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well i went out with a guy for about 7 months. then we broke up. i really love him and he always tells me that he still loves me and misses me. he was acting like he wanted to go back out w/ me. so i tryed to get him back but last night i found out that he wouldnt go back out w/ me. now there are two really hot guys that want to go out w/ me. but i still love my ex-boyfriend. i like the two other guys a lot but i dont want a boyfriend because im still not over my ex. now i dont know wut to do!! what do u think? what guy should i go w/ or none at all?

well....
you can think about these 3 things:

1) Who is hotter? Your ex or these 2 guys?! haha!
2) Who is nicer?
3) Who would be the better boyfriend right now? Who would love you and take care of you more?

Well, think about those always! Talk 2 ya later!

Hope that somewhat helped!

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ok, theres this guy, mmk? and i know he likes me, cuz he told me like a bajillion times. but i dont like him AT ALL..and he keeps like hangin all over me and stuff. he calls me, i dont answer, he writes me notes, i throw them away and dont answer them, he emails me, i delete them, and i have him blocked on AOL..why wont he take the hint???? am i being too subtle? do i just need to like go up to him and make a huge scene or sumthin? please help, cuz he's really startin to bug me!!! thanks!

~*wants nothing to do with him*~

wow, you're a little bit violent in my opinion. unblock him on AOL and explain to everything you just explained in your question. he'll soon get the picture that you don't like him...start over maybe...become friends. it's always nice to start fresh with someone.
Hope that helped.

Chloe*

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Ok there is a guy I really really like! Tomorrow I have class with him. How can I get him to notcie me or at least look at me?! There is a winter ball coming up and I would really like to be asked! We are friends but I want to be more..what can I do or say?

Just smile at him! If you have the guts to talk to him and face him, just walk by his desk or something and say hi. Keeping it short n sweet always helps. If he's interested he'll talk to you or try to get into conversation with you!
Good luck!
Hope that helped!

~Chloe*

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating about 3 months on the 24th...But he still doesn't understand my hints. How do I get him to understand my hints without me saying what I want out right?

^ trippen ^

Just remind him you guys are going out. Guys sometimes forget they have girlfriends..its just really weird. Get him a three months anniversary present...I'm sure he'd like that. :-D
Hope that helped.

~Chloe*

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Alrighty...well let's see if anyone has any ideas on what I should do. :) Okay, well I've really liked this boy for way over a year and we went out most of the time I liked him. While we broke up though he's gone out with one girl and I've been with like two other guys but really we always seem to find eachother! But I really really really like him still, we had a few flings in the past couple months, and he has called me like everyday for a long time...up to a little bit ago and I didn't know what was up. Then I found out he asked out this other girl and my friend asked him why he hasn't asked me out yet (because he told her that he was going to but to keep it on the d/l) and he said it was because I never call him or talk to him at school. Well the thing is I do call him but not a lot and whenever I try to call him he calls me before and I tell him and he never believes me! Well now I'm trying to talk to him more in school so we don't seperate and then he don't like me anymore because I don't know what I would do! But everytime I try to do that he never talks back really because I think he totally gave up on us to. Does anyone have any ideas on what I should do about this! Please please help, it's really upsetting me and I don't know what I will do!

Take it slow.
I think he's a little paranoid. He is afraid you don't like him....and trust me, I think you do. Just explain to him "Look, i know you like me and I like you too, but please just give me a chance to try and make this work. I promise to call you as often as I can..I can get busy sometimes, but feel free to call me."

Sorry if that didn't help. :-(

~Chloe*

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theres this guy i like, his name is collin. hes really good friends with my friend jessica. i think collin likes me but thinks he doesnt have a chance with me. i've asked him to come to dances and stuff with us but he always doesnt come. i know he likes me alot and i like him but he just doesnt know i like him. i guess what im asking is how do i get him to notice i like him without seeming too obvious?? thanx alot

I think Collin could be a little bit shy around girls.
What if he's had a past experience with a girl that has made him afraid of liking them?

Take it slow and don't push it too much. Try not to ask him all the time to dances and the movies, etc. I'm sure if you started of slowly and just became super good friends with Collin, he'd be asking you out in no time! :-D

~Chloe*

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