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*HeY*Name: Toni
Nickname:Triple T
I live in: Rochester Ny
Age:11
Hey yall!!
welcome 2 my column!!! If u need advice just ask!!! And fyi I tell honest advice...so it may not help evry1.....!!!
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U see, i really really like this boy, but i cant seem to tell him, i get real nervous around him. ive tried to tell him before, but i cant get it out. so what should i do?
You could try writing him a note. If you dont feel comfortable with tht get to no him better and try to work up the courage to tlk to him.... Hope I helped!
Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?
No!!!! this is perfectly normal!!!
Okay Where do i start theres this guy(Johnta) who i have been goin off and on with for the past two years.. and recently i broke up with him because i started liking this guy(Steve) i met at the beginning of school, i mean yea me and Johnta went to the same school but he never walked me to class and whenever i did see him all he did was give me a handshake like he was ashamed of me or something, and people came up to me and was like "Johnta said yall dont go out" and we did.. so i decided that maybe i should get to know steve better and i did and he treats me with respect, he walks me to class, carries my bookbag, and just makes me smile whenever i am around him, But now Johnta and Steve dont like each other because of me the other day they were about to fight in school and they didnt but they were in each others face and the only thing that came out of johntas mouth was " Fuck You! You Fucked With My Heart!" and i felt really bad.. but steve really likes me and i can tell he acts like it but when me and johnta were goin out johnta acted like we didnt.. i just dont understand why ALL OF A SUDDEN johnta acts likes he cares.. I Cant break up with steve i've gotten to know him and I REALLY like him ALOT.. all my friends tell me to break up with steve but they just dont understand how i feel.. what should i do?
Definitly stay with steve. Johnta is just jealous because u finally found sum1 who loves and cares 4 u and hes got well...........nobody!! Hope i helped!!! Plz rate!!!
my friends and i all hang out with the same group of guys all the time. ive liked one of the guys(greg) on and off since like last february. we went out for about a month(it was a pointless relationship cuz i only saw him like 4 times) antways, i recently found out from my friend that another kid in our little group, lets call him kyle, likes me. im not sure if kyle really likes me and ive never really tohught of him as more than a friend, but he is very cute and nice. lately, ive been thinking less about greg and ive been considering the possibilities with kyle. ive liked greg so much for so long and i dont think he likes me back. i dont want to start liking kyle just cuz he likes me, and also im afraid if something happens with me and kyle, ill still get jealous of other girls who like greg..... sorry its kinda confusing but i need help! xOx thanks in advance :)
Definitly c wht happens with kyle....I mean really.....how long r u gonna sit around and wait 4 greg?! Let me no! Hope i helped!! plz rate!!
~~*~Triple~T~*~~
ive been datin this older guy for 2 1/2 weeks....
wen we first started datin i was so excited..i really liked him!!!!!!
now i found a toatally different deppresed side of him....its startin to piss me of bc he trys and gets people to feel bad for him......
now evrytime we meet its always one of his friends on one of my friends is wit us..(i dont like to be alone wit him)its usually his friend brian who comes wit us
...ive known brian a lot longer than my bf and ive always had a crush on him....now spendin more time wit brian i like him a lot...and i just found out that he likes me...
but my boyfriend is odd, even if i cheated on him he'd neva break up wit me.....
i dont want to break up wit him bc he's so awsome and he's like my BROTHER (another reason i dont want to date him)...
how do i get him to dump me and stay friends...and dont tell me to tell him how i feel.....(it doesnt work!)pleeeeezzzzz help me!!!!!!!!
Just tell him straight out "u r like a brother 2 me not like a bf...I really wanna be ur friend just not ur gf" Tht isnt telling him how u feel its telling him straight out...Then if he doesnt break up with u its ur move...Under no surcomstances should u cheat on him!
Me and My boyfriend have been going out for awhile but we haven't seen eachother sence we started going out because I had cheerleading and he had football..we talk on the phone all the time but I wanna do something together with him..should I just ask him one day on the phone to do something or wait till he asks me?
The old saying "the guy makes the first move" is so0o0o0o bogus! Go ahead and bring it up 2 him! Hope I helped!
ok u people here on advicenators r my last help! not even my mom understands wat im goin through. well my boyfriend and i have been datin for a while and well now he's startin to scare me.
he's gettin very obsessive and im so scared that if i break up with him(which i want to) he's gonna do something crazy(kill himself or hurt me) the worst part is if he ever found out i liked his best friend he's gonna get very violent....i dont kno what to do!!! i try avoiding him but he gets madder and wonders if i dont like him..he told me that if i broke up with him he WILL kill himself
help me plzzz..no one understands i have no1 2 talk 2
Hunni...Its all about mind ovr matter...U need 2 bring him into a public place such as the mall or @ ur house when ur parents r home and tell him how u feel...Remember if u stay in this relationship things could get even more violent and he could end up killing U
Ok well...Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now and are now expecting a lil girl in october.I have put up with alot these past 2 years with him drinking and a bunch of other stuff and finally i got him to quit alot of stuff he use to do,and hes been doing really good except i see a pattern here.Its like everytime im not around he decides to go somewheres and drink and then gets himself in trouble no matter what.Just the other night a cop brought him here around 3 in the morning and he was drinking!He needs some help and i dont know what to do anymore.Hes going to be 22 but acts like hes 16 still.I love him so much but i dont want the baby to be around this shit.What should i do?? :*-( (Sorry its so long...)
U need 2 sit him down and maybe say something along the lines of (but maybe not as rude) "Do u realize that in _ months ur gonna be a father? U need 2 take tht responsibility and act ur age.." If this doesnt work there r many other possibillities such as a conselour, rehab or aaa group...Hope I helped!