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So i split up with my 1 yr boyfriend about a month ago and i started to like someone else.
That someone is a BIG flirt LOL
& the other day i told him i liked him but he didnt say much back .
He agreed to come out with me so do u think hes interested?
Im reli confused.
We have alot in common but i duno if he likes me or if hes just flirting , how can i find out?
Please give me some ideas [:
Im stuck .
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Go on a couple of dates and see if he puts in any effort to see or talk to you :) Don't rush things, make them perfect
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kso im a 16 year old gay boy and i've been dating a boy for 7 months and he cheated on me once with a girl [[he was bi now hes gay]] i forgave him. than he went to a party and got totally drunk and cheated on me again but this time with a boy. i forgave him. but im not sure if i should of forgave him or not. i just dont want to get hurt again. i mean its a internet relationship and im going to see him this summer. and i really love him and all. erg i dont know what to do >. (link)
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Tell him how you feel. You can wait till you see eachother and stay with him or just be friends until you meet up so you dont get hurt. Look down deep inside him and see if hes doing it on accident or on purpose...
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Soo I sit with this kid at the lunch table we can call him "Matt". Matt and I just became friends like almost 2 weeks ago. Now he wont leave my side. Sure we pick on eachother every once and a while. But i really like him and I dont know how to tell him. Matt is really rich and Im scared he will think I only like him due to his money. And i dont. I dont know what to do beyond this point. Please Help. (link)
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You should talk to him privately because it sounds to me, him following you, he might just like you! Tell him you like him but you dont want it to hurt your friendship if he doesn't feel the same way. And about his money, if he likes you too, clear up the thought that you don't like him for his money but for his heart :)
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Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 2 0r 3 years younger than me. Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. Should I still take the chance with him because I like him so much or is it too wrong that he's so young?
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It's not wrong to date someone younger, if you really like someone or love someone that should be one of the last things to interfear! Give him a shot :)
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when he said he knew someone that liked you he was talking about me. you don't know because i'm nervous you won't like me. (link)
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Just try me :)
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i am a female and i am in 10th grade. there is this guy that i hung out with alot last summer he is two years older than i am and we were really good friends last summer.i actually had a crush on him ithink he liked me but i wasnt sure. then i did something that caused him to dislike me and we spend months whithout tlking. now almost a year last we still dont tlak but recently he has been leaving me myspace comments and he imed me once saying something completely random then blockingme and also in the halls at school he gives me these weird looks. i dont know what is going on and if hes still mad at me or if he wants to be friends or what. i need a guys advice on this. thanks! (link)
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You need to confront him about this and seriously talk to him about what you told me like this wierd tension between you two and the looks. Keep the conversation mature but if he doesnt care at all, hes not worth the time.
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i am a female and im a sophomore in high school.okay so there is this guy and he tells me everyday how much he really likes me and how he wants to date me so badly, hes soo sweet and nice... the only problem is i dont know him that well but i have met him once or twice but im not really attracted to him. i like his personalty more than his looks i know i seem shallow saying that but i really dont know what to do i dont want to upset him and tell him i dont like him cause i kinda do its just im not too attracted to him. what should i do?? im so confused and this problem has been on my mind for months i need some help. (link)
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Well if you do like him, you shouldn't let that go. Tell him how you really feel and that you don't want to rush things.
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this boy. we've been "talking" for a year and a half,(lets call him.. Joey) and are waiting until high school to get into an actual relationship. Now, we WERE going too during the summer, however, he HATES being single, and so he found a girl.. who i don't favor.. let alone like at ALL.. they "talked" for about three weeks, and ended up dating for one week.. a waste, right?.. but that's not the point, while they were "talking" my best friend (who's a guy, Let's call HIM Tyler) and i became a lot closer, ended up hooking up, and we were talking about being in a relationship as soon as he got his insane ex-girlfriend off of his case. We got into a huge fight a the night before last about him not wanting to date me, in fear of hurting me. and in saying that, he ended up hurting me. he called me and i was crying my eyes out, and yesterday he came to my house with flowers, gave me a kiss and asked for a second chance (and i was sick, so it was cute), and then. the perfect timing, Joey's gf broke up with him last night.. and he said that all he wanted was to be with me.. and blah blah blah, Tyler's hurt me ONCE and i want to see how it goes with him before i start Joey again.. i want to be with Tyler, but i still love Joey, i know that.
here's the deal, i'm thinking of dating Tyler, to see how things are.. to see if he really is ready for a real, long term relationship, and if it goes into high school, Joey can wait. but if it doesn't, I can talk to Joey again..
i sound like a player, but i really do love both of these boys.. a kind of Love-Triangle.
is that a good decision?
(sorry it's so long :D) (link)
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You need to do what feels like. It seems like your in a situation where someone is gonna get hurt, but try and prevent that in the easiest way.
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See, there's this guy that I just can't get out of my head. I don't know why, but I just can't stop thinking about him. I swear he is the most beautiful and sweetest guy ever. And I really want to ask him to my prom which is coming up in like 2 months, but the problem is I haven't known him very long, even though I do talk to him on AIM quite often and like twice on the phone. And normally the answer would just be to get to know him better but the tickets are being sold in like 2 weeks and I have no free time untill then to hang out with him. Should I still ask him? Because he'd be the most perfect guy ever to bring but I just don't know....... (link)
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Ask him if hed like to go with you even though you don't know him very well. If hes sweet theres no risk. But make sure you add in just as friends part.
