Seriously, I have been through it all. You name it, I've been there, done that, seen those things... I've always been told I'm a good listener, and have always been told I'm a great friend who gives amazing advice. I don't know how true that is, I mean after all, I'm no doctor or therapist. But I am caring, and I do want to help. Maybe that's all that really matters. But most importantly: I will not judge you! You are my equal here!
Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you. - Deuteronomy 31:6
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ok so i became friends with this guy a few weeks ago before school started. I sort of admitted to myself Thursday/Friday that i liked him. I think he was flirting with me today, I'm not sure.
So i was on my way to 3rd period (music) when i felt someone shove my backpack not in a rude way but like a "I want your attention!" sort of way. i turned around and saw him, he smiled/waved and took a different route to the same class. and he poked me a few times.
But today at lunch i was walking with him to lunch and we sat down with out friends. I left for a little bit with a girl friend to talk and came back and he was gone. I asked his friend where he went and he said he thought my crush went to go find us. I was sitting down and felt a pair of hands around my waist and squeeze gently. Causing me to squeak. I turned around and he was laughing/smiling at me. He was standing next to the group but next to me more particularlly.
So does he like me? Or flirting? I don't know, Advice would be appreciated! (link)
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Well, it seems like both! He's definitely flirting with you, and while some guys can't help but to flirt with every girl, it sounds like this one has it out for you. ;) As long as you don't see him doing those things with every girl in the area, I think it's safe to say he's diggin' ya'!
Ahh, I remember those days. What a happy feeling you have, I'm sure. :) Be smart though. If you get into a relationship with a boy, it's important not to forget your girlfriends or your school work. And unless you're married and wanting children, you shouldn't be sleeping together.
I've been around the block a time or two, so I'm going to tell you (and you won't want to hear this) high school relationships, while they may feel like the best thing ever and you may think you'll graduate together and get married and have this grand amazing life together, and that's fine, just remember, there's only like a 2% chance that will actually happen.
So like I said, focus on things that will always matter; your friends, your grades, and while it's okay to have a boyfriend, don't let him push you into anything you might regret. Don't lose yourself while getting sucked into the crazy emotions of first loves, is what I'm trying to say. :)
May God bless you, your school work and help you to keep your head on straight while boys are making it dizzy. :P
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my ex who i have been with and have a daughter together
has just left without even giving me a hint or not even talked about it she just left i been trying to contact her with no success i love her so much we kinda broke up late last year she ended it but im still in love with her and have been broken hearted ever since ive heard rumours shes ben seen with another guy but i dont know if thats true what do i do? (link)
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Hey there!
Have you asked her about the rumors? Rumors are usually either made up, or fabrications of the truth, twisted around by people who like to gossip and/or start drama. If you haven't asked her about them, I wouldn't believe anything I've heard. Give her the benefit of the doubt.
If you have asked her about it, but she's avoided the questions, then there's probably something fishy going on. If you've asked her and she's denied the rumors, give her the benefit of the doubt and just try and move forward with the relationship.
That brings me to another question. You say she's just left, but that she broke up with you a year ago? If she broke up with you, then you need to try and move on if there isn't any hope of getting back together. Just because you have a daughter together, doesn't mean you have to be miserable, heartbroken and hanging on your ex's every word.
If she's telling you she isn't seeing anyone, and spending time at your place, then disappearing without a word, you need to confront her. Let her know that you need to know whether or not the two of you are going to give things another shot or not. Tell her it isn't okay that she strings you along and leaves you wondering and heartbroken.
If she doesn't want to be with you, as much as it seems to suck right now, it's probably for the best. Either way she still needs to know that she can't just up and disappear with your daughter. Technically, that's kidnapping and you could actually call the police on her for that.
Just lay it out on the table for her. Either we're giving this a shot, neither of you will see anyone else, and there's no disappearing allowed, or you aren't together and what the two of you do in your own lives isn't any of the others business. But, you both need to be in your daughter's life and you need to be civil about it.
Remember that no matter how you're feeling, you have a little girl who's feeling lost and confused, too.
Good luck and may God bless you three!
xoxo
MissAshlee
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I have known my ex for 7 years. He is the father of my son. We haven't been together dating wise in 5 years. I had moved away. I moved back and he's been very active in his child's life. I love him. I think about him all day every day. He doesn't want to rush or even talk about "us" we both got out of around 4 year relationships. But he says see what the future holds. Am I wasting my breath? (link)
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Hi! :)
I don't think you're wasting your breath. If he's very active in his child's life and is a good guy, I think it could be a great thing to take things slow and see if the two of you can rekindle your relationship.
It's been five years since whatever happened between the two of you has happened. I'm sure you've both done a lot of growing and changing since then. I think he's smart to want to take things slow and not rush into anything and just see how things are and who you are separately before making any decisions.
Respect his boundaries, make yours known as well, but be truthful and also let him know how you're feeling. Honesty from the start and until the end truly is always the best policy.
Give him some time before you bring up "us" again. Allow him time to see who you've become and to show him you and your son are worth taking another swing at something together, as a family. I hope it all works out!
Good luck to you and may God bless you all!
xoxo
MissAshlee
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Is there a specific name for someone who is attractive to every type of human being?
My co-worker says that she is attracted to all types of people and that she has been with women, men, ftm trans, mtf trans, drag queens, etc. And she's practically attracted to all of them and even gay men/women and straight men/basically...Basically anyone!
Is there a name for that? (link)
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I believe that's call being pansexual. But I could be wrong. I heard a friend of mine call himself pansexual one time and then explained that he found himself attracted to any and everyone, lol. I'd maybe Google "pansexual" now and make sure before you call her that!
God bless you!
xoxo
MissAshlee
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Do men come back to you faster if you ignore them? (link)
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Hello!
Being a woman, it's hard to speak for men, especially all men. Remember that despite hearing, "They're all the same!" They actually aren't. So what may be true for one, may not be for another.
I think the more important question here is, if you have to play games, why do you want him back? I think the best thing to do, if he's gone, is let him go. Take the high road and don't play into any childish games.
Realize that the relationship wasn't what it should have been and look forward to the one that will be. In all honesty, I can't imagine how healthy of a relationship you two could have if he only comes back because he was challenged by the fact that you ignored him.
If he's going to come back it should be because he realized what he had, because he misses you and loves you. Not because he likes the challenge of a game. That's very unhealthy and you deserve better than that.
Whatever happens, I wish you the best of luck! May God bless you!
xoxo
MissAshlee
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