I'm a 17 y/o guy in highschool with a mad crush on this girl that I've known since middle school. In middle school, she tried to hook up with me in an indirect way with obvious hints but then I didn't have any idea what to do so we stayed friends. I guess I was still in that cootie phase of puberty. But now I'm a junior in highschool and recently she's been on my mind alot like crazy. There's something about her that keeps my head stuck on her all the time, other girls might catch my attention but damn she got something special. There are a few guys that are trying to hook up with her but I heard from word of mouf that she likes me. Now that I've given you the intel on my situation, I was wondering what would you do to get the girl or to improve the chances of hooking up with her? I'd be real grateful if you can help me out.
Dear 'Love sick' :)
First and foremost I must say you have in your favor that the two of you were and (are) friends first, believe it or not that makes things a lot easier. All you need to do is be honest with her, tell her exactly what you told me. Let her know that shes been on your mind a lot lately,and that even though there may be a lotta other girls that may catch your eye they just dont have what she has,and that some people spend a lifetime looking for that special someone,and youd hate to let that oppurtunity slip past the two of you. Yanno? the worst that happens is that the two of you try it out for a while and decide that the best relationship for the two of you is to be the best of friends. Just for what its worth I was in your same situation with my bestest friend in the world. we felt the same way, we did everything together until we tried that oh so awkward next step...turns out we were just too close we felt like we were brother and sister,so for us we tried and we were just better off best friends, and for 15 yr now we STILL consider each other our bestest friend,he was even in my wedding this pat October2nd....and we live over how it turns out 4 hours away from one another!...so let fate take its course, all you can do is help nudge it along a little bit,...whats meant to be will be, but through it all the two of you must remember you were friends before anything else, so dont lose sight of that! :) Hope this helps! Lemmie know
Mystique
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ok i met this guy online and said i was 15..that was 2 yrs ago and now im "17" im really only 14 goin on 15!!! well this guy is really amazing hes sent me pix of him n salutes saying he real....we talk on the fone and everything...i told him a diff name...diff age...and sent him fake pix...he thinks its me..and hes coming out to where i live in 2 yrs for his senior trip...he sed hes told him mom about me and wants to bring me back where he lives!! i wish i was erally who i said i was bc i want him!! he even told me he loves me and thers no other gur like me!! hes totally in love with me and wev been talkin for 2 yrs now!!!!!!!! WAT DO I DO?? do i jst delete my fake screen name and everything...i cant tell him!! he mite call me and that wuld freak me out bc hed b really angry...he picked to come out to see me for his senior tip in stead of goin to the bahamas and im not even real!!!! WAT DO I DO?? =\
Dear 'faker'
Tell him the truth,....if hes really into you like you say he is,..then hell undestand,I mean 2 yrs is a long time to be talkin to someone,besides,if its your personality thats kept him interested this long? then things should be no different. If its meant to be itll be, and hell respect you more for telling hi the truth rather then leading him on. Just for wat its worth I met my fiance' online (grin) weve been together 6 yrs now and were getting married this Oct 2nd! So believe me when I tell you ..if its meant to be it will be! :) Dont sweat it, besides you dont wanna build a relationship on lies,...ask yourself how 'you' would feel if the tables were turned? If 'he' was the one who had been lying,and 'you' were really into him and his personallity..wouldnt you rather he tell you? If you really liked him then it wouldnt change...you cant just turn feelings for someone on and off yanno? And besides you have time on your side,*smile*
Good Luck! Hope this helps! Lemmie know what happens!
Mystique :)
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how do you tell a guy you don't like him if he likes you without hurting his feelings?!
i rate high! =)
Dear Chelsea
Why not something like Option#1
" You know ,...Ive been thinking, and I value our friendship so much that I am willing to sacrifice the fact that we cant be together in that way B/C of jeapordizing what we have as friends. Wouldnt you agree?"
OR Option #2
" Im just not ready for that kind of relationship right now, but I am flattered that you would think of me that way"
Then theres always Option #3
"If I were into guys youd be my top choice, so sorry Im Gay...but hey? we can still be friends cant we?" (grin)
Hope these helped Lemmie know :)
Mysique :)
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Is 8 months a long time to go out with someone when your 14?
Dear 'sense of Time'
8 months is a very long time to someone when they are 14 however when you look at the 'big' picture of 80+ yrs?....(which is the average life span),...its only a stepping stone in ones life. So dont let time be the factor let the amount of feelings you had in hat time. :) Hope this helps Good Luck
Mystique:)
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how can my friend get rid of camel toe?i kno its stupid but it serious
Dear 'Concerned'
More than likely shes wearing pants that are too small for her, maybe suggest she wear some looser fitting jeans (or pants) another cause is lack of underwear does your friend wear underwear? youd be suprised how many girls dont...if not that will help greatly! hope this helped :)
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