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Q: How long do you spend with god?
All the time ,plus your never alone even if you try to ignore it your still not spending time with because hes still their with you.


God bless April

Q: Tonight, I'm going to the movies with my boyfriend but my parents are driving us. When we drop him off, do I walk him to the door? Or do I just stay in the car? I wasn't sure if the girl walks him up there too .. ?

Thanks!!



DO what you think is right,follow your heart.


God bless

Q: About a month ago I got out of a five month relationship and it didnt end on very good terms. I seem to keep falling for guys that will wreck my heart. my question is where are places I can take a fiew of my girl friends to hang out where I can meet a bunch of new guys. And how do i aproach them without seeming odd.



Hmmm tuffy.What bout going to a bowling ally
A arcade at the mall or the mall and even the quick mart.And how to greet them you could do a little cute wave and a smile with eye contact or ask them a little qeustion.And just remember God will send you the right man too.
Hope my advice helped

God bless

Q: ok me and my girl have been together for 4 months and 28 days and we are GREAT everything is great and we are really comfortable and well her dad is a peer prick i absolutly cant stand him. He used to beat her and stuff but now he will scream at her for nothin, And he thinks she spends to much time with me and we only get to actually spend time with each other one time a week and her dad dont trust us enough to even let us set in the car together at a store so that kinda shows how much he likes me. He also said that if her grades dont come up then she cant see me ATT ALL and i dont think eather one of us can handle that. Does anyone know what i can do to get him to leave her alone?......


Hmmmm...Tuffy.It sounds like you should tell an adult or go to the authority.Oh heres a hotline that will hopefully come in handy

1-800-safeyouth


I'll pray for you guys k

God bless

Q: Riiight...

I'm 14. My girlfriend is 16. We both love each other very much.

Recently, after a night of passion (basically lots of making out and holding one another), she offered to take me to third base. I am simply not sure I'm ready for this, for a couple reasons...

The major one is it's simply incredibly daunting. I've never made it that far with any girl, and this is the kind of thing I've heard about in health class. I feel a little young and unprepared... I just get rather nervous when I consider it.

The other is simply the original idea I had when I first heard of it. I remember back years ago, when I first heard of the whole idea, I remember thinking "Wow, that sounds really disgusting for her. I would never make ANY girl do that for me". She says it doesn't bother me, but I don't know...

What you have to understand is that it's not her, it's me. I love and trust her indefinitely, it's issues I just have with myself. I think I also feel a little insecure about my body... I'm also afraid, however, that if I continuously pass something like this up, I'll just never be ready no matter how old I get.

Please don't answer this from a religious standpoint, and don't just say "talk to her" because I'm already doing that. She'd like an answer by Saturday.

Does anyone have any advice?

Sorry Kinda got carried away :)

Your welcome

God bless

Q: ok so i had sex with my boyfriend two days after my period and three days after i stated birth cotrol. It was my first time and he didnt use a condom. im on my 13th day on the pill now and we had sex about 5 other times, only once with a condom. i never bleed and i didnt feel or hear my cherry pop so i dont think it did. im so scared that i am pregnant and i dont know what to do.



I'm so sorry if this sounds mean:


You made a big mistake by having sex with your boyfriend. You could be pregnant. Anytime even on birth control and a condom....Lets say their is no such thing 100% safe sex and if you want to be safe don't have sex at all.In the bible it says not to have sex until your married.
Oh I wouldn't be just be worried about being pregnant also think sexual transmitted diseases.

You may want to buy pregeancy test



I'll be praying for you

God bless

Q: okay, well its not likea medical problem or anything its just that well, i havent had a boyfriend for a LONG time.. its been about 1 year and a couple months.. thats a LONG time.. and i mean ive talked to guys and ive hooked up with them but i dk i think that there might be like a physical issue or something might be wrong with the way i act.. i mean i have lots of guy friends so i dont think its my personality.. i thin its more of the physical .. i dont think its my face because i have a pretty cute face but i think its because i weigh a little more than most girls, i wouldnt call myself huge but im up there im about 135 lbs.. but i dk can you just tell me what to do.. i think that guys would be able to help me more with my problem.. i need to know how guys really look for girls.. ((personality or looks)) PLEASE HELP



So you been hooking up with guys.Hmmm I really don't think you should be doing that cause well for many reasons 1 In the bible it says to keep your virginity 2 If you hooked up with the guy, the guy already he got what he wanted,

Oh and its kinda on the guys personlity If he says your hot or pretty(I'm not saying thats bad)It could mean this *yes looks mean everything to me* thats what might the guy means but if says something likes this *Wow your funny pretty talented* or something like that it usualy means I think your pretty but personility means alot to me also



P.s. remember don't hook up with guys ok but live happy life

Q: 15 y.o. freshman girl. So, I've liked this guy for just a couple of weeks now. He sits next to me in one of my classes, but he usually didn't talk to me that much. But lately he's been talking to me more frequently. Today, we practically talked the entire period because we had a substitute and she just gave us busy work, so we didn't get in trouble. He even grabbed my knee and held on for about a minute or two, which surprised me. About a month ago, my friend told me he liked some girl that went to another school, but maybe he's over her? Should I pursue him? Was he flirting, or does he just want to be friends?



Hi my name is April.And I'm here to give advice about this boy.Hmmmm it sounds that he likes you but be cautious bout the way he grabbed your knee it sounds he likes you,he may be pretending to like you(I'm so sorry don't let that offend you) but like I said be cautious cause he be after something else.Because hes still in a stage (cough,cough,lol) in early life for boys.But thats normal cause I think all gals go threw something like that with boys.

If you need any advice send me an E-mail christiangal1993@yahoo.com


see ya and God bless
Apirl

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