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IM 14 and i'll be 15 in january. I'm a freshman at Guyer High School. My favorite color of all time is REDD!!! (i like to spell it w/2 d's)I'm a very outgoing person and I'm thinkin of runing for homecoming duchess ( that's what the fresman winner is called instead of queen.)UMM I am a shopoholic and I love whip cream!!! My friends always say that they have never seen me not happy.I love boys so much they should call me a boyologist.LOL! My friends always come to me for advice so I thought i would give advice to any one who might need it.
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ok well i'm a 16 yr old gurl and i just recently started going out with a friend of mine like 3weeks ago on thursday and i ador him......my first question is, is it weird that i might love him already? like i feel so confortable with him....and the other question is......i want to have sex with him...but is it to soon? like he knows i'm a virgin and he doesnt care to wait but i want to.

plz help i'll rate high
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Whooa gurl it's way too early to be having sex with him!! You should consider the fact that he is cool with waiting that he wants a gurl that doesn't want to give the coochie away so fast.Plus if you don't listen to a little advice and have sex anyway then you should get ready for a shit load of pain down there. My friend couldn't sit down for 2 days after giving up her virginity.


what is the difference between being a couple and just dating? (link)
there really isn't a diff. but if you want to get technical the dating is just going places together and talking. A couple is bf and gf and your xclusive about it.


There was this guy that I've liked since 6th grade(im in 8th now), and we've been off and on. We'll I madeout wiht him for teh first time a few fridays ago. So yesterday he told me I wasnt exactly trhe best kisser. Other people say I am, btu I was jsut wondering, what can make me a better kisser? Ugh, that sounds bad but I'm really desperate to know. Thanks in advance!
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You should go to www.myjellybean.com and go to the how to be a good kisser section. I think it's under advice.


okay i'm 13/f and i think i really like this guy.. he's like the sweetest person ever, and he's always flirting with me. i've hung out w/ him out of school a few times, and i have a great time, and i just can't stop thinking about him. the thing is that my BEST FRIEND is in love with him and i know he likes me more than he likes her. she's always like "why doesn't he like me?" and i feel bad for her and stuff, and i want to hook them up, but he really only thinks of her as a friend. i tell her that he's stupid not to like a great girl like her, but it's hard b/c i like him too! i told her that i sort of like him, and she told me that i shouldn't. wut do i do? (link)
I have been through this too. I made the wrong choice and went out with him but luckily when i told my friend she didn't get mad at me or anything. I know i have a wonderful friend.But one thing I do know is that you have to choose which one is more important, your "boy-friend" or your BEST FRIEND??????? For all you know he could end up being a terrible boyfriend in the end.


Im 15 and my boyfriend is 18. weve been together for almost a year. He was really sweet the first 5 months, but now he has gotten so jealous that we get in fights all the time over it. He doesnt like me talking to guys or even looking at them. He doesnt like me wearing slutty clothes. (he considers skirts slutty) We both work at the same place and when our manager tells me i have to work the drive thru with a boy, he gets so mad at me like i can help it. Ive broken up with him several times hoping that he will change, but everytime i get back with him, an hour later hes right back at it again. Each time i break up he calls me up or comes over telling me how much he loves me and i always take him back. He tells me often that i will NEVER find anyone who will treat me better, and that im lucky to have him!! I told him i dont want to live like this, but he doesnt seem to get it. If i accidentally piss him off he'll go and start flirting or talking to other girls to piss me off. He was like this with his first girlfriend, but it didnt seem to cause problems in their relationship like it has ours. Shes basically the same age as he is, so i dont know if that has anything to do with it. He was very sensitive to her needs, and would hold her if she got upset or mad, but i feel he doesnt care when i get mad. I do know that i dont want to be controlled! Any advice would be greatly appreciated!! (link)
First of all I think on eproblem is that your younger than he is. He probably thinks that b/c your younger than him he can control you and that your suppose to obey him. You either need to set him straight and demand that you not be treated this way or break up with him and don't listen to his lies and don't talk to him when he call. Break all contact with him. He need s someone to control and if you let him control you it will only get worse.


ok well i want to get my boyfriend a dog tag for his birthday but i dont know what to put it on it.. any ideas?? and can someone tell me how much they are? and where can i get them at the mall?? thanks (link)
Usually you can get them at those stands they have in the mall. There are some stands that you can put a picture on the dog tagIf you can find one that does you should put your pic on it or have the both of you in the pic. If you can't find one like that you should put something thoughtful and simple on it.Like your names on it and a heart.


what are some good ways to bring up a past relationship when talking to your ex??
like for example if i want tot ell him that i still have feelings for hima nd that i miss him??..do i come out and just say it or what?? (link)
Well first if you and your ex are stillin touch you should call him and talk a bout sumthing nd then bring up sumthing funny from your past relationship together and then say that you miss thaose times with him. Hope it works


ive been with this girl for 2 weeks and i like her and everything but the first date we went on, she pretty much ripped off her shirt and was offering herself to do anything to me, ya it was ok at first but i like girls that dont want to give something at first to me.. i like a challenge, everytime were together she wants to do sexually stuff , i mean im a guy, and im all for that trust me but its every single time i see her.. i like taking a girl out, going to chill at home watch a movie or go out to one, go out to an amusement park.. not always doing that kind of stuff to eachother now that i realise how she just seems to want to give everything up to me i dont like that and i want to break things off with her, but im not sure on what to say to her when i break it off with her.. my chick friend advised me to do this, so all your help would be appreciated! (link)
Sit down and talk to her. Tell her that you like her and ya'll should slow things down a little. Or tell her that she doesn't need to do all this because she's already beautiful to youand she doesn't need to prove anything to you. She might like you alot and feel that in order to make you stay with her she has to act that way. Whatever you decide to say just let her know that she doesn't need to do that for you cause your not other boys.




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