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I would like some good recomendations of Tantric Sex books, dvd's, cd and websites
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A lot of these things you should be able to find on your own... the internet is a wonderful resource and search engines are life savers. It can be really hard to weed through all of the information though, so I suggest when you search for anything related to Tantric Sex, you should go with the sources that focus on the spirituality and the connection between the lovers... if a site/book/dvd is talking almost completely about the orgasm and physical pleasure then the author probably doesn't fully grasp what Tantric Sex is all about and you might as well just be looking up random sex tips.
Here are a few links to some resources that seem authentic and might be of some help...
A few very basic beginners tips:
http://www.care2.com/greenliving/tantric-sex-for-beginners-4-easy-tips.html#
An introductory book for couples on Tantric Sex:
http://www.amazon.com/Introduction-Tantra-Transformation-Lama-Yeshe/dp/0861711629/ref=pd_sim_b_6
For thousands of years, the Kama Sutra has been THE sex book. Here is a modernized version of it.
http://www.amazon.com/Modern-Kama-Sutra-Ultimate-Pleasure/dp/1569243093/ref=pd_sim_b_3
I hope these links help, but odds are you'll find the best results when you search for yourself because only you know exactly what kind of experience you are looking for.
Have fun! ;)
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We are divocred last 8 years she got married again and she ignored me badly. now Iam clean with my addction problem and last 2 years she was seperated and divorced from the husband we have 02 kids we both dating every day after i sleep with her i get so mad and start fighting and go away after one day Ineed her iwant to marry her and live happy life with my kids she want the same please help us. I never had any relation ship with any body after her.
HELPLESS FATHER
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First and foremost, I think you should really remind yourself that she is your EX. That said, you should probably not be sleeping with her. In love or not, sex can cause some extreme emotional complications if you aren't making love under the right conditions.
If you both want this bad enough, I have no doubt that there is the potential to make it work. Love can overcome some incredible obstacles. But first, you should talk about the underlying issues that made you split in the first place, how you both are feeling- the good, the bad, the ugly, and what you both want to change. Any relationship worth having is based off of honesty. So try taking a step back for awhile and connecting on a less passionate level (I realize this can be difficult when you love someone, but which is more difficult... cooling it a little or continuing this emotional roller coaster ride you're on?)
Another important issue you need to address is your children. You don't want to take them with you on this adventure if it's going to end badly, so you and your ex need to make sure that you absolutely want this AND that you think you have the tools and the strength to make it work before you make them go through watching their parents split a second time.
As I mentioned before, I would highly recommend starting to rebuild a strong foundation by sharing your feelings with one another- This way you can pinpoint problems you need to solve and earn one another's trust again. Then, after you have done this and she has moved on completely from her last husband, you could resume dating and a sexual relationship.
Since this woman and the family you have together clearly means the world to you, you should consider going to relationship counseling together. It sounds like you have a complex past and your present situation is not typical either- the help of a professional might do you a world of good and put the two of you back on the right track to getting back together.
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After shaving my legs, I have little black dots on the places where the shaved hair used to grow. My legs have little red spots, where it doesnt look like my legs have been shaved! You can tell where the hair comes in, is there any product i can rub over before or after or whenever to lighten these spots or remove them? (they may be the pores)i hope to fix this soon cuz it is embarassing to wear shorts
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Have you considered waxing your legs? This way, the hair comes completely out, follicle and all, leaving nothing behind- which should eliminate your "black dot" problem.
Sally Hansen makes excellent waxing products- they have wax that you can warm up in the microwave and put on with an applicator as well as strips that already have the wax needed on them, no heating required.
It does sound like you might have sensitive skin, so if you went the waxing route, I would definitely recommend using a bottle of Azulene Finishing Oil (check the brand of waxing kit you buy... the nicer brands often include this or a soothing lotion for free.) Applying this after waxing 1) relieves any pain 2) soothes the skin 3) helps quickly heal any temporary redness or bumps that waxing can sometimes cause on sensitive skin.
A downside is that you do need to let your leg hair grow out some first to be sure the wax grips it well, so no shorts for awhile. But a real plus is that, depending on the rate that your hair grows at, it could be almost a month before you have to shave again.
Another idea: leg hair/imperfections are less noticeable on darker skin. Consider getting a tan or if skin cancer concerns you, there are some great self-tanners out there. Neutrogena and Hempz are both good brands that are fairly inexpensive.
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