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Well Im Katie.I do gymanstics,cheering,and do dance.I have a boyfriend Tyler.Im a very out going person,I love making new friends.I love helping people out as much as I can.I love going to the beach,like swimming,learning how to skateboard.I love learning new things like anything.I love tubing,hanging with friends,going to the movies,partying,going to dance clubs,shopping(my number one fav thing to do),on the fone with ppl,talking on aol and stuff like that.Yea and I have many people that come to me asking questions what they should do with boyfriend or girlfriends or its just friends problems.Im a very outgoing girl,easy going and a very good listener and helper.I love giving advice to ppl bcuz it works all the time and ppl always come to me for anything.So Ask Ah Question And Ill Help You:)The Best That I Can
-xOxO katie

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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?

That isnt a longgg time to go out with anyone I have been going out with my boyfriend for two years and I started dating at 14:)Heheh so no worries;)
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Hey its me again...nikki the gurl with the b/f problem how u said that u and your b/f were going out 4 2 years and did it...well like did it hurt alot and stuff..i know these r stupied questions but ya...

thankz again
nikki

Hey Nikki...Okay well if you are a virgin and having sex for the first time it will hurt a little bit because its popping your cherry.But the first time I had sex it did hurt and after your cherry is popped you bleed blood for down there intill you go pee and it goes away.So dont freak out if that happens.If your not a virgin it might or might not hurt depends on how big his dick is.But yea the first time I did it hurt for like a minute and then I was fine.But if you reallie want to do it I think you should just got right straight for it,if you want to do it.They arent stupid questions.But anyways I hope you make the right descion and I helped.Goodluck Nikki!

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ok me and my b/f have been going out 4 a while and i trust him with everything but recenly we have been talking about sex and he wants to and he said that if im not ready that its ok and that he will wait as long as i want to wait but i like wanna have sex with him but im kinda scared still so if any one could help me it would be greatly appcated

I would think about it first,and talk with him a little bit more when where you can sit down and pick a day and stuff to do it.That happened with me and my bf and we have been dating two years and we decided to do it.If your scaried tell him and he will understand but you said you wanted to do it as well so decide what you want to do just keep calm and keep your head up high.Goodluck!
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together?

Go out to dinner,maybe a walk along the beach,chill at each other house and watch some movies,walk along the beach at night and look at the stars,have a pinic,try stuff like that.Goodluck!
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I like this guy at camp. My friend is his good friend and she likes him too. In a matter of fact so does my step sister...alot of people do. Hes nice though. Not like a jock er anything. I want to ask him out, but knowing myself, I wont. I might invite him to voluunteer with me and my sister at the pet shelter. Hey ill get to be his closer friend. What else could I do to get closer to him? Or how should I ask him out?

Okay just hang out with him more and talk to him more and drop hints on saying that you like him and all and everything should work out fine and when you feel that it is the right time ask him out.Hope I helped!
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I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.I have never seen my present boyfrend in my dreams.The more I have dreams about my ex the more I wanna get back with him.What should I do?

Well if your still having dreams about your ex-boyfriend I think you should call your ex-boyfriend and see what his feelings are for you still.But if you love your bf right now then I would stay with him,evening though your still having dreams about your ex-bf.I know how it feels it happens to my friends all of the time,but in the end they dream of there bf.I hope everything works out fine.good luck girlie!
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alrighty i need as many people as possible to answer this question for me alright so my bf said he'd call me back and its now 10:36 and he said he would call back at like 9:40 he said... well being that he is at his cousins with like adam, shaun, and nate i think hes just havin fun so thats prolly why he didnt call or something but ... i did kinda be mean when we said goodbye 2 phone calls ago and he said you did sound kind of mean why you said goodbye you were kinda like K bye when i asked him and he said hey can i call you back and thats when this sit. came up but i was like yeah and is like k bye... i was thinkin... smart@$$... but i didnt say that.. that'd be out of line i think... just help me out... should i also send a text to him saying hey just wanted to say goodnight and ill see you later love you (name) alrighty.. plz help

I wouldn't worry to much boys like to have fun.Also likes girls.Like my bf doesnt always call on time bcuz he is having fun with his friends.You s houldnt be to worried,he will most likley call you tommarow and be like Im sorry.You can text him if you want to but just keep yourself occupied,its not a big deal if he doesnt call one nite but if it conts. to happen then it is.goodluck!
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Ok i'll try not too many this really long but if u wanna help me out and know the whole story than e-mail or IM...but anyways I still wanna be with my ex-b/f sooo bad!!! We've been broken up for 3 months now and the break up was pure hell!!! I went through the hardest time of my life and i'm still struggeling but gettin better..anways he has gotten a new g/f he he is so inlove with but I still care about him so much....I dunno if I still love him if I should just wait and hope that maybe 3 or 4 months from now he will realize that he made a big mistake or realize that he ain't commin back that it wasn't meant to be. I was with him for 2 years...he was my first love...I dunno wut to do....Please if you HAD experience w/this reply *Natalie* /17/

