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I like one of my best guy friends. His name is Justin. We became friends in the 7th grade and have been friends ever since. His ex keeps telling me that we should go out. I know he likes me and he knows I like him. I want him to be my bf really bad. We flirt all the time.Sometimes a little to much. I want to know if I should make the first move or wait for him. Please help me. (link)
Take note to his actions. Is he shy? if he is , then maybe you should make the first move.

If hes extra flirty, wait for his first move and go along with it.

If he says "maybe we should go out?" say somthing flirty back like "yeah well maybe we should"/


well, maybe thats a a bit corny, but go along with it.

Make sure when your relationship ends , that you are still friends.

It sucks when you loose a good friend like that,

GOOD LUCK!!

--becca



ok I broke up with my bf and from doing that my bf and his friends found me and beat me up pretty badly....i meen no broken bones but still pretty badly....so I was wonderin if he can get in like trouble 4 that because i kno like at school wen kids beat eachother up they dont get in trouble and i was wondering if this is like that...(my ex also did this to his last gf)....and is this my fault because thats how I feel..that its my fault...cuz my ex said that it was and it kind of is because im the one who chose to break up with him in the first place...and thats y he beat me up with his friends...well ya so do u think its my fault 2? (link)
Thats sooo wrong. You should definatly tell some teacher or some one at the school and get him in trouble. Cus first of all Guys DONT hit girls. and he must have been a real ass if he did. Second of all you were just going out, its not like you guys were sworne to get married and u ruined it. You have the right to break up with him. You obviusly felt uncomfterbal about somthing so the relation ship wouldnt work out any way. I really dont thik its your fault. I mean a lot of times in shool if its 2 chicks fighting or to guys they might not get in much trouble, but a guy hit a girl , he can get in a lot . and you didnt start it or any thing so you shud have nothing to feel bad.

Hope all goes well.
Becky


I am 13 and i will call the two boys that i fancy 1 and 2. 1 is a real stunner, blond spikey hair, blue eyes a, six pack, and he's my age, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend i don't think although it seems like he's flirting with my sometimes. 2 is 18, dark brown, spikey hair, blue eyes and he's REALLY sweet, but everyone keeps saying he's too old for me, and he doesn't fancy me anyway. What should i do because i really like both of these lads and i don't know which one of them to fancy and whether i should ask one of them out or not so please deal with this question as soon as possible. I will rate you high. Thanks (link)
Honestly, 2 is too old for you. He is "of age" now and in alot of places somebody of age or that old dating some one your age is illeagal. So id say go for #1 . He might now thikn of you only as a friend. but maybe in time youll grow on him and he might like you like you like him.
Hope Ive helped!!! Good luck!!

bekkii


okay i like this guy and i just talked to him and he said he could see me as a potential girlfriend, but i have no diea what that means. He aslo just got out of a dirty breakup (they were goin out for 8 months) so what is he trying to tell me?? please please help!! (link)
potential means posssible or could be so baisicly trying to say " coudl see you as a posssiable girlfriend" i think me means he likes you & is thinking of asking you out.
_becca


i am in love with like the most perfect girl and we've been together for a while and i want to keep making her happy. any ideas how i can keep doign that?

all answers would be appreciated. i rate highly. (link)
Comming from a girl.... we like cute little surprises. You know boquet of flowers or a cute lil teddy bear . Randomly take her out to a place she would REALLY enjoy. Play some games with her, you know make her laff.


I'm 14/f. I've had crushes on several guys in the past, but I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like such loser because all of my friends have had at least 1 boyfriend bfore and most of them have had more.I kno I shouldn't go bywhat my friends have had, and I know that you're gonna say "my time will come",but I just really don't know what to do anymore. I did like this one guy ALOT,and actually I still do. I think I might be in love with him, but my friend told him and he said "ok", then he said he was dating someone right now. I'm just so confused I don't know what to do anymore. I don't think I'm really pretty or anything, or skinny, but I have friends who aren't like that either, and they still have had b/fs. Srry so long, I just am so confused, and wanted to see if anyone could help me.
I'l rate a 5 for nice answers.
Thank you.

*heartbroken, and confused* (link)
I know what you mean. And trust me theres nothing wrong with you. You just got a late start. I mean try to be a little more open with a boy you have a crush on . BUt dont think so low of your self. Good luck


Okay.. none of my friends were help on this. See if any of you are!

I've been with this guy for almost 2 months. He's in LOVE with me and totally obsessed. I hate clingy guys and I'm sick of him. He calls like .. 5 times a day.. AT LEAST .. and is Always wanting to hang out. I barely have time for my girls with him around!

I need a way to break up with him so he won't be too upset, and he will still be friends with me. I still like him, and i've already told him he's too obsessive, but it didn't help any! I need a way to let him down gently!

!mucho amor! (link)
Well you could say that your having alot of trouble at home and are too stressed out and your really dont thnk this is a good time for a BF.
Or say Like Im sorry You are very clingy and i need my sapce so i need to let you go and find some one that wants to be around lot as you would them.

GLBecka


15/f--i've been dating my boyfriend for nearly the entire school year and we're INCREDIBLY close. however...i'm not a big fan of kissing. Its great fun on the neck or ear...but just frenching or long kisses on the lips...its gross, and i feel like i'm drowning. i don't know if its just something i'm doing wrong, or if he's not a good kisser...or that's just how things are supposed to go and somehow i'm the only person in the world who finds this disgusting. :-/ please let me know what it might be, and anything i could do to help this situation! thanks (link)
Well im not quite sure but all i can say is that when you find the one you reallly love and care about.... kissing is going to be amazing. and you wont find it gross




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