"Soul of Miss L, glorify me.
Body of Miss L, nourish me
Blood of Miss L, intoxicate me.
Tears of Miss L, wash me.
Oh good Miss L, excuse my plea,
And hide me in your heart,
And defend me from mine enemies.
Help me, Miss L, help me, help me."
~ Nathanael West's, Miss Lonelyhearts
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Location: San Antonio
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Age: 20
Member Since: May 18, 2009
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So i've had a thing for this guy since we hooked up awhile ago. we didnt talk much but we met again at another party.. we ended up hooking up a few times all weekend. and talked about how much we liked eachother. all this.. then monday comes and we're sober. He says he doesn't know how he feels.. that he feels different when he's drunk rather than sober.. what do I do? I really like him.. (link)
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Although harsh... He's just not that into you.
There are other guys who will cherish you, but this guy does not seem to understand what he has. So, forget him! You may hook up a lot... but guys hook up for the sake of hooking up. It is not an indirect way of saying "I like you." Sure you can take it as him saying "you're pretty" but I advise you take the compliment and walk away.
He likes you at night yet isn't sure during the day.
He's trying to keep you close but not too close so he can continue hooking up in the future but not commit.
Love Always
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Im 19 in college and i met this 24 year old guy...he is really nice and we are getting to know eachother on a friend level but i am interested in more but would like some advice to if you guys think the age difference is a problem and if you have ever dated older did it work out? (link)
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Personally I prefer older guys. They prove to be much more level headed and on track than boys our age (I'm 20). However. use your best judgment. Some men choose to date younger women simply because they can coerce them to play by their rules. Although this may be the case for few men it is NOT a generalization for all older men. I think you should definitely give it a try. Don't live the rest of your life wondering.
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i have a boyfriend right now but i dont liek him and i tohught i did when he got a new girl firend. i got jealous but then there this other boy ive liked for a very long time now but this boy goes out with one of my friend but he still has some feelings for me he was upset when i got a new boy friend. i really like this other boy and he told me that he liekd me but now i have a boy friend i dont know what to say to my boyfriend now because i really like this other boy and i dont know what to do can you please help? (link)
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Wow, you are all over the map! When you get jealous of another girl becoming the object of ones admiration it doesn't necessarily mean you like the guy. It could mean a bunch of different things, most commonly: jealousy due to lack of attention, because his attention has shifted to someone new.
It is never a good idea to play with peoples hearts. You need to let your current boyfriend go if you sincerely do not have feelings for him.
About this other guy... he sounds like a player. He's dating someone but says he likes you? Thats never good! So what is he going to say to a girl if he dates you? If he had feelings he wouldn't be with the other girl, and he'd be waiting for you to come to him.
Hope this helped, although rather harsh.
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this guy and I went out for a really long time/10 months. he told me that one of his friends was into me and he was gonna try to steal me away. When one of my friends thought he was cute..i told him....we ended up braking up three or four months later.....he ended up going to her the same day that we broke up...and it was like..wow..he got over me that fast...the part that irritates me is how he talks to her and tries to talk shit about me....always saying mean things about me.....i don't know...i just want to ask him why he is talking shit... (link)
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Have you ever read "He's Just Not That Into You"? For these troubles I suggest it.
The mysterious girl is always the most attractive to males. So, by confronting him you put yourself out for defeat, you show you care,and that you're bothered. It's more than okay to care! Just don't do it in front of him. He did you over and now it's your turn to move on. Don't talk excessively about him to girlfriends who will turn right around and tell him, and don't make it a point to stalk his Facebook/Myspace it will drive you crazy!
Okay so he talks shit? Who doesn't. He could be doing that to prove he's not interested in you anymore (I'm sorry that's harsh but it's the truth. If he still cared for you he'd be with you.
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Ok, so when I flirt with a guy, sometimes I likke make fun of them for like stupid stuff. & I'm not sure if they like it or not. Do guys like it when girls are nice and happy all the time? or what? I'm so confused with everything. (link)
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My best friend does this! She's the really witty type, and I'm assuming you are as well. So, you make fun to get him to laugh or others, right? To lighten the mood?
Unfortunately, you most likely are intimidating the guy. There is a possibility he may think it's cute, or on the other hand mean. It's never good to be someone you're not; incorporate your witty jokes, but mix it up with sweetness as well.
It goes a long way if you do nice things every now and then to prove you really like the guy, otherwise he's just going to think you hate him.
Love Always
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