Well I had the same kind of problem but we didnt break up we need are space.Dont wait around look out towards other opputunies in the world bcuz I knew that he wasnt coming back bcuz he was in love with his new gf.So now Im dating tyler that I have been with for almost three years and things are wonderful with us.Anyways but dont wait for him maybe he wasnt worth it because evening though he was your first love you will have more loves in your love tyler is my second love and I know that we wont break up.Just keep your head up high,try and talk to him and find out what his feelings are for you if he still loves you or not and if he doesnt you have to let him go.I hoped I helped.I know how hard it is but just keep yourself busy and try and not think of him.Goodluck girlie!
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how do i get a girl 2 like me (and iv already told her i like her please help) and were both 14

What I think that you should do is hang out with her more,talk to her on the phone and drop hints like flirt with her and let her know she likes you.I hoped I helped:)GoodLuck!
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ok. i am 14 and i am a female. I really like this on kid. but there is a different kid that likes me alot. he is funny and everything u would want a boyfriend to be...well maybe. i mean i dont know if i should go out with him bc he isnt exactly the cutest guy in the world. actually he isnt cute at all. and the only thing that is keeping me from going out with him is the fact that he is ugly and that ppl will say stuff to me like"oh ur going out with him? he is so ugly!" i just dont want ppl to say that. i mean he is funny, nice and wont push u to do nethign like most guys would. his 2 best friends r going out with my 2 best friends and we r the ones left out. my question is i guess. should i go out with him even tho he is ugly?

I think that you should go out with him,I think that you shouldn't judge him by looks because he might be a reallie big sweetheart.You shouldnt reallie listen to what ppl say evening though he is ugly or not.Because I know I had a problem sorta of kind of like yours when I had to choose bewteen guys because if you choose the other kid and he says no then you might feel reallie bad for not choosing the funny/everything you want in a boyfriend type.Because I think that you should follow what you heart says,and everything will workout.GoodLuck Girl!
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Hey,my situation is prolly a pretty common one,but i'll go into it anyway. I'm an 18 year old guy,who knows this really nice girl for over a year. The reason i never made my move on her was that she was always going out with one of my friends and still is. I am under the impression that i'm her friend and nothing more,b/c she tells me things prolly only her bf should know and i feel bad about this. I dont wanna wreck anybody's relationships,but it seems like she's more comfortable around me then him. What should i do?

Well what I think that you should do in my own words that you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about her instead of holding it back because you never know she might like you back.But evening though she is with one of your friends I think she should know how you feel.If she tells you stuff that her boyfriend doesnt know and she is comfortable with you then tell her how you feel and your not trying to ruin your relionship with her and her bf.And you will never know how she feels about you intill you tell her how you feel for her.Just make sure your calm with her and make sure you feel like its the right time because dont hold it back intill the last minute when she leaves because I did that before but with a guy.So tell her how you feel before its too late.Make sure your calm and you feel like its the right moment.Goodluck!
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well i've decided to take the plung and kiss my bf! ahhhhh i'm scared! anyways, i need a plan. bearing in mind that i'll have to do it in school time (lunch or break) or on the way home from school. any ideas??? I WILL RATE U FOR THIS!

Well I think what you should do if your going to kiss your bf make sure first thing that you are calm.Plan it just the right time make sure his friends arent around because he might be a little embarssed,I think that you should do it when your walking home from school with him and then when you feel like its the right time go and kiss him.Make sure your calm,and not shy.Goodluck girl!
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I used to be popular with a lot of friends but now I gave all that up about a year ago cuz the people were so stuck up. And now I have like no freinds....I dont even know if I have one and I have a boyfriend who I love soooooo much and weve been together for 7 months and I wish i had some real friends tho.... I am so fed up with the people in my school tho and I think I want to meet people outside of school I just want to make friends who I dont know yet....I want to start over.... what do i do?....should I stop being "friends" with the people Im sick of? i have been so stressed out lately and I dont know what to do about my depression!

