My names Sky, I'm 14 and I love to give advice and am pretty good at it. No matter what the subject, and I mean it, just ask me and I'll give you the best advice I can! I won't judge you either.
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okay so i know this is a wierd question
but i dont have many guy friends and i dont really know how to meet some
i dont know how to explain it but it seems like im doomed to be alone forever
idk what to do all my friends always have a new bf and i cant even seem to get one
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I've been there hunnie! Everytime you turn around they have a new boyfriend when you are the one who is single and desperatley trying to impress SOMEONE so you'll have a boyfriend.
Well in 07 I got my first bf and was with him for almost 2 years but the thing was i didn't like him that much...i just REALLY wanted a bf and to fit it...well we are broken up. I didn't expect to go out with him at all actually but it happened...then i moved and i wasn' lookin then either and I have a new bf...and he's my first love and hopefully will be my only!
Sweetie I've found that when you are actually looking for one, you'll hardly ever find one, or if you do not one that's worth your time. When you aren't looking and just living life, that's when a guy will come along.
It sounds stupid and I thought it was too, til I did it.
It may take a while-a week, a month, a year, or w.e-but it works.
Guys don't usually like the girls who are trying to grab their attention. And the ones who do, usually only use the girl for ONE thing.
Just be yourself and stop looking. Have fun. You're young hun hell I am too, you don't NEED a guy and you won't be alone forever, that i swear to you!
This will sound stupid but it's true:
When the time is absolutely right you'll find the guy.
I hope I helped hun
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I really like this guy & I guess he kinda knows but whatever. He is my best friend, and ive gotten to know him alot.
Okkkay, well he has a girlfriend & he sent me a text asking me if I has feelings for him and I told him I didnt want to disrespect his gf but that I do have feelings for him.
Then he sent me a txt saying he didnt want to be with her, and like 2 days later he broke up with her.
We hung out alot, then one day he just ditched me for this other girl and they hooked up. & I was SOOOO PISSED, but then I got over it.
Now him and his old gf are back together but he still flirts with me and shit. He acts like he doesnt even have a gf.
I want to know what to do about this guy.
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Okay this guy sounds like a swinger. I totally agree with what Asusha said. Only I've been in the exact situation as you are now, and I think you should just be friends with him.
Now he seems to have led you on before ditching you for some other chick. Right? Well you need to ask him to stop flirting with you if he doesn't lik you because it isn't fair to you or his girlfriend.
That way you can't be accused of trying to steal him away by his gf and no one gets hurt! Message me if you need anymore advice!
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okey does age really matter ...dang im kinda sorta dating a guy 4 years older than me .i feel so lucky to b wit him .he understands me and everything i do .but everyone says that age does matter ......age is just a number right......i hope i really do like him and im falling madly in love ........help does it really matter .......but is it rape
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I believe it all has to do with maturity. If you're dating an older guy, I think you should be a bit more mature then a giggly teenager who thinks the word ' sex ' is funny.
Age, to me, is nothing but a number. (With maturity as I've said) Now for the rape question, if you're a teen and dating an older guy, and there is no sex involved, you're fine. If there is, it is called statutory rape, even if you were willing.
Which meant he'd go to jail.
As long as there is no sex you're fine!
Hope I helped!
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13/f
my boyfriend has been talking about having sex in the summer, but....thats a BIG step, and i dont know if i should or not. ive been trying to figure out what the worse that can happen is...and if we use a condom...i dont think i could get pregnant. (link)
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Okay here's my advice to you. Condoms are not 100% effective. If the condom breaks your out of luck.
I'm 13 as well so I understand what you're going through. I've been through the whole 'my boyfriend wants to sleep with me' ordeal. I said no by the way.
You really are to young. I am waiting for marriage but everyone's different. if youdon't want to wait til then, wait til you are way older.
Sex complicates things and makes emotions way more intense.
Once your virginity is gone you can never get it back.
So if I were you I wouldn't have sex just yet.
Hoped I helped hunnie!
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I don't know what else to do, this might be long but I really need help.
I'm 18/f and my bf recently broke up with me since I decided to respect my religion and not "do" things with him when he comes to visit my country next. (We both have diff. religions). So when he was breaking up (he did it online, he lives in another country, he studies there), he threatened me with things like "i will f*** you up so bad", "you will SO regret this", "i will show you what it means to get me angry", "you SO will suffer" and so on. And he will do those things when he visits his family (his family lives where I live..). He knows which uni I go to, and knows where my house is. He beat up his ex-gf before and told me the story as a "warning" not to piss him off.. I'm terrified, I think he plans on physically hurting me. There's about 13 more days till he gets here.. I've already planned on talking to my uni counselor about this but I need help from people around my age. I'm not strong to cope with this, I haven't slept for days getting nightmares of him coming after me, I've considered calling the airport and notifying them not to let him in the country but if I do that, I'd just make a fool out of myself. Please please please, I'm really panicking =*(
Thanks for your time, I appreciate it greatly.
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You really need to tell someone about this. A restraining order might be a good thing but then again, and not to freak you out, he may ignore it.
If he's really freaking you out you shouldn't worry about if you'd look like a fool. Threats should be taken seriously, so I think you should definatly cal the police if you are seriously worried he will harm you. Try not to be alone, especially when he is in your country.
Just remember your safety if important, even if you look like a 'fool' trying to protect yourself!
Hope I helped!
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