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This guy is really cool. But, it's so confusing to tell if he likes me. First, he has a cute nickname for me, and he touches my shoulders a lot when we're walking. Also, he gives me complements and looks right into my eyes when we talk. I also catch him starring at me during class sometimes like at my legs or at my face. Does it sound like he really does like me?

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Methinks he likes you. All I can say.

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i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.

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Well, just confront him and say that you like him or something. It's risky and all, but maybe he'll see that he likes you.

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ok i never realised i liked this boy so much until i talked to him on the phone about a month ago.I hinted to him that i liked him but then tryed to avoid it i said that i did not go to the reunion which he was at because i liked someone there. He went through names and i went quiet on his name.He asked me if it was him and i changed the subject now i am thinking it was the wrong thing 2 do.He asked me 2 call him back but i told him i always call him and can he call me he agreed but never called! He asked me 2 be with him! i was so excited and agreed but then i have heard nothing did he change his mind??? One of my best friends said its because i went out with someone in our secondary school and it was not him and my friend thinks it is because i went out with someone else the thing is i never did anything with that boy i went out with.In fact i wanted to make the boy i like now jealous but i think it never worked.My question is what shall i do now?I can't phone him again because it will look like i really like him if i keep calling him.Thanx xxx

Call him. If he doesn't answer, than keep calling. See if you're still boyfriend and girlfriend. If you are, tell him you need to do something and explain to him that you're not with another guy or whatever.

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Well i like this guy and ive liked him for ages, he says he likes me but his got a girlfriend. He always says his going to leave her and i fool for it. then when im not interested he will try it on. but i really like him i mean when im around him i feel me and him are meant to be i know it sounds stupid question but what should i do should i just move on and forget about him please help.

If he always does it, then say he's her boyfriend, so stop tricking you. I mean, that could be considered cheating, so if you and him are meant to be it isn't till he dumps the other girl.

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ok so my bf n i have been going out for like 2 yrs and i luv him to death. i cant wait to be w/ him n im never going to dump him so dont suggest that. but lately hes been sayin he'll hang out w/ me but then he ditches me for his otha friends n they're mad far away so i never get to talk to him at all. i hate it when he does it but he makes it seem like its no biggie. he doesnt know how i feel n when i talk to him he never understands. plus he does drugs when hes there, or atleast he did. n he wonders y i hate him goin there. i dunno what to do. i want to stop gettin all upset when he does this but i cant n i dunno what to do if theres anythin i can do. wheneva he says hes goin there i get all quiet n je just started noticin that i get upset. n he gets mad at me cuz of it. i dunno what to say so he gets how i feel and how i dont like him goin there but i want him to be happy at the same time so i neva say nothin. please help. i really need it. thanks in advance.

For one, I don't think you should be with a guy who does/did drugs. With drugs, it's crash and burn. If he really likes you, wouldn't he really hang out with you though? Just try to set up dates and stuff. I think maybe that would make you and him closer.

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(13/f)Okay well I'm in love with my best friend thats a guy. I've liked him since the first time I met him. But he has a girlfriend and I HATE HER! He knows it and so does she, were trying to be nice to each other now but its kinda hard. I really want him to dump her, but I mean I can't tell him that and honestly Jesse and I are a lot closer than him and Kelsey. They've been going out for a long time now too and I really don't think there going to break up anytime soon. But I can't tell him I like him because of what happened last time when I told him....he said lets just be friends. I really want to tell him and then he dumps her and we go out but I know it won't happen I'm more like his #3 on his top 10 List. Even Jesse's family knows me more than they know Kelsey. Should I tell Jesse how I feel? And also does anyone know how I might be able to break them up without Jesse hating me? Like nothing to be like lyingish but I really need him to dump her.

Well, even though you want to be with him, I think you should let them be. Probably eventually they'll break up, and maybe then you can be with him.

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