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Q: Any man want to have s fun with me?
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Q: I've recently started seeing a guy, for about 3 weeks. He has been out of town and won't be back until a week and a half. Last night I was kissed by another guy, who I barely know, and definitely have no feelings for. I don't know whether I should tell my boyfriend? There is a huge sense of guilt and anger at myself, and I feel incredibly stupid for what I did. The recent week has been an intensely emotional week, dealing with all sorts of other personal issues and while I know it isn't an excuse, it has most likely contributed. I don't intend on seeing this man again, even as friends.

He kissed me, I kissed back. He touched me, I told him to stop. He continued, I told him to stop. He kissed me again and I didn't kiss back. Then I left. I couldn't take it anymore.

What should I do?

I am a female, aged 24.
As hard as it sounds, you need to tell him. Honesty is everything in a good relationship. He'll appreaciate the honesty for sure. Just be completely open, tell him you regret and that guy who kissed you doesn't mean anything to you... because that's the truth! If you don't tell him that guilt will bubble up inside you, and if you don't tell him and he finds out, there is a good chance you may never speak to him again. So be honest and tell him every thing that happened and how much he means to you.

Q: Is it wrong for a 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old to like eachother more than just friends?
Of course its not wrong, although parents may beg to differ. Every teen goes through a phase of liking people a bit older. Sometimes it isn't just a phase and those two people may get married and start a family. So it is okay to fallow your heart, but remember...don't do anything you may regret, and be carful. If you really trust this person then you wont have a problem.

Q: How do you know if he really isnt in love with you anymore
Just talk to him about it. Ask if he needs a break for a little wile. He may want to see other people and you may to, you just don't know it yet. If you don't want to leave him at all then try to spice things up. Plan a romantic evening at a fancy restaurant, take a walk on the beach, throw a party for him, buy him a gift, or just ask what's going on.

Q: my partner has gone to his family in another country for several months. at first we texted occasionally and called around once a week. for the last 4 weeks i have heard nothing. last time we spoke all was fine. i thought i would give him some space for a couple of weeks so as not to pressure him as he is around family. then i called and texted and called again. phone was off and no reply. what should i do. i want him to come back but dont want to pressure him.
If you have tried everything then see if you can contact one of his family members. Just tell them that you were worried if you are afraid you will sound pushy. If you don't have contact with any of his family members and he still dose not pick up his phone then all you can do is wait. I'm sure he will return home safely so don't worry. Just look forward to him coming home.

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I'm Kristina. I like music and drawing. I don't like math and the color green. I've only been alive for 13 years but I have learned that everything happens for a reason, and you shouldn't question the path that God has planned for you. :-) Smile, even if you don't feel pretty. Do it, because your inner beauty will shine through. And what I think is the most important life lesson, Don't care about what other people think. If they spend all their time judging you, then they are the ones with problems.

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