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Okay Thrusday I told Eric I liked him.But there was so much more.
On like Monday, Tuesday,and Wensday my bestest friend Emily kept telling me to tell him to not be afraid all this and that..so thurday on the bus we were all alone in the back of the bus talk and i asked him if you promissed a friend something would you breck it and he said no.So about 5 minetes later i told him,
"Well i like you and thats what i promissed Emily i would tell you and like uh thats why i asked you if you would breck a promiss cause i knew if i told you id make a complete fool of myself and Emily told me to wait till i was about to get off but i guess i planned it wrong.."
And he said what...so i repeated myself and he said okay...
not the best thing to say right..but as i was gtting off the bus i feel and smacked my head against the seat he was sitting at cause i fell i tripped and fell and smack!!he just looked at me sadly thats it....and i stayed home friday(today from school)and on the bus to go home he asked emily if she knew where i was and she said i think she stayed home to today and got of the bus....and im not pretty im not calling myself ugly but im not the type of girl who'd be like oh i love you and just make out with the guy.so i know i made a complete fool but i dont know if he said something to anyone about it but he cared about me cause he asked well i think...
do you think he liks me?please explain im worried my friendship with eric is ruined and he hates me
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First of from your story I take it you are younger. One thing you need to remember about young boys. The reason he said what and had you repeat it is because he wanted to hear it again. Not because he didn't hear it. Because he wanted to hear it again. When you tripped and fell he probably didn't know what to do, just more out of shock at what you had said. I think he likes you but basically talk with him and see how he acts. That is really all you can do. If he didn't like you he would not have asked what so you would repeat your self and would not have asked where you were... get it.
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so 5 months ago after my botfriend (adam) and i have broken up i meet this other guy (brandon). and he is the sweetest guy you will ever meet. i went out with him before i was all the way over my ex. and i treated brandon like shit. i called it off and havn't seen or heard of him in 5 months. after i did that i gat back with adam, and now i called it off with us one month ago because he was doing things with other girl and i didn't know. now that i really am over adam, last weekend brandon shows up at my door. i was so happy to see him, i missed him. he asked me back out the next day, and i didn't know what to say. i want to go back out with him, but i don't want to hurt him again. i told him that, and he said that 'if you give me another shot i will make up for everything that adam has done wroug to you, and you will see me as me and for that there will be no way you can hurt me.' i think i'm going to say yes today or tomorrow, but i wanna know from you, what should i do? (link)
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I would go for it, but at the same time I would apologize for how you treated him before. Remember; don't take him for granted...
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ok well after school i always walk with my boyfriend to the bus even when he stays after school for his sport. Well today i was excited to see him cause i didn't see him at all the day before, and well i love him so much, and i have no classes with him! its terrible!! and well today i was excited to see him and i was planning on giving him a HUGE hug, and a kiss, as kind of a good luck and a i love you/ miss you. Well today i couldn't find him!! i was devistated! i really wanted to see him and he didn't walk to my last hour lik ehe usually does after school. and i have a bad feeling that he is mad at me cause the day b4 he wasn't answering my txt messages... but when i txted him today asking him where he was and wishing him a good luck, he answered back that he loved me and that he had to go! and now i'm all sad and depressed! what should i do? do u think he is mad at me?? (link)
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I wouldn't necssarily think so maybe he is just busy doing some things....
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16 FEMALE =)
this might be long ..sorry!!
okay..guys problems! aaaaagh. i know sorry! but okay so i am pretty good friends with this guy named nick and i fell for him. but he liked this other girl and they are going out! he really likes her and cares about her but me him and my cousins hangout with him alot (thats how i met him, hes good friends/neighbors with my cousin) and so like everytime we hangout he always flirts with me, sometimes i catch him looking at me, and he bought these sunglasses and lastnight at the bowling alley he wouldnt let anyone try them on or hold them for him except me! he's like here try them on, and im like oh jeeze thinking im going to look stupid and then hes like let me see! and i look at him and he like smiles and me and shakes his head and says they look good on you. and then he asks me if i can see his eyes and then im like nope and hes like really? and then im like yea and start laughing and hes like guess what im looking at then right now? and im like i dont know..and hes like you and starts laughing. hes 15, so he cant drive so when i drive he ALWAYS gets shotgun and they were all over at my house lastnight and my cousin was trying to do his hair funny and im like hey let me do it! so then nick was like ok kristen do mine. and he wouldnt let anyone else do it and my cousin was in the bathroom messing around and nick shuts the door and hes like no..this is a private session. it was cute though and so i was like running my hands through his hair and trying to do it and he looks at it when im done and starts laughing and im like what! i think it looks good :) we just flirt alot and like, everyone that we're around like my cousins friends always ask my cousin if me and him have a thing. and she is always like noo they're just good friends! but at this one game i was like he is not that tall! and my cousin is like ..you would know and starts laughing and im like why? and shes like because you and him are always wrestling and tackling each other when your together. my cousin just thinks we're good friends too! everyone does. i think he does too. but then i dont get why he flirts with me and does all this when he says he really loves his girlfriend. i think he does. but might be attracted to me? not to sound conceited but alot of guys told me that they think im hott but ive never had a boyfriend and i dont think im pretty at all either. so maybe he just has an attraction or maybe the things he does doesnt affect me like he thinks its going to? i dont want to tell him im attracted to him or have feelings because i dont want to mess up our friendship so should i keep doing what im doing and see how things go, i cant not see him because hes alwyays with my cousin and im always over there!
