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Hey! My name is Molly and I live in CALIFORNIA. Though I have only been on this Earth for 15 years, I have experiecned a lot. Here's a little about me:
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Im 20 years old, im engaged and getting married this july. and im a virgin. i am TERRIFIED of the thought of having sex. my fiance says he will respect my feelings, but it just really scares me. i dont kno what to do. i love him so much, and the idea of sex, like connecting with someone because you love them so much is nice. but im terrified of the what happens. i know that probably sounds ridiculous to a lot of people, but i could really use some advice.

Thanx

Hi. You probably shouldn't feel rediculous about this topic. Some people are ready to have sex at different times, such as 9 years old to 90 years old. Well, you know. Different ages.

You should not be ashamed, you will be ready when you are ready.

That is a really good thing that your fiance respects you, that is a good attribute in relationships. He will wait.

Don't pressure yourself to have sex when you don't want to, or are afraid to. Then, you might end up even more scared than before you did it!

However, you can (if you want) look up the facts of sex and what happens. Ask your fiance, friends, family, professionals. Maybe knowing the facts and what you are supposed to feel will calm you down. Fear is the unknowing. Get in the know!

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Okay this is kind of strange for me, I never post questions on my love life....so here it goes.

I have a boyfriend who is 17 and I am 14. (Its only a two in a half year difference, I'm almost 15) so we've been dating for about three weeks. He told me he was going to wait till' he said I love you, until he really meant it, and he did last night. The only thing is, I don't love him back, I know that for sure. But I am not even sure if I like him. He is an amazing guy. But when we kiss, I don't really feel anything. I get butterfly's when he says I love you, but other than that I don't really feel anything.
I've heard people say that you should get like butterfly's or w/e when you kiss, but I don't get them. So I don't know if I even like him.
I miss him when he is gone for long periods of time, and I look forward to seeing him and stuff. But I don't know.
I realize that this is REALLY limiting information, but from what I've told you, can you guys just kinda tell me if you think I like him or not?

If you are not happy with the relationship, but happy with the guy, you should probably consider breaking up. I have had those experiences before. The guy is CRAZY over me, but I dont want anything to do with him. lol. I want to be happy, and feel good in my relatioships, how about you?

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all my mates have kissed some1 , i havnt, what is the first kiss like and "how do you"kiss lol!
13/f
sadie x

Well, I am 15 and I have had a boyfriend now for two weeks, and we havent kissed yet. I have had previous boyfriends, but I never kissed them, because it didnt feel right. I know you are feeling left out and maybe even pushed, but the right time for kissing will come I promise. There will be a special someone in a special place. If it doesnt feel right, dont be dragged into doing it. Dont be afraid to say no. But, anyways, Itll come soon. Hope you have happy kissing!

Molly

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ok so i really like this guy but in 1 week im moving... to colorado and i live in texas i dunno what to do (i know he likes me)

Aw thats sad. But you can still keep in touch with him. Like advicenators, email or messenger, myspace, phone calls, etc. There are many ways to stay in touch. But, like most long-distance relationships they dont last long. Just remember that there are many other guys out there for you. Or your parents JUST might reconsider the move. But dont throw a temper tantrum. Thats gonna get you nowhere. (I mean to Colorado) So those are some ideas. Talk to someone like a friend or family to work it over. Hope this helped!

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alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do?

If you are absolutely sure you still like him, dont move on. Tell him that you want another try with him. You should at least tell him your feelings because if he doesnt know them, then how can he know, you know? lol. So I would just tell him. I know it can be scary cuz you guys broke up and everything, but you should just take the plunge and find out what his feelings are towards you. If hes over you, then basically its over, and you get to eat icecream and chocolate and celabrate. There are so many other people out there not just him. Hope this helped. Any other questions just ask me!!! *Molly*

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I need some ideas of love songs. like really romantic soppy stuff. Im making a video for my bf. ive got a few so far..

boys 2 men - i swear
celine dion - i want you to need me

but i need a few more ideas can any one help please? nothing rocky thanks :)

I RATE!

Hi. I absolutely lovvve these songs and I think of my love when I hear them...

When I think about Cheatin'- Gretchen Wilson

Photograph- Nickelback (I dont know if thats classified as a love song and its kinda rock-ish)

Thats all that i can think of right now but when i think of more ill let you know!

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ok sorry this might be long ill rate all 5's for your time.

i like this guy and he said he likes me back but he doesnt trust girls cause he's been hurt in the past. My one friend who is friends with him too talked to him about it and tried to get it threw his head that i wouldnt hurt him like that and i've tried also. i just dont know what to do anymore i like him so0o0o0o much and ill wait for him. but i dont know sometimes i think im wasting my time cause he'll never date me.

any advice on what to do?
thanks !

Time is the key. Just hang out with him as much as you can but dont bring up the subject dating. Make him feel comfortable with you first, then you can go on to the bigger stuff. If you really like him, and he really likes you, then both of you will wait for eachother. Maybe another reason he is not "falling" completely for you is he might be eyeing another girl. Or, just not ready for girls at all. But, if not, spend as much time with him to make him feel like you would never hurt a fly, or hurt him. Good Luck Chica!

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im 23 & my g/f is 20.her bestfriend hates me,what am i gonna do?

If you and your gf love eachother, nothing should get in your way. Maybe you can tell your gf's bestfriend that you and your gf are gonna be together for a long time and she is just gonna have to like you. You can talk to the bff and say maybe we can try to get along. Hope this helps.

TurrrrrrtleMolly

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help there is this dance on saturday that im going to with this guy but im gnna make a fool of myself cause i cnt grind:( cal someone help plz ill rate 5

OMG. I know exactly what youre going through. Yeah there are many ways to do it and the advice that Stephanie gave is like the most "intense" way of grinding. You dont want to do that if you are a beginner. The less intense way is you can kinda just bend your knees and shake it. Sometimes put your hands on your neck and upper body. And, also you dont have to grind. You can do "the sprinkler" or "the worm" or something. Just do what your friends are doing... lol.

TurrrrrrtleMolly

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