WOW HUNNY! I swear that was me ALL Through high school!!! I have a boyfriend who loves me unconditionally and taught me sooo much about myself.I Have been with him for five years. I have ONE best friend too! She has gotten me through alot! Ya i did hang out with all the popular people but i never really fit in all my years in high school. Not that they were rude or anything to me, it was just i felt as if i never belonged and that my morals were different. My advice is to be yourself! Meet new people! It makes you feel great inside when you can make someones day by just bein nice and saying Hi to a stranger! Im sure there are plenty of people out there that you will be GREAT friends with! You just need to look out for the right ones! ALl i can preach to you is stay true to yourself, because when you are not and all fall into bad things, its hard to find yourself again! good luck and if you need help you can always ask me ?'s!
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hey, im 13 and im really tall im like 5'5( i just turned 13) but i weigh like 100 pounds probally and people think im anorexic cause i have really muscular abs i have a 6 pack but you cant see it only feel it lol and u can see my ribs and stuff but not like really bad but i eat not a ton or anything but i eat and people are always like omg you are so skinny are u anorexic or sumthin and i get really mad cause its like NO!! i would never do that to myself but iv had teachers ask me if i was before 2 and i get really mad and not to sound snoty or anything but im probally one of the most popular girls in my grade theres one person whos more popular than me and im really pretty 2... not to sound conceited or anything i have medium blonde hair and big pretty eyes thats what people tell me atleast and people think im tryin to be like a super model just cause i look like that and they think that i dont eat and when i do eat they think i throw it up some people just think that im tryin to be like all the girls on tv and stuff and thats not it at all i would never do that to myself how do i get them to stop thinking this please help me and soon!!

First of all ...who cares what they say! You sound like a beautiful young girl, and who knows maybe one day you will be a model! You just need to tell them that you dont have a problem! As long as YOU know you are ok then who cares about the others! Your true friends will stick by yourside and defend you! Also, if you go to your doctor and tell him tha you dont like your weight, maybe he can give you some kind of like protien or something to take...i mean it wouldnt hurt, ya know! Well good luck girl and if you have ANY ?'s feel free to ask me k! I hope i helped ya a lil bit! JUST BE CONFIDENT WITH YOURSELF!
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There's this one guy that I'd do anything for. It's crazy, yes. But I love him so much...it hurts. And he never talks to me. Never pays any attention to me. But I can't tell him how I feel, he's too cool. He intimidates me. And I don't know what to do, because all I want to do...is be with him.

WOW WOW WOW girl....first thing first, if you like him so much you shouldnt be afraid of him! I know you probably get major butterflies in your stomach and all but here is what ya need to do.
First you need to approch him(possibly when he is alone), be it by yourself, or with your friends just to get a conversation started. you need to find out abuot him. I could be wrong but it seems as if you dont ReAlLy know him, so it seems as if you only like him by his looks or something, which is ok for now, but try and find out alot about him. He might not pay attention to you because he doesnt know you pay attention to him, if he knows though, and he is a nice guy he will acknowledge you when he sees you.... Dont be intimidated by him though! You got this, just try and talk to him.....it will make you feel great about yourself, and feel more confident! GOOD LUCK !I HOPE IT GOES GREAT~!
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hi. i've been with my b/f for about 5 mo. and i'm 14 and he's 16. i REALLY want to have a baby! i don't know why i just ReAlLy do! but also my cuz whos 20 's g/f just had a baby and she was 17(now 18) and they really struggle with financial problems. then his bro was dating a woman last year and just 2 weeks ago found out he was a dad. i really want to have a baby! what should i do?

YOU REALLY NEED TO WAIT! I think you are just trying to grow up to fast., even if you are in love, if you love yourself enough you would wait. You will miss out on EVERYTHING a teenager is supposed to do. PLus at 15 i dont think you are responsible enough to bring a child into the world. Wouldnt you want your kid to grow up having the best? and with two young parents that isnt very possible. This is a very serious step, and you need to look at the Whole situation. Maybe you should babysit kids or something if you want to be around them, but trust me sweetie you have your WHOLE life to have a kid, and i dont thjinkg now is the time...
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Okay well I have this boyfriend and he is 17 and Im only 15.We barely see each other anymore because he is always busy with his friends but I catch him with another girl.What should I do dump him or not?But I really do love him and he tells me he loves me but is busy all the time we see each other like once every month and I cant deal with it anymore.
-Tara

Okay Tara sweety I think that if you love him to dealth talk to him about it.Dont worry everything will turn out good.If you try to talk to him and be calm be like I cant stand not being able to see you and be like I miss you I know how it feels.Just talk to him calmly and if you two do break up it might be for the best.
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