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I think this guy really likes you. Not just as friends neither. I would be very surprised if he didn’t. He may just be intimidated by you. Since you are older and if you are really hot then he might think there is no chance in hell he will ever get to hook up with you. I would put out more subtle hints that is if you like him and see what happens from there.
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Okay, I got asked out online. Tomorrow I'm supposed to tell him my answer (which is yes). But when I tell him my response, am I just supposed to smile and walk away, hug him, kiss him, or what ??
Oh, and when we start going out. How many days should I wait to ask to hang out with him over my house? (link)
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I would say a hug is fine, and why wait to hang out. Just hang out with him...
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you see..im not that experiencd with like kissing and making out. i was just wondering..how do you know when a boy just wants to kiss you and when he wants to makeout? because ive only done both two times. and the last time with this guy we were in the movies and he asked to kiss me and then he kid but his mouth was kind of open....so i was like ok? he wants to makeout? so we kinda did for like 10 seconds..i started it then he stopped and was like noo..i just want to kiss is that alright? and then i felt SOO stupid! i was like ohh yeahh haha thats fine sorry. but i dont know when guys like kind of kiss you with their mouth, if they want to makeout or if they want to kiss. because if i wait for them to make a move and their mouth is open ..do i just kiss them and sit there haha? but what if they wanted me to like make the move and neither of us did and we were just like sitting there kissing for like 10 seconds. ahh im so confused and now very worried for next time!
by the way...ive never had a boyfriend and as you can tell i am not that experienced ..kinda embarassing but oh well!
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I guess you could let him lead. Almost like dancing. Most of the time you start with your lips together or maybe slightly open. The only real thing here is to really do it.
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My ex boyfriend Pat is really annoying! He is always text/IMing/calling me. I feel horriable saying stop. Hes always tell me he loves me and how i was lying to him all along and just stuff to make me feel bad about breaking up with me. He keeps telling me stuff like I thought you didnt want a boyfriend and other stuff. And if he even THINKS i like another guy he gets like wicked jealous and flipps out and says hes never gonna talk to me again. Ugh. I just want to be NORMAL friends and not have him be all syco. I just want to live normally and not have him flipping out all the time and makes ME feel bad about liking another guy and breaking up with him.Thanks For your help :] (link)
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Sounds like Patricia has some self esteem problems. Basicaly I would tell him to knock it off and to quite being a baby. It he threatens not to talk to you simply tell him not to do you any favors. Maybe he needs counseling.... Or a straight jacket...
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Does anyone know any songs about wanting somebody to love, or something like that? Not rap or hip hop or R&B !! Eweyy (link)
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Who do you want to love?
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I really want a boyfriend!! How do I talk to guys more and get one?? (link)
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The real question is how do you talk to girls.... UHHH show some skin and then I don't know most of the times these things just kind of work them selves out....
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what's a crafty way to ask out my ex-boyfriend? (link)
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Why would you want to go out with an ex. There are reasons why things dodn't work out in the first place....
(Like I said there are reasons they are Ex's you may have forgotten it for now but I garuantee you he will remind you in time)
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Is it posible to tell if a person like you by the first glance? Like...the first time this person'll look at you? If so, how? I've looked it up on that aol google thing but i found nothing. *&& Also is it possible to know if a guy likes you by the way he looks at you? If so, how? Thank you so much! =] (link)
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The only way I would think so is if they pointed at you and made some gesture like, ummm blow a kiss or some thing...
