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ok hey my name is lindsay and i have a boyfriend prob well its not really a prob but like my boyfriend never calls me! i always have to call him and he never comes to my games when he said he will and like we never hang out but he always says that he loves me should i act now or just not worry about it?

well i would say something.. be blunt w/him.. if he can't handle being with you.. he should be able to tell you.. u seem like a nice person.. you could do WAY better

xoxo

Sara

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alright..there is this guy at my work that i used to like..but now i dont like him anymore and he still likes me and he stalks me everywhere..like at work, online, and we had this fun fest and he even stalked me there..and he freaks out at me when i say i have to go..he makes me real uncomfortable and he always stares at me..and everyone knos it.and im scard cause hes a weirdo..and me doesnt leave me alone! what should i do!? xo and im 14

for one thing stalking can lead to more serious things... u need to tell your parents.. or if you dont want to get him in trouble but u dont want to be around him.. do whatcha gotta do and find another job.. thats what i would do!!!

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My boyfriend is getting back from his 3 week trip to Texas & when he gets back, I want to do something special for him. What can I do to show that I missed him & that I'm really glad he's back?

aww my ex went to cali for a few weeks.. and when we came back my parents actually LEFT the house for us for a couple hrs!! we ordered a pizza and sat around in pajamas and watched a movie under the blanket together... remember the most simple things in life can mean the most..!!

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This is a long story, theres a shorter question if you want on my next post this is all the details thou ....I'm 14 F, and I really like this guy and we were talking on IM yesterday and I had already told him that I liked him and he said he liked me but that was a long time ago and we kept saying that we'd do something like go to the mall or movies but we never did. So yesterday we were talking and I was like who do you like at the moment, and he's like well theres alot more people flirtin around with me than I am with them. Then I asked like who, and he wouldn't tell me (I knew I was one of them) so anyways I begged and pleaded with him to tell me who else, and he never did, but then he said i wont go out with anyone who likes me right now (meaning me) so then i changed the subject and asked him why he went out with his ex girlfriend and he said it was a long story, then i asked why he liked his ex (its a diffrent question) and he (suprisingly) answered me he said because she was "fun" and he was bored and i was like 'fun meaning..?' and he said like she was just flirty, and i was like oh.. like talking flirty or something else? and he said like something else, and i was like 'what?', and he said like 'touchy' flirty, and i asked would you ever go out with some one like that again? and he said yeah if i could find someone then i said "this is soooo uuuunnnnnfffaiiirrr, yyoooouuu doooonnnttt knnnooowww what i would do if i actually saw youuuu i feell likkke a sssllluuut for saying this but its true!" then he asked what would i'd do if we were alone, then i said id do anything except for sex or stuff with sex in its name (i thought about it like 4 days before and i was going to tell him that i wanted to do stuff but i didnt know how to tell him, got that out of the way) (then i asked him what he thought of me saying that and he said he was intrested, which im glad because i want him) but ive never done any thing before and i dont really know what to do, or what there is to do....

what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)???
and if you want to tell me how, that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is

If you give an answer ill give you a 5, no dumb crap thou please!

well it seems he's older then you, and he's looking for sex and most guys his age are... there immature and us girls just have to deal with it!! if you are afraid of like oral sex or hand jobs.. theres tons of stuff besides that.. kissing other places..his tummy, nibbling on his ear lobes.. never give it all away.. always keep them wondering and wanting more!!! thats how us girls SHOULD do it! thats how i am and iv never had a complaint about being to "straight" and im not straight... like i said you have to keep them wanting more.. just ya know... when you kiss his tummy take your tounge and follow it down to past his belly button and that will make him want you.. but like i said thats just an example.. never be afraid to be creative with sex or sexual experiences!!!

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