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Q: i have this boyfriend or basically did...but ok he broke up with me cause the feelings were there, and he nneeded time to mayb see if they would come back. and then yeah so we went to school and he seen me but didnt say anything and he told my friend that he didnt wanna get to attached cause he has college soon, and he feels really bad and really sorry and stuff and the thing i dont get is he told her"if we were met to be together then we will get back together" so what do u think?

please help ill rate!!

I think that the whole thing is something every girl goes through. Her boyfriend goes off to college and she stays back behind. I think you should give him some time to himself and just like he said if you were meant to be together you'll be together. Try looking around for someone to go out with but not to be serious with. He'll do the same thing when he goes off to college and only time will tell you what will be of you two.

Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~

Q: I like this guy and recently I told him I liked him, but now i kind of regret it because I know he is going to act different around me and its not going to be the same. What should I do?

You should tell him how you feel. Express your feelings for him. Tell him that no matter what you hope that it won't change your relationship that you have right now with him.

Q: I have no clue what to get my boyfriend for his birthday, he likes sports, and xbox games, I dont know if he would like jewelry. Can anyone please help me?

If he likes sports then depending on his favorite sport buy him a jersey... or even a hat... I know a lot of guys who like jerseies... But not a lot of guys like jewelry.

Q: i like this guy and he is sweet, attractive, and is so nice. He's funny and tall. One problem, got a girlfriend. He is so sweet tho and he pays more attention to me then his gf even tho i'm only his friend. Too bad his gf is my friend but not a really good one. He always flirts with me and i flirt back but is this ok?

When you flirt as long as you don't mean anything then it is okay. But if you guys flirt and mean something then I think he should leave his girlfriend and go with you.

Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~

Q: i really like my friend and i poured my heart out to him (after we told him i liked him 3 months earlier!) and he goes oh you still like me???? and so it was awkward for a while but hes been liek more normal anyway like this week is spring break and he hasnt been on so i went on an old sn and he WAS on so i found out HE BLOCKED ME!!!! i am so upset right now and i keep trying to get over him..please help me what to dO?!?! i am 14 female--hes 14 male

If he doesn't want to talk to you don't force him to. Maybe have one of your friends IM him and ask him why he blocked you. If he doesn't answer them then don't have anyone else IM him. Maybe he just needs some time to think about it. Give him some time and let yourself have some time to just think the whole thing over.

Lots of Luck
~*MaRiYa*~

Q: I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go?

It is very hard to keep a long distance relationship, even if it is a little more than 30 minutes away. Right now I'm in a similar situation. I have the love of my life but we both live far away. It would take me about a day to get to his house. I love him though. The point I'm trying to make is that if you both really love eachother everything will work out. I guess the answer to your question would be just see how things go.

Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~

Q: ok, i have a really good friend of another race that i had no doubt at all was gay. he was always checking out other guys and stuff so of course..duh, i thot he way gay. so we were really good friends and then all of a sudden he told me the DAY BEFORE april fools that he had had a really bad crush on me since the beguinning of last year. k, it TOTALLY threw me by suprise b/c i thot he was GAY!! so ne ways i though he was joking cos the next day was april fools but he wasn't kidding at all!!! so he kept stalking me and wouldn't leave me alone. he would always be like "have you though about it yet, you're taking FOREVER!!" but my mom just got home from the hospital from a really stressful and long-recovery surgery and she JUST now started walking. so i've been distracted obviously with my mom. so ne ways i was doing this filming project for school and he was stalking me the entire time. we were filming and he'd just be standing there looking around doing nothing, watching what we were doing when we all asked him to leave like 30 minutes ago, but he wouldn't leave. so finally we finished the project and i needed to change out of this crazy costume i was in so i told him "hey, i need to change into my regular clothes." an he just tood there starring at me, then he goes "well then?" like i was ACCTUALLY going to do it in front of him! so i told him he needed to go outside and he was all pissy about it. so then while i was changing i saw him STARRING AT ME THROUGH THE WINDOW WHILE I WAS CHANGING MY TOP!! oh my gosh it was so horrible! i felt so violated! and he's still been stalking me and saying "hey, how's your day?" to me in the hallway like we're going out even though it should be pretty clear to him that we're NOT!! so how do i tell this guy to get lost and leave me alone? i don't want to hurt his feelings, but then again he was starring at me while i was changing so i kind of do. ne suggestions? what should i say? i rate high

If he's stalking you then call the cops. Really if he's freaking you out that's the best thing to do. I've had many stalkers and I called the police. But before you go that far, if you know the guy, then tell him it's making you uncomfortable with him stalking you and that you want him to stop. Then if he doesn't stop call the police.

Good Luck
~*MaRiYa*~

Q: ok if a guys likes you and you like him ALOT.. but he hasnt asked you out yet.. how can you get him to stay liking you until he asks you out..cuz what if hes not poitive he likes you.. so how would you get him to kno for sure and get him really into you??

*thanx

I think that you should just talk to him, start to get to know him a little more. If you already know him pretty well you should try asking him out. I know it seems weird but if you think he likes you then you should try to win his heart. If he turns you down move onto another guy and don't let it bug you too much, no need to cry over a guy. Good luck!

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For a few years now I've been the one that all my friends come to when they have problems. At first I thought it to be annoying but soon after it all started I realized they were coming to me because I'm good at giving advice to them. For a few years I have been helping them with almost everything. I've had complete strangers come up to me at school and tell me their problems, asking me what they should do. One day this girl sent me an IM, she had gotten my SN from Xanga, she asked me what she should do. She wanted to kill herself. I won't tell you anything from our conversation simply because I don't talk about the problems people come to me about, all I will tell you is that she is still alive to this day.