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Hi, i am going out with this guy and we've been going out for a while but some how I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend but he has another girlfriend. My current boyfriend is so sweet but I still always have feelings for my ex boyfriend Brandon and it's to the point where I keep wondering if we will ever get back together in the future and if he still loves me. It's been 2 years since we broke up but I just can't get Brandon out of my head no matter what I do or who I'm with..what do I do?
-stillHEARTbroken (17/f) (link)
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I think you should talk to Brandon about it. I'm actually going through a similar thing right now with my ex boyfriend and this new guy thats coming into my life. You have to find out how Brandon feels, and if he still has feelings for you.
you can IM me on aim of you want, Soccerplayer8881
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I will not make this a long, drawn out story, but will say that my ex and I dated on/off for 8 months. We broke up Feb 07, but we often run into each other around town. He has asked me to get back together several times, but I'm so afraid that the same things that will happen that led to us breaking up. He randomly texts or calls me just saying "I want you back". All last summer I dated a guy and I thought things were great. We broke up just before school started and now I find out that things weren't what they seemed at all. He was using me and talking to "his first love" the whole four months we were together. Deep down I knew that I was just going through the motions of dating this guy in the summer. I still had feelings for my 1st bf. When he heard I was single, he called me and we tried to go out again, but it didn't work. I stayed single until Jan 08 and now I go out with a guy who is okay, but I'm starting to have mixed feelings about him. He yells at me all of the time and anytime I get in trouble with my parents he tells me it is obviously because I am extremely stupid. It really hurts when he talks to me like this, but other times we get along. He tells me that he will never break up with me, if I don't want to go out with him it is up to me to break up with him. Well, my first bf has been texting and calling me again for about 2 weeks now. He tells me he will do anything to get me back. We have the same lunch block and he just sits there and stares and smiles at me. Even though I know we don't stand a chance of making things work, I still love him and I want him back. I know it is wrong to talk/text him behind my current bf's back. I even kissed him last week. I want to move on, but I keep getting pulled back by old thoughts and feelings. What should I do? I think I'm going to break up with my current bf because I know it's not fair to stay with him when I have feelings for someone else. (link)
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I think that you and your first bf can make it work. If you both still love each other that much, you can make it work. You just need to talk to him about what kept causing both fo you to break up, and how you can resolve that. I think you should break up with your current bf, because you shouldnt have to deal with him yelling at you and putting you down all of the time. Hope that helped!
Soccerplayer8881 is my aim sn if you need further help.
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i have not had a girlfriend in about 2 years do you have any ideas of what i can do to get a girlfriend all the ones i want are eathier taken or they don't like me like that (link)
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Just keep searching, Im sure you'll find someone. Sometimes it takes time to find someone, but once you do, it will be great. Did they tell you that they dont liek you like that or do you just assume that they dont? Cause you never know.
IM me if you want. Soccerplayer8881
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Okay, well, I like my friend. Like, as more than a friend. I didn't figure it out until maybe a week ago. Like, we've been friends for about 4 years now. We're not exceptionally close though. Although, our parents are friends.
I never felt that he liked me like that until Monday. Usually, I'm the one who always talks to him first at school. But now, he's always hanging around me. Like in gym, he'll come up and talk to me, instead of the other way around.
And before first period, he comes up and talks to me, or just says hi. He never did that before, except for maybe once or twice. And during lunch everyday, I'm always in the hall with my friend, Lindsay and then when he's done eating he'll come into the hall and talk to me, instead of go hang out with his friend, Matt.
I don't know, I might be getting ahead of myself. Or be jumping to conclusions.
And the main problem is, I don't want to tell him I like him, because, well, what if I'm wrong about him liking me and I get turned down and it makes things awkward between us?
And also, he's never had a girlfriend before. But then again, I've never really had a serious boyfriend.
And my friend Hannah is going to talk to him (without mentioning names).
Also, I think my other friend, Autumn, likes him. And I don't want to do that to her. I mean, I don't even date my friends' ex's. I asked her over the internet if she liked him, and she said she didn't know.
So, does it seem like he likes me? And how do I go about asking him out? Or telling him I like him, especially without hurting Autumn.
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Ok this is what Im going through too and I got this advice from my friend, SweetGuyBrokenHeart. I think you just have to tell him that you like him more than friends, but tell him that you dont want it to ruin your friendship if he doesnt feel the same way. You just have to tell him though, because if you dont you would be left wondering how he feels, and you would get nowhere. As for the part where your friend might like him too, You just need to talk to her about that too.
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Although Im good at giving good love advice, for some reason I cant help myself. Everytime I like a boy and we start talking, I pick out something about them and lose interest. Why does that happen? Its just I get bored so easily I think, or they start to annoy me, but they dont do anything in particular annoying...I just dont understand. (link)
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You shouldnt worry about every little thing. After all, no one is entirely perfect. You have to talk about the things in a person you find interesting. Find things you both have in common and talk about them.
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hey guys.
***CAUTION: may be long****
so here is my problem:
this guy named "K" really likes me (I mean REALLY). But i do not like him at all, and like one of his best friends.
today i figured out that the person that i like "D" also has a secret crush on me. D is one of my best friends, and he is super sweet, kind, and thoughful...did i mention cute too???
the word spreads that D likes me, and soon everyone in school knows....even K.
K and D are no longer friends, and K is really mad at him for liking me too. because D knows that K REALLY REALLY likes me.
Now get this....K and i are kinda friends. and K gets mad real easy and starts throwing fights. i know... he did one not to long ago because he saw one of his other best friends and me at the mall. i want to go out with D. and am really afraid of drama and that stuff occuring.
So what im asking is... what should i do.
Did that make any sense to you???
love... DaAdvicePerson. did i mention i am 13? (link)
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Ok, well first of all, if "K" really cares about you, he would want you to be happy. As much as it kills him to see you with someone else, he has to accept it. I think you should talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel.
Ahh, hope this helps.
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