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Im a female, and I'm 15 years old. Ok so there's this guy I've known since like 2nd grade and we've always been like best friends (He's about a year younger than me)- I've had a crush on him for as long as I can remember, but I never said anything. Well last year around Christmas, I told him how I felt (that I liked him etc.) He said that he liked me back. Then we started making out. Then on Christmas night I spent the night at his house and it was about 1:00am and we were watching tv and we were talking about doing "stuff". Then he fingered me. The next morning it wasn't awkward or anything it was just like things were before. We had previously dry humped.(practically had sex with our clothes on- but it seems like he may have just been messing around.) he's so hard to read. I don't think he knows it but I want to "be with him" (have sex) SO BAD!!! I don't know how he feels, so i don't know what to do, and i don't just want to come out and say hey i want to have sex with you, but i really want to. It seems like everytime I'm around him I just want to jump on top of him, and when we're not together, he's all I think about. I think I'm in love with him. What do you think I should do, and how do I tell him the things I want to do with him without sounding stupid. Please help me. (link)
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Well, for one thing. You have to be careful about sex, because it's a huge step forward in your life, with thousands of consiquences.
But, if you think that you're ready, then maybe you should just do things leading up to it.
And if he's not getting the signals then you should sit down and talk to him about it.
Tell him that you have really strong feelings for him and you don't know if he feels the same, but you're ready for anything. And that you're in love with him.
And if he thinks that you sound stupid, then let him. Because atleast he knows how you feel.
But I wouldn't move too quick, because you also don't want to lose him while in the process of getting to that point.
Hope I helped. (:
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my best friend "maggie" likes this guy, "jason". maggie is an amazing girl, but she is awful with guys. she changes her mind constantly. one day, she'll love a guy, she'll get him to go for her, then she'll decide she doesn't feel the same way about them. that's what she's been like for as long as i know her, and she has a whole lot of guys who hate her. this guy jason is really hot, and i talked to him a little bit in the beginning of the school year, and we have a class together. we're friends. so maggie decides she likes him, just when jason and i start to really talk and be good friends. this was about 2 weeks ago. it kind of made me mad, bc it was completely out of the blue. but whatever. i was talking to jason a few nights ago, and i asked him what he thought of maggie. he said 'ew, no, never! sorry, but i just could never see it happening. she's not my type.' so i asked him what his type was, and he perfectly described me, down to my hair and eye color and the sport i play. i asked him if he had something he wanted to tell me, and he said 'yeah, i gotta crush on you, i have for a while.' now i really don't know what to do, bc jason is a really great guy. i'm thinking maggie's gonna change her mind in a little bit anyway, and jason's not gonna ask me out bc he knows my best friend likes him and he cares about me and doesnt want to mess anything up for me and maggie. but should i tell her that he likes me, and i kinda like him? or should i tell her that he's not interested before she wastes her time or makes a fool of herself? and if i do that, and something happens with me and jason in the future, won't i look like a massive bitch? my conscience tells me to forget about jason and ignore him for now, but what happens when maggie changes her mind about him, like i know she will? would it still be wrong to like jason? help! (link)
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You should definitely go for him. If he's in to you, and you're in to him, then you shouldn't let anything get in your way. But on the other hand, you're like me. You always think about other peoples feelings first, instead of your own. But if he really makes you happy, you shouldn't hide it from her. I mean, best friends are supposed to tell eachother everything correct? And even if it does hurt her, there's plenty of guys out there. And also, she'll get over it. And atleast you're enough of a friend to tell her how you feel.
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hi 14f bf 16 xD
well yesterday i was talking to my bf I said I was going to change my hair. I told him I was going to make my hair wavy and where some makeup. He said "Me no like ;/ " and i asked him what did he meant and he said " I love your hair the way it is and You don't need make up." He said i don't like the girls with the make up that makes them look like clowns, i dont like the bright lipstick, a little eyeliner is fine but you don't need it. soo i like wearing makeup but what makeup should i do that he would approve of? I don't wear it often. Thanks!
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Well, obibiously as you can tell by what he has said, that he doesn't really like you wearing make-up. So, if it makes it a lot easier, ask him what he means by "me no like :/" and just do simply as he says, a little eye-liner or none at all. What he's trying to do is tell you that you're beautiful no matter what you look like :)
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