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Hello;I'm Cherie.
I'm very outgoing.I won't
fake that.Being close to
my friends is important;I
like getting to know new people.
I will tell you straight up;
I've been in and out of cliques.
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ok so i just want a real, heartfelt, serious relatsionship. And there is a girl i like a lot. but i just don't know if she is going to be the serious relatsionship girl i'm looking for. you know? help me out, rie?

Okay; you want a real relatsionship then find someone you can have a good time with while being serious at the same time.Some one who can talk to you about everything & the other way around. Also they can always put a smile on your face. It's not easy to find the right things in everyone you start to like, but no-one is perfect.
And if the girl you like cant take a relasionship seriosly then what can she take serious?
You seem like you need someone speacil in your life so maybe you should just try to see if your match holds to the wind...if it doesn't work you can still be friends.
It might be hard but sometimes it's better for both of you.
hope i helped alittle
Merry Christmas

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Well, I broke up with my boyfriend because I was confused and I thought I liked someone else.
Than after hanging out with that other person, I realized I made a HUGE mistake.
And I told my ex that I missed him, and asked if he would be mad at me if I told him I wanted him back.
But he told me "Of course I wouldnt be mad at you! But im going to have to think about it, because I dont know"

I miss him ALOT.
I cry all the time now.

Should I wait for him to give me an answer, and keep trying to get him back.

Or let him go?

Well, to be honest i would let him 'think about it' I mean you did break up with him for another guy. But he's probably gald you want him back and more then likely you'll get back together. Just make sure you let him know how much he means to you. It would probably would be to hard on you to just let go, plus depending on how long you dated.
feelings like that just don't go away.

Atleast he's not mad and i think you shouldn't
just keep waiting i think it's important to try.

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Well, lets see..... I was dating this real sweet guy... always nice to me. and never did anything wrong, but he broke up with me for his ex girlfriend. It hurt alot, but i forgave him. Than they broke up and he acted as if he wanted me back, but he told me he liked me.. he just didnt want to. Because he didnt want to date anyone right yet, or this summer, or anytime soon. Than this kid that ive known since he was 9 likes me, and i kinda like him too.. but im confused.... what should i do?

Well i know how this is.You like a guy who you once dated & he won't leave your mind.See the thing is you need to move on.So maybe it would be a good idea to date the guy who likes you back.Your ex-boyfriend isn't looking right now and he might not be worth the wait.Or on the other hand He could be playing hard to get.Look at both of their past relationships.If one's a player don't date him.But see your ex did do something wrong because he left you for somebody else.And bad habbits die hard.This may sound to up front but this is the real world.Boys suck.Really and it's the wrost because girls are more into relationships most of the time.But if you try hard you'll win big.Even if that sounds lame; it's true.Find the right boy for you/that boy you known for a long time might be him.Give it a try.I hope I helped;if i didn't i'm sorry.

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okay so i just got my heart broken. i really liked this guy and i THOUGHT that he maybe liked me.all my friends thought he did too. especially since 3 days ago he asked me out on date which ended up being cancelled. so on friday me and one of his friends who i talk to alot made this deal. .... if i kissed my guy then he was going to kiss my friend who he liked.so today came around and i was pretty sure that i was going to do it. then i realized that he was acting realy weird. so i decided no to do it and later on without me knowing one of my friends asked him if he liked me for the millionth time(my friends never stop) and he said no. he said he thinks i am pretty and all but that he just wants to be friends.now i dont know what to do and am feeling like shit. he has hurt me so bad and i feel led on. pleeze help

It's ok;boys are dumb like this all the time.But the thing is your friend shouldn't have asked him the same thing a [million] times.Because most guys hate that.The good thing is he still wants to be your friend and says your pretty.So keep it at that and work your way up.Talk to him alot more;then you could maybe go to the movies or do something fun together.For now since your upset about it talk to friends,even write a peom or something to get your feelings out.Then that way when your around him you don't get too mad at him for the past.Hope I helped-Rie.

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