Yaaa-my names Missy, and I'm really easy to talk to, just a good listener and that--so if ya ever have ?s or just need to talk I know my shit lol no but i know a lot about stuff goin on in life soo ask away!
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i have been with a girl for the last 18 months and she cheated on me and got with another guy, and on out year and a half anniversary she told him she loved him after knowing him for a week. can she love him? and he dumped her and said he doesnt like her anymore, and i know we cant get back together but sometimes she says i love you and is it wrong for me to say it back, i mean i resent her for cheating on me and breaking our trust and relationship but i love her, help please
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I know people say just move on and all you can think is that they don't know what it's like and you feel like it's impossible--TRUST ME I know!! but you have to try. Sometimes there's something that keeps bringing you back to that person, sometimes it takes getting back together with them for you to be happy and that's fine. but if you never try to walk away, never try to get over it and be your own person you will never know. I don't know anything about you or your situation so there's not a whole lot i can say i guess...but basically the way I see it is; if you really love her and she tells you that she loves you and you feel the same way and you want to tell her--tell her. don't hold back thinking that you're doing the wrong thing, you are the only person who knows how you feel and nobody else can express it but you, so if you want to express it, then DO! Just be careful that she doesn't take you for granted because if you do take her back once for something like that she may think you'll do it again...Anyhow, sorry about your situation and I hope that I helped
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ok well me and my boyfriend broke up but we still say i love you and mean it but i kinda like this other guy at my school...what do i do we flirt all the time..
(my EX and i dont go to the same school but talk every night and are plannin to get back wit eachother he says we "seperated" bcz we plan on goin back out like this weekend..when we see eachother on saturday!!) (link)
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depending on how you feel for this other guy and how you feel for your ex you need to make your decision...you kinda have to go with your instinct....think about which guy is the 'better' guy and which will treat you better...good luck in your decision.....just another thought: be careful to not sorta be with both at the same time, if one or the other finds out they might think you're cheating and lose your trust
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soooorry its long, but i need help :(
Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!
p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss! (link)
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definately just be honest with him....tell him that one year and 2 months isn't worth breaking up because of one fight, no matter what it's about....tell him you want to work thru it, and listen to what he has to say....if he says he wants to also, then great good for you guys and just do what you can to see things how the other person does...if he says no, then you have to show him how much you care. don't be overbearing just do the little things you know he'll care about and i'm sure he'll be appreciative! good luck!
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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples. (link)
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Don't lie, if she catches you, it'll seem like you never wanted to talk in the first place, just be honest...If you wanna watch TV just say hey I'm gonna watch this show and I'll tlak to you tomorrow, or say what you want to do! Also, a way to avoid her thinking you want a long conversation is by calling and saying, I just wanted to say hi and see how your day went and with the questions answered say well I better go or whatever...but as a girl I must say...I'm not one for a looong conversation every night but if my boyfriend didn't call me everyday or have a long conversation every once in a while, I'd feel distant..Hope I helped and good luck with your girl! = )
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hey Missy... you gave me the best advice so im gonna come back to you for this... the guy i was talking about is also a yr younger...and he just started high school w/ me... the friend who is helping me out is known to be VERY flirty... even though she has a serious relationship. I wanna be able to talk to this guy openly real soon but i get so nervous and i just need adice on how to approach him... FAST! lol plz help! I appreciate all your help! (link)
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I'm reallly glad I could help ya out! even though it sounds kinda silly, like seriously just think out a conversation in your head. The only bad thing about 'talking' to a guy is when it's those uncomfortable silences. so just like think about things you could say to him and what'd he'd say back and those cute lil one liners you could say right back to him. Just use stuff like how was ur weekend orr how do you like ur classes or whatever when it comes to normal conversation and if it happens to come up about him liking you and he asks questions try and get him to answer first. Then, it gives you more time to think about what to say back, plus if he answers something easy then you can too, rather then you going to a novel about how u feel and him being like ya i dig you...if that makes any sense, just play it cool and just try and be relaxed and just go for it hun!! i dono if i helped ya out again, but if ya wanna know anything else just let me know! catchya later! (BTW--my sn is missblondy19 so if ya need quick answers just catch me on there!)
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ok....my friend right now is suppose to help me hook up w/ this guy from our school...so far everything is good... he says im very attractive and he asked for my sn so i could talk to him some more and get to knw me. This always happens that when i finally get what i would like something goes wrong, like i get unsatisfied or he just says "i don't wanna gf right now" what can i do or say to make this time diffrent... anything i should do to catch his eye? (link)
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Definately talk to him yourself and don't have conversations through a friend...I'm the kinda girl who is just always herself and I kinda play a little hard to get at first. I make the guy do the calling and the asking to hang out and all that sorta thing, I think it makes him work for you, and when a guy is willing to work for you it usually shows his intrest being a lil higher if you know what I'm saying. Plus it's kinda fun! =) Just don't go overboard and make him do how to lose a guy in 10 days kinda things. Just play the mysterious kinda does she like me does she not like me kinda girl! good luck!
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ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..
see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.
thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
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heyy--my names missy, and I have a boyfriend I feel the same way about...I don't think anything is neccesarly 'normal' b/c I dono how there can be a normal when everyones so different...BUUUT! I do feel the same way so if that helps, I don't think there's anything wrong w/ you and I think it's totally ok, soo Good luck with your boyfriend and--what other people say don't matter--it's how YOU feel, what YOOU think...there's always gonna be someone who looks down on you for what you do, just let them and learn from it..everyone has different values and feels differently about everything, that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them--it just makes them who they are! =)
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