Hi Hi! i am sakura im helping all those who need me. ive always been the 1 people spilled all their troubles to not that i minded its nice knowing people trust you and i hope you can come to trust me as well.
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-Sakura
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Omg this problem keeps biting me in the butt...I'm on break with my boyfriend lets call him Alex and I'm starting to like my childhood friend lets call him Donny. So me and Alex would fight all the time and never seemed to be on the same page on anything and Donny walked into my life again around that time. He told me he was going to help me with my problem with Alex but in that attemped I realized that I like Donny more then just friends. I told Alex about it and he understood and I kinda made I bigg no no and started dating Donny I didn't think that I was going to start liking him a lot. So I'm still stuck bcuz Alex told me that he wants to fight for me as long as he knows that I still love him and after that Donny told me that now that he has me he doesnt want to loose me again. Both of them are good guys but I'm love with Alex and I think that I'm starting to fall for Donny. So I dont know what to do I'm stuck because whatever choice I make I know I'm going to hurt someone but my question is what do I do, Who do I stay with???? I need help quick!!!! Omg is someone out there that has been in the same situation?=/ (link)
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as you know you are going to have to make a choice its not fair to them that youre so undecided. i truly think and feel free to reject this but i say you must pay close attention to the differnt feeling you get when your around either guy. is it warm safe nerve racking etc. which ever one makes you feel uplifted, alive ,whole,longing is who will suit you. also a sign of true love is if you wake thinking of him and if you fall asleep dreaming of him.
hope this helped even a little. anything else about this ask. stay true to yourself.
-sakura
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im 15 male and ive been thinking and trying to figure out my sexuality for awhile i thought i like girls at one stage and after a lot of thinking i realise that im gay the last few months ive become really attracted to guys i look at guys a lot more than girls i more happy being around guys it been confusing is this a normal feeling? (link)
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lots of people go thourgh what your going thourgh your not alone! maybe do little experimenting or maybe join a group online or somewhere in your comunity. with people who understand it will becime less confusing and over time it all be clear. hope this helped
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So this is going to make me seem like a 10 year old whiny little girl, but its really bothering me, so be as honest as you want to be, i need it.
In march, i dated this guy for THREE WEEKS. Not long at ALL. And it wasn't even like we were friends or anything for very long before that. I really liked him a lot. he was super attractive, really fun and i just loved his personality. Unfortunately, he ended things because we rushed into things and they weren't working out like we planned. When he did this (at the time), i agreed we should just be friends. Well for about two weeks after we broke up, i was kind of depressed and i cried all the time about it. But we said we could still be friends, so i was hopeful that we'd get back together. But then, for about a month after we broke up, we didn't speak at all and it was incredibly awkward. Over the summer, we talked online a few times and stuff, and i realized that i still have feelings for him. It's been MONTHS and im still not over a guy i barely knew. I feel SO pathetic. Why do i care so much? What the hell!?
thanks for anything :) (link)
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the same thing happened to me. its probaly because you havent met anyone else yet to get your mind off of it so your stuck in the past. put yourself out there talk to somone new! hope this helped:)
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so i have this crush on a guy. he's cute sweet and easy to talk to. i do want to talk to him a lot but everytime i try i get so nervous that i chicken out. he gets on facebook and my heart drops and i get so nervous and i run away from the computer. why do i react like this? also what some tips so that i feel comfortable and relaxed before i start talking to him. (link)
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you probaly recat like this because you rlly likme him and dont want to say somthing stupid to him. try practicing what your going to say before you say it or maybe just talk to him! the more you talk the less nervous youll be evrytime! itll be hard at first but you can do it!
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alright so. theres this guy that ive been talking on and off with for about a year now. ive only hung out with him a couple of times because he lives sort of far away from me, so most of the interatction we've had has been through talking on the phone. he will text me or call me once and a while, every few months or so just to say hi, or to just see whats up, or see if i want to hang out. and im really hesitant to talking to him because i am crazy about him and i know that what we have going on wont go anywhere. i've tried before to tell him how i feel and he sort of just ignored me, but continued talking to me. i just recently deleted him off my facebook and deleted his number off my phone but he keeps calling me every so often and i just cant resist. when i do talk to him though i keep my gaurd up and i get so nervous that i dont really say much of anything. adlsjflsadfj. what should i do?? (link)
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maybe talk more offten if you like this guy why resist? become rlly good friends! maybe over time hell like you too! talk talk talk
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