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Hi ya,
Just curious, we're having a joke and out of nowhere he asks do you reckon I'm handsome. I said not handsome but fetching and charming and he said he's never been told like that and I was the first person not to think he's handsome with a laugh. We just laughed so much afterwards. Is he being insecure? However, I can't tell even though we know each other well. Is he asking for my approval? Cheers! (link)
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It sounds as though your friend could be having some insecure problems or ego problems. My question to him would be: Do you think that you're handsome? If people have been telling him that he is handsome, what does it matter (to him) what your opinion of his looks are...Unless, he's looking for the truth from a friend. By the way, you took the smart way out with that response to him. You gave him a totally different approach to him image or physical attribute. You might want to ask him if your opinion of his looks are really important to him. Also, tell him that beauty (in his case: Handsomeness) is in the eye of the beholder. Your perception of his looks may be totally different from others. In other words, what may be handsome to some, might not be handsome to other.
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Hey,
I accidentally touched his thigh twice while we're in the car coz he was giving me a lift to town. I said sorry. we're kidding heaps but he pointed out saying, oh,you touched my thigh, you got a soft hand and soft pinky. He's a neighbour and a friend. We go to same university and we are quite frank to each other. He's just crazy, I reckon, jokes a lot. I feel like he's flirting with me or is he messing around? What do you reckon guys? Thanks a bunch! (link)
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Sounds to me like he paid you a compliment that could be considered a form of flirting. The only way to find out is to pay him a neighborly visit and talk to him and get to know him or spend time with him to see whether he likes you as more than a neighbor. However, if you value him as a friend and you don't want to ruin the friendship, then keep it strictly friendship between the two of you. You don't want to ruin a good friendship by being intimate and it doesn't work out or go beyond friends.
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