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i asked a boy out. and i was really scared to do it.. but i did ! anyway, he said maybe. MAYBE?! i was so scared, everyone said he would say yes.. even his best friend was like, no, he'll say yes. i swear. and im so scared.. but in your opinion, is maybe a good sign? or should i just not even think about it (link)
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I would agree with yish.... No to good here move on.. Seriously what kind of answer is maybe, people now what they want most are just too much of a chicken shit to say it.
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Okay...I love my boyfriend we have been going out for 5 months but I sometimes get the feeling not loving him or not liking him & I don't know the reason why I have that feelings? But like another thing is like I believe in God & he doesn't at all so like whenever I talk to him about he doesn't understand at all..& it kind of makes me mad because he doesn't understand you know. But like I don't want to lose him...Like I can't just leave him because he is going through lots of things right now & I have to be there for him. But like how can those feelings that I have inside of me go away or get better somehow? Do I have to talk to him? Like if I do talk to him first thing comes to his mind all the time "Are you going to break up with me?" & everytime he says that I'm like noo what are you thinking...I'm just kind of confused here..Like I don't really think I'm in love I thought I'm but I'm not? Like what is Love?
P.S. Well I'm gunna stop because there are too many questions you have to answer sorry for that..Iam just lost thats all.
Thanks,
Lauren. (link)
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Okay really simple..
1. If you are getting the feelings of no love or even like then you don't in either aspect.
2. Love can not be explained... need to find out by trial and error.
3. The real question you should be asking your self is why does this guy keeping asking me if I am going to be breaking up with him.... One word PROBLEMS.....
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Well ii like thiis guy and everything but his a playa but yesterday we went movies wen the movie started he was with me and flirting then 20 minutes later he goes to me ill be right back and i said ok and i waited 10 minutes but he didnt come back i wa slooking at hiim and her was flirting with another girl and then went down starirs because i coiuldnt stand watching then i called my boy best friend down and he came down then the guy i liked came down as well and goes to me why are you sookiing i didnt want tot ell hiim why cause i was to scared then he told me to go back upstairs and it hought he was gonna sit next t me again but he didnt he went with the other girl i feel so heartbroken last night i couldnt sleep thats all i thought aboput what should i do ?? =[=[ (link)
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Personaly this guy is just being an ass. You don't need to be with an ass. Get rid of him, or better yet you could play him....
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I was driving home from swim practice when I saw this really cute 17 year old boy playing catch with a 6 year old. It was about 3 houses down from mine. My little brother told me that they recently moved in and that he knows the boys sister. I'm not too shy, but not brave enough to march up to his house and ring his doorbell. I have a dog I could take on a walk, and maybe I'll catch him outside and could say hi, but that seems very time consuming and stalker-like. Does anyone have any good plans for me to meet this guy? (link)
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Go with your brother if he goes to there house to hang out with the boys sister. YOu know like good neighbor kind of thing...
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Is there some website that i can go to that shows me how to make a homecoming mum??? I need to make one for my gf please help.
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Here are a few diffrent sites.
http://www.plushinarush.com/index.asp?PageAction=Custom&ID=25
http://www.michaels.com/art/online/projectsheet?pid=25245
This last one has many diffrent styles...
http://www.michaels.com/art/online/projectlist?categoryid=98046&pageNumber=1
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how do you flirt with a guy and not make it obvious that you like him? (link)
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Now tell me if I am wrong but isn't the whole idea of flirting is to let someone know that you like them with out saying it. Other wise I guess you could just start a regular conversation.
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I have been single for almost a year now after a three month relationship with the best guy ever (We'll call him Anthony)! Lots of guys have asked me out since then, but only one got me to go out with him (we'll call him Andrew). I always tell them to give me their phone number and then I will call them. I really have no intentions to call. Ususally I toss out the number. When I went out with the one guy (Andrew) a few times, all I could think about is my ex (Anthony), and how not like him the new guy is. I know it is over with my ex (Andrew). How can I get over him? (link)
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I guess the real question here is what is it about your ex that you are so hung up on.....
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In school today the window was open. I was like that breeze feels good. then this boy I like started to close the window to tease me does that mean he likes me? (link)
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Ok first off does this boy have any idea what so ever that you have feelings for him. If he does know you like him, then he might have done it just to be able to flirt with you. But some other questions you should ask are......
1. Is he very talkative to you or does he need to find reasons to talk with you
2. Was it warm out or cold (maybe he was cold?)
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i know this is really weird, but nobody i've ever dated was really into the neck kissing thing, but my current boyfriend is. and i have no clue what to do while he's doing it. sorry if i sound like a completely douchebag. haha. (link)
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Some women enjoy that and some don't. If you do not you need to inform him that you don't really like him doing that.
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