!!! ask sum of ur frends wen u hang out to bring guys i met like half of my guy frends through one person! it works! also jus try to talk to ppl even if ur shy talking never hurts and niether does laughing! lol i do both of those alot! hope that helped a lil!! write me sum time!!
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do? (link)
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Hey hun,
heres wat i would do if i was u... as i was reading this question i was talking on the fone and i was reading it aloud and my best guy frend was like OMG that sounds exactly like wat jus happened to u... cus i like him and jus kinda broke up with my bf for him and so on and so forth...but wat i would do is break up with the bf. if u havnt talked to him n that long thers a major communication problem and that NEVER works! and i say go out with the best frend he seems like a great guy and like u hav a sure chance with him! about the frend... explain ur situation and tell her the truth about everything... u dint call her a slut u dint tell him anything bad about her etc... she should understand and get over the fact that u going out with him if shes a tru friend. lastly jus remeber to b happy... the fact of ur happiness is the most important thing here. hope i helped!! write me sum time!
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fran!!
i still like my x-bf!! hes the sweetest thing on earth!! not that cute.. but still looks dont really matter... hes really nice and everything i ever wanted in a guy.. but i promised him that i wuld go back out with him coming when school starts.. but.. theres another guy that i just found out i liked.. hes so sweet and nice and same interests in everything and not to mention HOTT!!!! we both play the same sports and i told him i would hang out with him and go to the movies with him after our soccer tourney.. but im relly confuse i think i may like him a whole bunch!!! but what about the other guy? what should i do????????
love,
broken in 2! (link)
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Dear Broken in 2,
this is my advice u hav to figure out witch one u like most... i no it is like 100000000 times impossible but u hav to decide!! compare qualities about each of them and hoo would better bf things like that.... also y did u and ur ex breakup? that mite sumthin to think about.. good luck with the guys! write sum time!
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its in love with a friend n neighbor again!
i decidded to take your advise. how should i tell him, manhunt, sunset, tell him n lean in for a kiss on th echeck or lips or wat? plus itd b my first kiss!!!! uh oh! im so confused plase help me, im crying!!!! thanx so much! luv ya much!
in love with a friend n neighbor (link)
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Dont worry about it!!!!!! kissing comes naturally and so will telling him!! after u get it done it will hav seemed so much easier!! U WILL B FINE!! DONT WORRY!!! write me sum time!
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how should i leanin for my kiss? should it b cheek lips or wat? i really want him to kiss me back, but how od i pick the rite words to tell him? ill IM u n tell u who i am if u please help me think of sum words, and how i shouldlean in!!! thanx
in love with a friend n a neighbor (link)
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Dear in love with a frend n a neighbor for the 3rd time,
lol!! ur title is getting pretty long now!!! i say do lips! and jus tell him w/e ur thinking dont come up with sum dumb speech jus flat out tell him!!! and then jus kiss him!! jus tell him and get closer while u are and kiss him wen ur done! im sure it will all b fine! dont worry about it! good luck! the sn is UGAhottie321 if u need it! write me sum time!
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