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my best friend VS. the love of my life
this boy. we've been "talking" for a year and a half,(lets call him.. Joey) and are waiting until high school to get into an actual relationship. Now, we WERE going too during the summer, however, he HATES being single, and so he found a girl.. who i don't favor.. let alone like at ALL.. they "talked" for about three weeks, and ended up dating for one week.. a waste, right?.. but that's not the point, while they were "talking" my best friend (who's a guy, Let's call HIM Tyler) and i became a lot closer, ended up hooking up, and we were talking about being in a relationship as soon as he got his insane ex-girlfriend off of his case. We got into a huge fight a the night before last about him not wanting to date me, in fear of hurting me. and in saying that, he ended up hurting me. he called me and i was crying my eyes out, and yesterday he came to my house with flowers, gave me a kiss and asked for a second chance (and i was sick, so it was cute), and then. the perfect timing, Joey's gf broke up with him last night.. and he said that all he wanted was to be with me.. and blah blah blah, Tyler's hurt me ONCE and i want to see how it goes with him before i start Joey again.. i want to be with Tyler, but i still love Joey, i know that.
here's the deal, i'm thinking of dating Tyler, to see how things are.. to see if he really is ready for a real, long term relationship, and if it goes into high school, Joey can wait. but if it doesn't, I can talk to Joey again..
i sound like a player, but i really do love both of these boys.. a kind of Love-Triangle.
is that a good decision?
(sorry it's so long :D)
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