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I need help, really bad.

I lied to my boyfriend about something really big, not going to get into details, it's a VERY long story! He just called me & told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me right now, because he just can't handle it.

& I have absolutely no idea what to say or do to make everything better. I can't handle thinking what it would be like without him, it's just WAY too much for me.

So, PLEASE. If you were in my position, what would you do?

Thanks in advance.

Well, i would deffently sit down & talk to him. Tell him why you lied. Be completely honest about it. Tell him what you lied to him about and everything, maybe he will understand. But who knows. Lots of people are different some forgive & understand easly, some just hold things against you forever. good luck :]

Risa

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what is the best way and nicest way to break up wit ur boyfriend.i dont want any answers like there is no nice way i know that but i dont want him to hate me.he is way to clingy and i cant handle him geting mad when i just talk to another guy and im not flirting with him or anything just talking.he is raceist and i just cant take it anymore.i dont want him to hate me though.

thanxxx

Just tell him, you dont feel anything going anywhere & that you would rather just be friends although it is hard to be friends with someone that you dated. but good luck :]

Risa

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Okay, I feel like my friend doesnt need me anymore. Because a long time ago we used to talk like 24/7! and he used to call me all the time and he used to talk to me on the computer all the time. But now it just seems like he doesnt ever have time for me. I need help to get over this! And p.s-i forgot to mention that i like this guy more than just a friend!

Try to talk to him. The same thing happend to me. My best guy friend stopped talking to me. & Now I tried talking to him & we talk again & its just like it was before. so im sure if you talk to him it will get better =)
♥ Risa

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Okay i'm 12/f about to turn 13 in 2 weeks =] ! I really like this boy and yesterday i went to his house to hang out and i d k if this is slutty or what ? Well we was over there watching the Grudge and i was just laying by him, then we like moved to the floor and all the sudden he leaned over and we started making out. I like got on top of him and we like started having dry sex with are clothes on. Well he knew my turn on spot is my neck so he was kissing my neck and i just got really in the mood so he rolled over on top of me and we kept on doin it. Well then we stopped cause we heared someone upstairs so we were just laying there. And i let him finger me. And i was giving him a hand job all night !! Like every minute. Then hes like how bout you suck it for meee ? and i was like omg i never sucked one before soo yeah.. but we went downstairs but then we came back up after we did some more stuff.. okay now heres where it gets bad. We were laying on the couch and i like sucked his dick about 3 times and he wanted moreee. but we didn't have a condom . Well he fingered me again and left a huuuge hickey on my neck. Wow thats alot of stuf. Do you think thats slutty and just give me some advice on what i just told you . I feel slutty and guilty and i feel like hes useing me.

Yeah uhm. I'm sorry to say but that is pretty slutty. Your only 12 & your doing stuff like that. Your gonnah end up getting hurt. Espesically if your feeling guilty. You deffently need to stop.
♥ Risa

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Okay soo I'm a 15 year old female. I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a month now. I love spending time with him! but i see him more as a friend than anything else. When we kiss there just arent any sparks. I'm afraid of hurting him, but i think if i stay with him ill just hurt him more later on... any ideas?

Ok well if you don't like him. Then you shouldn't be going out with him. I know you don't want to hurt him but just tell him you'd rather just be friends. Good Luck =)
♥ Risa

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why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of the guy i likev and makes me cry so much..... why?

We cry cause we care about the people were thinking about. The song reminds you of how much you care and how you feel about the guy. I hope you feel betterrr. = )
♥ Risa

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