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i like this boy and he's kind of really adorable. he's one of the more popular boys though and he's dated really pretty girls. he doesn't really know i exist but i'm afraid if i talk to him he'd be like wow what the fuck is she doing. should i try talking to him and get to know him or kinda just let my feelings for him fade away? (link)
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Yes Take a Risk, Get to Know him!
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i am a private person. i don't mean to me, it's just how i am. my close friends understand me well enough but they know to give me room. but i am outgoing i just don't say everything to everyone. i have been dating this guy for about a month and he doesn't know me. when i say that i mean he knows some things about me and he says he loves me. which me doubt it because he doesn't know all of me. which makes me think he loves me for what he thinks i am. we have drastically different views on things. he doesn't seem to realize what i find important when it comes to things. my friends agreed they don't think we should be together. but i don't know what i feel.
what should i do? (link)
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You should have a deep talk with him on how he views things over you. See where he is coming from and see if he sees where you are coming from. If he can't accept where you come from, how will you work? Don't give up easily and see what you feel inside you! Keep me updated.
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yeah so theres these 2 guys, and their best friends. One told me abuot 2 weeks ago that he liked me, and then the next day his best friend told me that he liked me. They both like me, and i kinda have feelings for only one of them. But i dont want to effect their relationship. Im afraid they might not be firneds if i chose one and not the other.. (link)
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I've had this happen before. Don't date one over the other because it hurts badly. Wait it out over time maybe the one will get over you, maybe not. Or if you do choose one over the other tell him before you date, he might take it easy or not. Think about it deeply before you choose!
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so. there's this guy. i've liked him for a year.. about. but he did some stupid things to be.. like.. bad.. but i still love the hell out of him. he knows this.. and he swears he feels the same way. sometimes he shows it.. and we planning on dating during the summer, and then the biggest slut of the fucking school has a mad crush on him.. and when he found that out... he says we should wait until high school... i'm worried. he's the first one i've ever loved.. and it'd do absolutely anything to be with him.. i'm doing so many things just so that maybe.. by the summer i'll be in his arms... i'm getting my nails done, tanning, exercising, changing my entire wardrobe just for him...
i just don't know what to do.. i don't want to wait.. but i can't help it..
i love this boy with all of my heart... and i honestly don't know what i would do if he left me.. he's my life.. my better half. (link)
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If he doesn't want to be with you right now theres nothing you can do except wait, which could also be good as long as he comes back. But if hes gonna fall for the slut, hes not the right guy for you picking her over you... Live on with your life having a crush on him but look into other options as hard as it may be.
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so. there's this guy. i've liked him for a year.. about. but he did some stupid things to be.. like.. bad.. but i still love the hell out of him. he knows this.. and he swears he feels the same way. sometimes he shows it.. and we planning on dating during the summer, and then the biggest slut of the fucking school has a mad crush on him.. and when he found that out... he says we should wait until high school... i'm worried. he's the first one i've ever loved.. and it'd do absolutely anything to be with him.. i'm changing my look, just for him.
i just don't know what to do.. i don't want to wait.. but i can't help it.. (link)
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Tell him how you feel and see what he says, what will it hurt? Your doing everything for him and let it show :)
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i like one of my best friends and i dont know what to do because i know he dosent have feelings for me like that and like i know i shouldnt be fallin for him like i am the second reason i know he dosent like me like that is because he's gay but i dont know how to stop my feelings for him i just dont know what to do i hope you can help me (link)
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Well i'd be straight forward with him that you like him. Im sure he will totally understand and plus it will get alot off your chest!
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Hey y'all im 15 and a girl. Well theres a guy i know and we hook-up like everytime i see him and don't get me wrong its great but latley i've been wanting a little bit more. At one point he did ask me out and i said no because i knew he's not the relationship type and i knew i would get hurt in the end and now it's been like the 6th time we've made-out and i know that he's over the whole the relationship thing but i think i might be back on it. What do i do? Dumb him, move on and get a new boy. Or stick to whats been going on right now. (link)
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Be honest with him say something like "I like you and I would really like to be in a relationship with you and see if things work out, but I dont want this to ruin our friendship." He might feel the same way, you never know...
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HI i am 15years old and a female and i am a freshmen in high school! okay soo there is this kid that says he likes me and that he would so go out wit me!&& i really like him. but like he is such a player it is not funnny at all! && i am scared that if i do go out wit him! then he will cheat on me and i am scared if gettting hurt, what should i do go out with him, or not? (link)
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You should take more time to know him close enough to set up some stability for if you do have a relationship. You need to decide if hes worth the risk or not...
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I'm in love with this guy and we have history and he still likes me but in the time we were mad at each other we got involved with other people. He still has a girl and I was about to hook up with this other guy who's really sweet and I like him..but the problem is, he's not replacing my feelings for the other guy and i dont think anyone can. Lately I've been in a better relationship with the guy I really love and he said he was going to break up with his girlfriend and I couldn't have been happier..until a day after the convo the other boy I might've hooked up with asked me out. I felt soooo terrible I didn't know what to say =[ I said I would have to think about and told his friend that I was in love with someone and not him and word got to him and now we're just..awkward. I like both of these guy but am only in love with one. I want to be with the person I love but...I feel bad because I pretty much led this other guy on while in a bad state. How can I handle this? (link)
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Well I totally understand where you are coming from, and you need to be totally honest with the boy you led on. He should understand however you want to put it. You need to decide whether you want the boy youve loved or the boy you like. Letting go can be good and bad whichever way you make it. Think things over and tell me!
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i kind of adore you.
again. (link)
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aww really?
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you're really cute.
I lost my phone number, can I have yours?
(: (link)
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hehe thanks, its 518 369 7835
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