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Hey, i'm Nikki... just your typical 15 year old... i'm a sophmore..i play Basketball, volleyball, dance, track & i use to play softball but way to many politics...umm the picture pretty much describes me..although its kinda old..i have brown hair, brown eyes..about 5'3..hehe short girl!.. well if theirs anything you'd like to know..don't be afraid to ask:-D

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OK heres the thing me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year, and hes a grade younger than me, so next year ill be in a different school an im wondering if othr people are goin to make fun of me and stuff, i rlly like him but im afraid that it might ruin my reputaion, also im afraid wht will appen if he was to brake up wit me? will my reputaion be ruined forevr? PLEASE HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!!


Don't let what other people think get to you..i have a friend who went out with this girl one grade younger than her..( he was in 9th her in 8th) and they lasted and still are together..noone made fun of him..and if someone ever did he wouldn't care because he loves her so much...you shouldn't care either..it won't ruin your reputation if you go out with someone in a different school thats younger..don't worry.. all that matters is that you like eachother..

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hey

ok, well this guy and i r good friends we talk like for 3 hours every day. well i dont know if i should say he is my boyfriend because he never asked me out but he calls "boo-boo"(i dont why) and babygirl and all ways says i love so he acts like hes my boyfriend but i dont know if he is or not. plz tel me what you think thnx alot

~*~Emily~*~


i think you should ask him, if your the real thing..tell him, you've been talking so much ..you'd like to know if you can claim him;) if he says he thought you were already going out..just tell him, alright i just wanted to know if we were offical or what...

xoxo good luck!

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On Friday I was with this boy it was our first time hanging out we've been friends for almost a year. We made out and stuff and he went up my shirt. He kept asking to finger me and I said no and then he would ask again and again. I dunno I think this is a little werid don't you? We're not going out like bf and gf but I can see us doing that. I really do like him but should I let him?? and please don't tell me o0o wait until ur comforable bc I don't want him doing it then never talking to me again. sry if this is long


i think that you should wait til your gf & bf..because..if your going out..thats different then just letting him..but thats totally up to you..if you really want to, then go ahead..but..only you know whats right.

xoxo- hope i helped

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Brad: BETSY im talking about kaliey
Brad: hahahahah ok i dont.. okay i wont...
Me: ohh sry ...blonde remember ?! lol
Brad: obviously
Me: i get confused easily
Brad: AH HUH

Would this be considered flirting or not?? Can you tell by this conversation or not?? And if not flirting how can i flirt??


Thats not really flirting sorry,...but if you want to flirt with him or any other guy..just drop little hints in..like cute remarks..

Example...

Me: Hey, happy birthday:-d!
Him : Thanks babe
Me: ic your info says : all i want for my birthday is you"
Me: i never knew you wanted me for your birthday;)
Him: yes, how'd you find out:-p


kinda like that..i can't really explain it..but just drop cute little remarks and use lots of smiley faces;)...

xoxox!..

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ok me and my boyfriend have been having a bad month - he tried to break up with me the other day but knew i was sad and ended up not .. he told me he loved me still and was being an idiot and crap like that .. but it stil doesnt seem like he still likes me.. i dont wanna bother him but i want to know the truth! sry its long!

Try talking to him..a break might be a good thing..just talk to him..see how he feels..if he thinks you need to break up..give him his space..who knows, you guys might get back together when everything settles down..you could agree to just not hang out for a bit if your having a bad month..he prolly just thinks since your having a bad month it will be better to end it..but if you really don't want that..tell him, and say..if your willing to keep trying..so am i..you know stuff like that..but bad days are what keep people stronger..and get them closer..good luck sweetheart..

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Well..I wanna ask someone to the movies and go on a triple date wit my two friends. Problem is..they are both pretty and im not so pretty..im afraid my date will end up flirting with them or concentrating on them. I know that my friends would never like my otential date..and im confident he`ll say yes when i ask him to come with us..is there anything i can do to build up my confidence and get the idea out of my head that my date will flirt with my friends or that he`ll think "wow they r hot..wish my date was prettier"
thanks

don't worry bout it..Looks arent everything..if your date is willing to say yes, then hes going to focus on you:)..for your confidence..i'm sure your a really pretty girl.you shouldn't put yourself down..Cheer up babe,..you have a good personality & looks only get you so far..

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It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;

I rate! ^_^

It happens to alot of people..but don't worry..they will see!!!..i'm sure you have a killer personality..and a guy will come around for ya!...one time..a guy told me i was to pretty to be smart..i about died..i was upset..he said he was joking but you know things get to ya..cuz i know that i'm smart and pretty..But if i was you..don't worry guys probably do see your personality .you just don't think they do..but a guy will come around!:-D..the other ones..kick um to the curb;) you deserve better! Guys gotta love you Inside and out..and they are missing out on getting to know a great girl probably;)! ..i know i draged on..but i hope i helped!..xoxo

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i know this is really long.. but i really need help.

okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?

i think that you should talk to your ex ,..also..sometimes if you hangout with other guys,.or even go out with them...it shows you that you can move on..or if you still have strong feelings for him...you guys need to take some time apart and just be free..if its true love it will come back to you...but right not you just need sometime..and you will find out how much you really love eachother:-)!...

" if you love someone set them free, if its true love..they will come back"

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