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Hey, I have a gf, and she says she loves me, and we have been going out for about a week. The only times she says "I love you" is on the computer. I even say it when we are in person and she doesn't say it back... she has told me her feelings and she says she really loves me, and she is like crazy about me, but my question is: How come she won't say it back? (link)
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well she may be a little embarrased...when you say love....that is kind of a strong word,.....but i dont know what kind of girl your girfriend is..just talk to her about it...ask her if she doesnt want to do the i love you's in person
hope it goes well.....
*SweetPea9839*
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my boy friend has been ubducted by the new game halo 2...he is obsessed! how can i get him back??? (link)
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just tell him that if he would rather spend time with his stupid nintendo than his girl, he can go take a hike.....lol
*SweetPea9839*
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14/f here, freshman in high school if that helps.
This requires a lot of explanation, so it'll be pretty long- sorry.
I have been going out with a guy, let's call him Bob, since October 18th. I first met Bob in sixth grade Art class, however he was really dorky and being the prep I was, I ignored him. In seventh grade I didn't see him or think about him at all. In eigth grade he was in my health class. I noted he was there and looked vaguely familiar, but didn't think much of him. This year, I saw him again at the Aloha Dance, and he looks much better, basically average. I danced with him and we agreed to meet up again sometime, then the dance ended and we went our seperate ways. Me & my friends were hanging out after school at the library one day when my friend asked who the guy was staring at me. I turned around and there he was! I said hi but that was it. This happened several times over the course of the week. Finally two weeks before the Homecoming Dance he asked me to go with him, and I said yes. I was so thrilled to be asked, I didn't really think about whether I liked him or not. He picked me up for Homecoming with the traditional wristlet, photos, etc. etc. then we went to dinner, and it was pretty quiet. The homecoming dance was fine except for the fact that he insisted on spending all our time with HIS friends- a few times I sneaked off to the "bathroom" just to hang out with mine. Also, he insisted on dancing VERY close. Finally at the end of the night he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes, once again so happy to be asked I wasn't thinking. That was October 16th and I'm still dating him. There are several problems though.
First off, I DON"T LIKE HIM!!! Not at all. As a friend, yes, but no romantic interest.
Also, he's superpossesive- I never get to spend time with my friends at brunch or lunch. He insists on kissing me in front of my friends, which embarasses them. It just really annoys me.
Third, he's too serious about our relationship- he's told me he loved him (i just smiled), and is talking about PROM! (I'm a freshman, as is he.)
I know I should break up with him, but he's just too nice. Many people have told me I go too far when I try to be kind, and this is the best example. I really don't want to hurt him!
-tinkerbell_7141 (link)
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hey...well, i think that you should do whatever you want....you shouldnt go out with someone that you arent happy with...if he is a nice enough guy, i think that he wlll understand..if you arent comfortable kissing him in front your your friends, dont let him...dont let him do anything to you......hope that my advise has helped you...if you need any other advise...im here to help!
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hey kelsey well im a female and im 14 and i really like this guy in my school who i went out with but he broke up with me a week after he asked me out and he said it was because he wasnt really ready for the realtionship and he didnt think i really liked him butim like in love with him after i told him that he said that he still likes me and everything but he wants to get to know me more and then go out but i think its really stupid because he already went out with me so yea i dont think its going to be any different when he get to know me more and anyways i really dont want to wait and like now when i ask him if he likes me he doesnt say yes he says may be and its pissing me off
please tell me how do i get him back because i know he likes me its just something standing on the way between us
i really need to know what should i do to get him back
love ya lots!!!! (link)
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Hey!Well..maybe when he says he wants to get to you better its a nice way of saying 'i really dont want to out with you anymore' and also..when he says 'maybe' that's also another clue... idk though...dont take that the wrong way ..he COULD like you..just dont get ur hopes up! Im sure you can find better and someone more upfront with their feelings!
-Jamie-
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Well see i'm 15 and i'm a female and i'm not going out with this guy, but i gave him head and he ate me out at a football game in the back of his van. I was caught up in the moment and now everyone is calling me a slut. I have no idea of what to do, should i stick up for myself or just ignore them. The advice would be very helpful. thanks! (link)
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well i dont think you should be doing that anyway...wait for someone special....dont just be going out doing people....wait....dont worry if people think you are a slut...stand up for yourself...
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ok..i'm really good friends with well one of my friends. he is 15/m. he likes me as well do ilike him. but he wants to do stuff too quick. I can say that we have done some stuff, but i don't want to go to far. N' he doesn't understand the word, "no." i dont know what to do. I need anyones help, should i do it, or not? (link)
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well, i think you should do what ever you're comfortable with...never let someone take advantage of you...talk to him about it and ask him why he wants to do these things and ask him if he would like to get a little more serious..then see what happens
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