My names Jen. Im not really gonna tell you much about me because you can go to either my Xanga (www.xanga.com/x_jenniferlovesyou_x) or to my myspace (www.myspace.com/godsmilesdown) && learn more about me. But I've made enough mistakes in my life, and have been through enough to help some people out a little bit. I can help with Love, Friendship, Family, Sex, Mental stuff (cutting, eating disorders ect.) whichever you need, im here.
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Ok, Bob and I met through a mutual friend at the beginning of this school year. He and I hit it off pretty good and we were just friends. Then one day, I was hugging my other friend Jacob, when, I saw Bob. And I was like "Bob, gimme some love." and he came over and hugged me and he was like "I'll gove you some love". Adn then he like humped my leg, but it was really funny and everyone was standing there. Now, I like him and now it seems liek he never talks to me anymore. I don't know what to do. He's a senior and I'm a sophomore. Please give advice. We are really good friends.
***Names were changed*** (link)
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how are you really good friends if you dont talk?...
best thing to do is get over it hun. trust me with this. liking seniors is never a good thing unless your another senior
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K so about a month ago Mr. X (who doesn't know I exist) walked across my PE class to get the the basketball court outside. Usually we have people walking in and out all the time so it wasn't so odd. Other than that, I barely see him around school. I took a PE class to meet him maybe but he is in a more advanced class.
So today, I went inside his PE Class and was playing hoops when he walked in and looked at me with a suprised expression on his face and asked his friend "Is this the ------- right class?". I didn't understand why he would say that because usually people walk into the gym and play all the time.
So my friend and I moved to the outside courts and started playing hoops in the rain. There was only a guy at the edge of the court, trying to tie his shoelaces. Other than that it was just me and my friend. Then Mr. X walks outside with his friend and stands at the edge of the court with his friend, dribbling a soccer ball with his feet. Anyways, he just stands there for like 10 minutes, dribbling and talking to his friend. It was odd because everyone inside was playing ball and he led his friend outside to where me and my friend were playing.
Sorry if this is long but is he interested maybe or...? I rate 5's. (link)
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I dont think so, maybe he brought his friend out to talk in private? and the thing about the right class, who knows, guys are difficult like that :-p
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There is a guy who i've just recently became really good friends with this year. Last year he was in one of my classes and we barely talked, but this year we ended up being in four classes together and became really good friends. Plus I found out he lived three houses away from me and we hung out once in a while.
He has a crush on one of my friends, a cheerleader who told me she wasn't interested in him at all and thought he was annoying. He told me she was sending mixed signals, flirting with him then ignoring him. She wanted to hook him up with someone else so he would leave her alone. But she was too nice to tell him that, so she wanted me to hook up with him or at least find someone else to. I was like, wtf? I thought that she was being a little rude when she said that, especially trying to push my friend on me just because she didn't want him liking her.
The next day, he was asking me whether or not he had a chance with her and i debated between telling the truth or saying I had no idea, because on one hand, if i told the truth, he might move on and she wouldnt complain so much , but then I might hurt his feelings. But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else.
Is what I did right? He seemed a little upset when he heard that she wanted him to go out with someone else, but got over it quickly. I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings though he didn't say it. Was what i did right? Or was I just meddling in someone else's business? Because if I didn't do anything about it, she would have been too nice to tell him to his face that she didnt like him and keep leading him on. (link)
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I think you could've told him a little nicer... I mean, "Telling the truth without telling all of the truth" kinda thing. "But I finally told him to "get over it" because she thought his actions were annoying and she wanted to hook him up with someone else." Is a little harsh, maybe if you had said she really wasnt intrested, or she was into someone else or something, but i wouldnt worry about it anyway, i mean, boys get over things fast.. most of the time, lol.
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This is definetely not the greatest of questions..Here I go, Im a guy, and for whatever reason Im always extremely horny, I could just have finished having sex, 10 minutes later i need some more, Im pretty sure this is normal, but just in case there is something wrong with me, i figured I would ask. Also ladies, is this something positive, negative, or does it even matter when looking for potential bf material? (link)
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BF material isnt always about sex... Girls Vaginas get tired..unlike your penis... it starts to hurt, so yea, i woudlnt say its the greatest thing ever..
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i like this dude but im scared to tell him. i wrote him a message but then i chickened out and said srry wrong jesse...anyways i go to church with him and we always set by each other...and i cant take it anymore ...pleze help (link)
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Well, I believe the best thing to do is be straight forward about it, tell him how it is face to face, and DONT hold back. Dont get too detailed, just after church one day, be like "hey, i gotta talk to you about something real fast" then just tell him how you feel. I've got to say it doesnt gaurentee you guys will hook up, but at least ull feel better:)
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Ok .. Ive really been wanting this answered but ive been shy.. ive been talking to this guy on the internet.. and @ first he was REALLY rude to me but i just kept playing with him.. funning around.. and well now.. hes liike ive never fallen inlove withanyone and he told me he fell in love with me.. and well we have this thing.. wen he doesnt want to tell me something.. we start a story type thing using "she" and "he" ex: "he hugs her and kisses her on the cheek" well .. ok he lives in alabama... and im really wanting to kno if u shud stop talking to him or not. and hes scared to show me his pictures because his parents beet him .. so he has scars... so i told him i didnt care.. and not hes really shy... well in the begging hes like NO ONE BREAKS MY LEVELS... and i was like wtf.. and he said the lower levels u r the better and so the first days i was on level 9 billion... now sumhow... it has been drasticly dropping.. and i was kinda jealous because he talks about this gilr names shadow an awful lot.. but i shudnt be.. ok just please help me !!! XD
Do i keep talking to him... what do i do? oh yeah .. ps IM 14....and a girl (link)
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Uh.. HELLO. he doesnt want to show you pics because hes uhm, some freaky old stalker guy trying to kill and rape you maybe? his parents most likely dont beat him, and if his scars were as visible as he says, social servis's would've taken care of him a long time ago, so yea, he sounds like a total creep...
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I have been dating this guy for over two years. He always express verbally that he loves me and he showers me the appropriate gifts when the occasion calls for it and I do the same. Because of our schedules we see each other about once or twice a week and when we are together we only spend time with each other. We go to movies, dinner, dancing, etc. Now here is the problem. When it comes to family and friend events, I am never invited by him. Either his parents or friends invite me. I feel I should be invited by him and I don’t attend. I have expressed my feelings about this to him. His replay was that I tend to throw temper tantrums, verbally abuse him, and then not return his calls when I am upset with him and once he sees that my attitude has changed he would consider it. Now I have only done this a few time during the course of our relationship and never in public. I do realize that I was wrong and immature and I have apologized. Several months have past since the last incident and I have still not been invited by him. But I was never invited even before the incident. (I have since stop inviting him to my family and friends gathering and now he is mad.) Is this just an excuse? Should I continue to wait and if so how long or do I need to move on? (link)
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It seems like your relationship is in a big snag. This could creat a lot of serious problems, sit him down, and talk it out with him again, tell him its the same feeling you had when he basicly called you immature, tell him the times past, and to get over it, you guys are in a relationship, the past is the past hun. Good luck!
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